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32 M Redwood City, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:30pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Other, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
“Here's all you have to know about men and women: women are crazy, men are stupid. And the main reason women are crazy is that men are stupid.” - George Carlin

I'm a creative/technical/spiritual person. By day I work as NOC Engineer in the valley, and by night I work tirelessly on my fantasy writing. I like photography also, and eventually want my creative pursuits to be a full time career. I like to eat healthy, and exercise. Tennis, yoga, cardio are the main ones. I don't drink, but I'm ok with being around someone if they occasionally have one or two. I have a great sense of humor, but you gotta get to know me a little for it to really come out.

On a day off I'll be reading a fantasy book, or lying around sore from exercise, hanging with family (very close to them), working on my writing project, or watching a good movie. I avoid negativity like the plague, and have made strides in getting rid of all the unconscious b.s. around me. I just want to enjoy my life.

Music (wide range):

1. Neo Folk
2. Folk
3. Good Rock/Metal
4. Jazz
5. A few old country songs
6. Drum N Baas, some modern pop bands
7. I like 80s Goth music also.
8. The Doors!!!

Go Giants! (2x world series!!!) I can't wait to see what happens this season!

Note: If I made a list of my ideal partner they would have:

1. Open minded. Willing to explore different ways of thinking.
2. Healthy life style.
3. Doesn't drink, or very little. Doesn't do drugs or smoke.
4. Respectful of other's feelings, not afraid to face the truth, and wants to grow.
5. Educated.
6. Family oriented.
What I’m doing with my life
This is the latest list:

1. Writing project (super serious).
2. Tennis/Cardio/Yoga (less Yoga though shoulder hurts)
3. Looking for new social venues.
4. Seeing my family more.
5. Photography is on the back burner atm.
6. Dorking with health food.

That's it for now!
I’m really good at
Writing, Creative Project Management
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Classical: Bach, Mozart, Rachmaninoff, Stravinsky, Vivaldi, Chopin, Ravel etc

Jazz: Louis Armstrong, Duke Ellington, Miles Davis, Jelli Roll Morton, Dizzie, Charlie Parker.

Techno/DrumNBase/Ambient: Aphex Twin, Orbital, Acen, Diesel Boy, DJ Shadow, Fluke, FSOL, I-Cube, Infected Mushroom, John Digiweed, Juno Reactor, Mark Farina, Mocean Worker, Moby, Thievery Corporation, Various trance artists.

Oldies: The Doors, Cream, Led Zeppelin, The Beatles, Jefferson Airplane, Roy Orbison, Bob Dylan, The Band, The Temptations, Stevie Ray Vaughn, Jimi Hendrix, Iron Butterfly, Moody Blues,

Darker Music: Bauhaus, Depressed Mode (hehehe), Suzy Su, Coil, Covenant, And One, Dead Can Dance, Death in June, Joy Division, New Order, Mono, Portishead, PWEI, The Smiths, The Stranglers, Tear Garden.


[Books Listed in no order]

1. Wheel of Time Series by Robert Jordan 2. Enders Game by Orson Scott Card 3. The Ronin by William Dale Jennings 4. A Samurais Tale by Eric C. Haaguard 5. Ishmael by Daniel Quinn 6. The Silence of the Lambs, and Red Dragon by Thomas Harris 7. Chung Kou series by David Wingrove 8. Small Gods (and others) by Terry Pratchet 9. The Dragon and the Unicorn series by A.A. Atanasio 10. Weave World, and Imajica by Clive Barker 11. The Joy Luck Club, by Amy Tan 12. American Psycho by Bret Easton Ellis 13. Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas by Hunter S. Thompson 14. Galapagos by Kurt Vonegut 15. Sidartha, Beneath the Wheel, The Fairy Tales of Herman Hesse by Herman Hesse 16. Treason by Orson Scott Card 17. Lord Fouls Bane by Stephen R. Donaldson 18. The Illuminatus Trilogy by Robert Shea 19. The Mists of Avalon by Marion Zimmer Bradley 20. Gates of Fire and the Virtues of War, and others by Steven Pressfield 21. The Tripod Trilogy by John Christopher (going back to the 5th grade here) 22. Shogun by James Clavell 23. The Lord of the Rings, The Hobbit, The Silmarillion by J.R.R. Tolkien 24. Various plays by Shakespeare including my favorite Macbeth 25. A Seperate Peace by John Knowles 26. To Kill A Mockingbird by Harper Lee
The six things I could never do without
1. My laptop 2. The company of people 3. My family 4. My health 5. Trying new things 6. My wallet ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
1. The problems of the world. 2. Where I will be someday 3. How to solve things
On a typical Friday night I am
I am either going out and doing something, or I am hanging out with friends. Sometimes I stay indoors. If I'm doing this I'm writing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I surf the internet too much.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You want someone that will challenge the way you think.