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60 F Lopez, WA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 18
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Just another girl, but different. You know, of a certain age only sorta younger. I believe that what we do matters and that kindness is a high value. At the same time, I find that gentle sarcasm and humor can cut to the heart of a matter as eloquently as cautious sincerity. I like an edge. Beauty can and does take my breath away. Be it the sweep of sky dashed golden pink or a small human kindness witnessed. I enjoy hiking and sleeping outside. I'm happier with fresh flowers on the table. I like the surprise of city streets, foreign or local but also know the uniqueness of living close in a small community where everyone knows your name. I love my daughters. How could I not?

I am good hearted, unconventional, and engaging
What I’m doing with my life
Redefining it. Building a house. Opening doors that seemed closed.
The first things people usually notice about me
If it is one of those days, they may notice my socks.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Geraldine Brooks,'Year of Wonders', 'Nine Parts of Desire'etc, Mary Doria Russell 'A Thread of Grace', and others. 'What is the What'. Books on global AIDS, international health, infectious disease - really. Poetry --William Stafford, Mary Oliver, Sam Hammill. Movies - 'The Lives of Others' lingered long, . Music: Jerry Jeff Walker and I have an almost unabashed affection for sappy songs. Fresh is good - foodwise. I like Indian, Vietnamese, and chocolate. Chinese food was never meant to be orange really.
The six things I could never do without
water. fresh air. a bouquet of colors. friendship. touch. language. a toothbrush. ..I know, that's 7 but I think think 'six 'is just a guideline..
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how we ended up here. Optimistic when Obama got elected, those days seem almost naive now.. (How we ended on 'okcupid' is another thing - did ya ever think?)
On a typical Friday night I am
"I'm an empty essay! Fill me out.' ... that was written in the box by the 'okcupid folks... It's not really true but
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes, my socks don't match. Sometimes, I don't care but other times, I'm stricken.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 50–67
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you can suggest which thing I should leave behind in the '6 things list' and why. or if you want to start a conversation.