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23 F Sacramento, CA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Sign Language (Okay)

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My self-summary
I like smiling at strangers and dancing in grocery stores. I am a scattered combination of masculine and feminine and am attracted to all sorts of people. My giant crush as of late is Andrea Gibson, but until we meet and marry one another I am having a grand old time living on the grid, leading a pleasantly queer life surrounded by pleasantly queer people. :}
What I’m doing with my life
Building it!
Theatering, Psychologizing, and Musicing.
I have 1-3 jobs on any given week, usually involving children with or without special needs.

Enjoying meeting and getting to know people, sharing stories, activities, and playing the rest by ear. I am a fiend for genuine connection and communication!
I’m really good at
Dog charming
Music making
Last minute essay writing
Drunk cooking
Interpretive street dancing
Word things
Languages- really though, I have studied many. Allow me to teach you so I have more people to use them with!
The first things people usually notice about me
My willingness to make a fool of myself
My tattoos
My vocabulary
My flamboyant enthusiasm and optimism- I am incapable of concealing my eager kindness. It is like a child that, although fun at times, always manages to interrupt important things like "being suave" and "playing it cool".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
There are so very many, but lately:

Augusten Burroughs, Haruki Murakami, Jonathan Safran Foer, Natsuo Kirino, Dennis Cooper, Janet Fitch, Margaret Atwood

I Heart Huckabees, Martyrs, Smoke Signals, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Audition

Law and Order: SVU, The L Word (yep I said it), SYTYCD

St. Lucia, Aether, Drake, Oberst, Fever Ray, Bonobo, Jeremih, Prefuse 73

All of the food. Except for gluten foods. I love wheat things but I can't eat them anymore. Woe is me.
The six things I could never do without
Journal + Pen
Buddies and generally rad humans
Open communication
My dog Simon who lives with my mom <3
... and a decent haircut
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Intersectional feminism.
"Wait... was that culturally appropriative? Shit."
New songs I am writing, and my giant backlog of unrecorded material.
What various individuals might be like in bed.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either in my quaint little studio apartment reading or working on music stuff, or adventuring through midtown, especially gaytown :D
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes I fall in love with girls I have never spoken to, just because I watched them turn a page in a book in a certain way or smile on the sidewalk. Artist problems, sigh.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to meet in person at some point.
You like dogs.
You are aware of a number of social justice issues and are passionate about them.
You're really queer, and possibly older than me.
You don't have a really strong preference on your partner's gender presentation, or you like fairly androgynous people.
You want to discuss Conor Oberst lyrics with me.
Or my lyrics with me...
You want to play word games on paper with me.
Or draw pictures.