Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a Feminist Studies graduate from UC Santa Cruz! It's an
everyday struggle to be myself, like girls without objectification,
and confront the pervasive effects of homophobia, misogyny, and
racism in our everyday lives. That's life as a Feminist geek!
I'm a singer, actor, scholar, and dancer (not all of those at the
same time, and not particularly the best at any one of them)
I'm a dork in my spare time! I like OLD Dr. Who (William
Hartnell!), OLD Batman (Adam West!), and singing OLD songs (Doo-wop
and rock from my childhood)
What I’m doing with my life
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Although I have my BA in Feminist Studies, I am doing
pre-requisites for Nursing at a community college. I want to be an
I'm an occasional sight at midnight at the Rocky Horror Picture
show. I have a fabulous wig that could probably use a good brushing
I'm probably singing a broadway ballad because I get to express my
emotions better when I sing, instead of in life, where I keep being
told to push them down.
I have a long love affair with ballet, which generally means I have
unhappy muscles and even more unhappy feet. I still struggle with
learning 8 counts so I've never been better than an amateur dancer.
I’m really good at
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Being intense? If being more intense than the average guy is a
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The first things people usually notice about me
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I write too fast, and too much. Those of you who have been message
bombed by me probably find very quickly that I tend to use the
dartboard method of communication, throw as much as possible about
me at first and hope something sticks.
I smile an awful lot, my laugh is...quirky, and I tend to bounce
around when I'm nervous.
Almost all of my friends are female. This is a holdover from being
a Feminist Studies major, but I generally don't have much to talk
about with other guys. If it wasn't for geek/singing stuff, I
wouldn't have any male friends at all.
Apparently I have a nice butt. People tend to notice when I wear
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Book: American Gods by Neil Gaiman
Favorite TV Show: The Pretender (I think Micheal T. Weiss is
really, really hot)
Favorite Music: I'm definitely into East Coast Punk Cabaret and
awesome contemporary folk influenced music - Amanda Palmer, Zoe
Boekbinder, Unwoman, Jill Tracy, Nicki Jaine. and Musicals. Lots of
Food: Thai food is probably my favorite Ethnic food style - I tend
to want the whole menu at any Thai restaurant. I prefer to cook
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Sondheim Musicals
2. Stephen Fry
3. Discworld Novels!
5. Thai food
6. Being awkwardly in love with someone (Generally unreciprocated,
such is life)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make the future brighter! How to try to build a society
where genders are more equal, a society where we don't have a
permanent underclass of people trapped in nowhere jobs because of
non violent criminal offenses.
The Dalai Lama! He's a great inspiration for me, and I got to see
him in Foxboro, MA during a difficult time in my life, and he was
very inspiring in getting through that.
Whatever happened to Nicki Jaine? She was this amazing musician
from Philadelphia who completely disappeared off the Internet circa
2011. I used to be facebook friends with her back before their were
"fans" on the site. But I think she's retired or something...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out with friends. Either I'm going to sing, I'm going to role-play,
or just enjoy the time I have with people I care about.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I didn't kiss a girl until I was 22.
I kissed a boy first. I didn't particularly like it. He was not
wearing cherry chapstick, maybe that would have made it work.
Oh, big thing. I don't get texting. Texting, for me, is a bad form
of communication - I hate not being able to get any kind of
inflection or context for what people say, and I tend to say what
people do not want to hear when I write a text based on my
perception of a person. Definitely don't want that as a primary
form of communication.
You should message me if
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you could figure out that me writing you a really long message was
me being genuinely me instead of trying some pose for socially
Message me if you'd like to laugh, like to discuss gender, awesome
music, and make great new friends. I don't think anyone can have
enough great friends, and I'd really like to get to know you.
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