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43 Lansing, MI Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:39am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
A little extra
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Has cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
(EDIT 3/2215 - My wife has died. I'm really in no position to be getting newly involved with anyone. I'll change this tag when that changes. be well, be loved.)

I'm in a stable, long-term, open poly relationship (which is to say married and dating other people) and looking for friends who might want to become intimates and play partners. I'm also interested in meeting cool people to add into my social circle as well, so feel free to drop me a line even if you're not really looking for someone along those lines. It's all good.

I am large, affectionate, and insane
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Wouldn't you like to know? ; ) Well, the long story short: I am working to keep money in hand while my wife completes her studies, and writing to get my stuff out there for my own, evil reasons. The plan is that, once the studies are done, we will be taking advantage of that elevation to go do something else, most likely somewhere else.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, bullshitting, cooking, being a friend in need.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I got me a pot belly, deep brown eyes and a big smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
China Mieville, Clive Barker, Timothy Hallinan, John Burdett, H.P. Lovecraft, Edgar Allan Poe, Tom Standage, Erik Larson, Warren Ellis, Alan Moore, Grant Morrison, Mark Millar; Blade Runner, Star Wars 4-6, Event Horizon, Star Trek 2, 4, 6, 8 and the relaunch, Blazing Saddles, Alien & Aliens, District 9, Princess Bride, Almost Famous, Plan 9 from Outer Space, Repo Man, Reanimator; Gary Numan, Kraftwerk, Underworld, 70's punk and 80's new wave and 90's ethereal, Radiohead, Iron Maiden, Sisters of Mercy, David Gray; Doctor Who old and new, Torchwood, BSG, Eureka, Warehouse 13, Stargate: SG1 & Atlantis, Sanctuary, ST: OS, TNG, DS9, Space 1999, Heroes, X-Files, Millennium; Call of Cthulhu, Vampire, Wraith, Space 1889; Sushi, Arabic, Italian, Chinese, Indian, Thai, BBQ, greasy spoon.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
0, My lovely wife, 1, friends and lovers; 2, food and drink; 3, books and movies; 4, something to write on and about; 5, the joy of knowing it all works together, and works out in the end; 6, legos!; 7, learning to count; 8, what?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Things I need to write about, as well as keeping my social schedule full and happy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Open to suggestions :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're large and in charge, and looking for fun with people who aren't all about stupid hookups and idiot games. Pagan BBWs rock my world. But, like I said, if you're just looking for a friend, I can always use more of them, too.