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28 Saint Louis, MO Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22-35
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:05pm
Straight, Heteroflexible
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 2" (1.57m)
Body Type
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Italian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I like knowing stuff, all stuff, and I have a podcast problem. I tend toward non-fiction and academic topics, but I long for the days when I felt up-to-date on pop culture.* Can you recommend a podcast to keep me young and/or cool? Please contact me immediately.

Things I think are sexy: Good cooking, well-crafted arguments, thinking (and even liking) that nothing in the world is black and white, people who care about mastering their hobbies, skinny nerds with artsy sides, people who think too hard about everything.

I'm happily and non-monogamously partnered. If you're down for something low-commitment and fun, send me a message.

*This was never. This has never happened to me.
What I’m doing with my life
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Grad school, education and technology.

Lifting weights: I like being strong!

Cooking: I learn new techniques and then apply them to brunch. Brunch is so perfect I can't even -- it's sweet AND savory, there's booze in my juice, and I get to go back to sleep after because it's Sunday.

Coding: It's fun, plus I'm hoping to be in IT after my degree.

Playing in a nerdy folk band: We set Tolkien lyrics to folk music. It's basically the grown-up version of being in Math Club (which I was).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
In no particular order: spelling and grammar, learning languages, cheering up sad people, eating quickly, locating free Wi-Fi in airports, keyboard shortcuts, math and statistics, trivia
The first things people usually notice about me
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Short hair. Smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Most of what I read is science-y stuff. Recent favorite is Relentless Evolution by John Thompson. Other than that...
True Grit
Station Eleven
Some Kind of Fairy Tale
American Savage
Anything about cooking, anything at all.

True Grit
28 Days Later
The Full Monty
Legally Blonde
Rosemary's Baby
Black Swan

TV shows:
Mad Men
The Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt
30 Rock
Orange is the New Black
Buffy the Vampire Slayer

Dan Carlin's Hardcore History
The Splendid Table
Call Your Girlfriend

Ryan Adams
Lyle Lovett
Paul Simon
Shovel and Rope
The Tallest Man On Earth
Gillian Welch
Tom Waits
Also I once threatened to kick someone out of my car for trying to throw my Taylor Swift CD out the window. We're no longer friends, I'm just saying.

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My cats. They rule.
2. Amy Poehler. Feminism.
3. Good food. Bad food also. I love food. Food food food.
4. Smart and/or surreal comedy, any medium. Mike Birbiglia rules and so does this joke: Two cows are in a field. One says to the other, "Hey man, are you worried about this mad cow disease thing?" The other says, "No way, I'm a plane."
5. My iPhone. Don't hate! It's the only reason I make it on time to things (like dates).
6. NPR. I know this is so not the point, but seriously if Diane Rehm started a cult, I'd join it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why I'm covered in glitter all the fucking time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not wearing pants.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have shit myself twice in a day before. I was 26.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Your favorite rom com is Gone Girl too.

You don't think every silence is awkward.

You can make me laugh. That's not a challenge, as in, "Message me if you're funny enough to make me laugh, for I am difficult to entertain!" It's actually really easy to make me laugh. I laugh at my own jokes all the time and they're usually not even funny.

You can beat me in Scrabble. That IS a challenge, motherfucker.