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25 Sacramento, CA Genderqueer, Woman, Gender Nonconforming

Genderqueer, Woman, Gender Nonconforming

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:32am
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Other and it’s important
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat), Sign Language (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I like smiling at strangers and dancing in grocery stores. I also like vocabulary and bad jokes.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being hella queer and poly and artsy and relatively opinionated about social issues and folding laundry

I live in midtown in a building with a bunch of studios that I often refer to as a commune, as most of my neighbors are friends of mine. We all work within a block of the apartments and spend probably way too much time together. You can also find me on other parts of the grid, sometimes performing songs or poetry, participating in some community event, or just gallivanting around :D
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dog charming
Music making
Last minute essay writing
Drunk cooking
Interpretive street dancing
Word things
Languages- I have studied many. But I'm getting rusty so let's have a language party!!! :()
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My willingness to make a fool of myself
My tattoos
My vocabulary
My flamboyant enthusiasm and optimism- It is like a child that, although fun at times, always manages to interrupt important things like "being suave" and "playing it cool".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
There are so very many, but lately:

Augusten Burroughs, Haruki Murakami, Jonathan Safran Foer, Natsuo Kirino, Dennis Cooper, Janet Fitch, Margaret Atwood

I Heart Huckabees, Martyrs, Smoke Signals, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Audition

I binge watch SVU and pretend to be Dr. Huang

The Knife, St. Lucia, The Radio Dept, Aether, Oberst, Fever Ray, Bonobo, Jeremih, Prefuse 73, Deerhoof, lots of jazzy lounge instrumental jams with beats, 90's rnb jamz

All of the food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Journal + Pen
Buddies and generally rad humans
Open communication
My dog Simon who lives with my mom <3
... and a decent haircut

*honorable mention to
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Intersectional feminism.
"Wait... was that culturally appropriative? HMM."
New songs and poems I am writing, and my giant backlog of unrecorded material.
If people who work at food places resent when I order food to go but then end up eating all of it inside.
What various individuals might be like in bed.
Different vitamins and herbs and their health properties.
Whether or not I should rearrange my apartment again, as there are only so many options in a studio.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting drunk and crying about gender
Just kidding. I don't cry about it much anymore.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-You want to meet in person at some point.
-You like dogs.
-You are aware of a number of social justice issues and are passionate about them.
-You're really queer.
-And really visibly queer, possibly on the more masculine end of the spectrum or the middle and maybe get mistaken for a boy sometimes but still are attracted to faily androgynous people or don't have a huge preference on a partner's gender presentation but preferrably the prior goddammit why do so many hot queers only like femmes asjgdgfhkxgs anyhow
-You want to discuss Conor Oberst lyrics with me.
-Or my lyrics with me...
-You want to play word games on paper with me.
-Or draw pictures.