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I’m looking for
- Ages 21–35
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Feb 27
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body Type
- Other, and somewhat serious about it
- Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), German (Okay), Sign Language (Okay)
I live in midtown in a building with a bunch of studios that I often refer to as a commune, as most of my neighbors are friends of mine. We all work within a block of the apartments and spend probably way too much time together. You can also find me on other parts of the grid, sometimes performing songs or poetry, participating in some community event, or just gallivanting around :D
Last minute essay writing
Interpretive street dancing
Languages- I have studied many. But I'm getting rusty so let's have a language party!!! :()
My flamboyant enthusiasm and optimism- It is like a child that, although fun at times, always manages to interrupt important things like "being suave" and "playing it cool".
Augusten Burroughs, Haruki Murakami, Jonathan Safran Foer, Natsuo Kirino, Dennis Cooper, Janet Fitch, Margaret Atwood
I Heart Huckabees, Martyrs, Smoke Signals, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Audition
I binge watch SVU and pretend to be Dr. Huang
The Knife, St. Lucia, The Radio Dept, Aether, Oberst, Fever Ray, Bonobo, Jeremih, Prefuse 73, Kendrick, Deerhoof, lots of jazzy lounge instrumental jams with beats
All of the food.
Buddies and generally rad humans
My dog Simon who lives with my mom <3
... and a decent haircut
*honorable mention to Autostraddle.com
"Wait... was that culturally appropriative? HMM."
New songs and poems I am writing, and my giant backlog of unrecorded material.
If people who work at food places resent when I order food to go but then end up eating all of it inside.
What various individuals might be like in bed.
Different vitamins and herbs and their health properties.
Whether or not I should rearrange my apartment again, as there are only so many options in a studio.
-You like dogs.
-You are aware of a number of social justice issues and are passionate about them.
-You're really queer.
-And really visibly queer, possibly on the more masculine end of the spectrum or the middle and maybe get mistaken for a boy sometimes but still are attracted to faily androgynous people or don't have a huge preference on a partner's gender presentation but preferrably the prior goddammit why do so many hot queers only like femmes asjgdgfhkxgs anyhow
-You want to discuss Conor Oberst lyrics with me.
-Or my lyrics with me...
-You want to play word games on paper with me.
-Or draw pictures.
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