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  • Ages 29-42
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5' 8" (1.73m)
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Average build
Atheism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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All right, get the map out and play the Indiana Jones theme: here is my moving red line. I was born in Hong Kong but grew up in San Diego. I lived the Berkeley lifestyle for a few years and moved to Columbia, Missouri for grad school. I'm apparently culture shock-proof (go anthropology!) so the move went well, but after a while I decided it was time for the line to move again.

I got my doctorate in anthropology in 2011, made my triumphant return to San Diego in August of this year, and now I'm working as an online instructor while keeping an eye out for possible terrestrial positions!

Update: I have a terrestrial position! Goal reached! On to the next.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm aiming to become a bioarchaeologist, an archaeologist that specializes in human remains. My research takes me to Peru, which is a fantastic place everyone should visit.

I really like to teach since I want to show students that anthropology is rad. If more people knew anthropology, people wouldn't say crazy things about how race is naturally this or that. They're artificial categories mapped onto arbitrary continuous variation, people.
I’m really good at
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I like to think of myself as a Kitchen-aid mixer: I'm reliable, super low maintenance, and I will destroy whatever you hand me. Wait--

Ok, how about coming up with ideas, giving presentations, non-sequiturs, eye lasers, handling crises, editing, moral support, Bond one-liners, vigilante therapy, dry humor, cat-whispering, making lists.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Maybe I'm saying something hilarious. Maybe I'm trying not to laugh out loud at something I'm reading while in a coffee shop.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Great Gatsby is my favorite book because it takes prose and compresses it into an angry diamond that gleams at every angle.

Movies: All-time favorite is Ran, because it's filled with drama, spectacle, and the furthest thing from a Hollywood ending that one can achieve. I also enjoy earlier Spielberg and action with some thematic cohesion.

Television is too unimportant for me to adhere to its schedule, but...
Things I've Recently Enjoyed Watching On the Internet: Warehouse 13, Sherlock, Hoarders, My Cat from Hell, 30 Rock, Louie, The Librarians.

Music: Classic rock, west coast rap, and singer-songwriter are the main genres. Yeah, my mix CDs/Pandora stations can get a bit crazy. I used to dislike 80's music but now I can't get away.

Food: Hall of famers are pesto sauce, chili, tamales, and my parents' cooking. Will try anything as a professionally trained anthropologist. I'm not a fan of bananas, but I enjoyed fried plantains in Perú. I'm not sure where my potassium comes from.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
• Warm covers on a cold night
• Bad cats
• A hand to hold
• Early morning fog
• A nice breeze at the right time
• Furtive looks
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
... the prehistoric Andes, ideas for running an effective classroom, my comic characters and their stories, whether I can recall the chord progressions I've tried to learn (C... Am.... .... effff! I can't get the third one).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Some combination of hanging out, grading things, archery, playing guitar, drawing, and eating food.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My friend told me that I hiccup like a cartoon character.
You should message me if
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You're smart, confident, and easy-going. Just typing those words gave me a little hnnng. You like the feeling of always having someone at your back, and vice versa. True equals! Like Batman and Robin, except we're both Batman.