The quick and easy is that I am a generally laid back, humorous, accepting, and honest guy. I have a good job, a good life, good family, and good friends. I enjoy many things: camping, sports (playing and watching), Dexter, reading, driving, movies, animals, laying in the grass, seafood, Resident Evil video games, hot tubbing, comedy shows & clubs - you get the idea.

The only thing I hope to gain from the site is the opportunity to meet new women for casual dating. I'm not looking for random hooking up, marriage, or drama. I'm a go-with-the-flow kind of guy. I want to get out there, meet new people and see what happens.

With that said, I'm not against long term relationships or exclusive dating, I'm just not jumping into every new communication with that in mind. I do believe in chivalry and approach all relationships with honesty and respect.

Based on some of the conversations I've had with ladies from this site, I do feel it necessary to clarify a couple things. First, if we chat via this site or text, and it just seems we aren't on the same page, interested in any of the same things, or just not getting along, I will say something. I would hope you would also. I don't want anyone to think I am leading them on. Second, I am a sexual person; I do enjoy it, I do want it. I also find the amusement in sexual innuendo. So, I won't shy away from sexual discussion, but just know, I am not on here for the purpose of sex. I have heard some unfortunate situations with some of the women I've met and the only thing I can say is that I am not the guy that will lie to you, sleep with you, then disappear. If I was looking for that, I'd go hang out on Mill after midnight on the weekend. Finally, I'm just looking for fun. There is nothing wrong with flirting and engaging in risque conversation; it doesn't have to lead to anything. I just ask that you be open, honest, and willing to have low stress fun.

So, if you're interested in anything about me, don't hesitate to contact me. I try to live with an open book. I've learned that this is the part that shyness shouldn't affect; talking through a website and then maybe texting? Child's play. If we get through that together and we want to go out, see each other, do something together, I can assure you, the phone call won't be scary at that point. What's the worst that can happen?

I am an average dude living a rather average life. I try to do onto others as I would have done to me. I care about my fellow man, have a solid, stable career, enjoy the outdoors, softball, football, baseball, movies, music, driving, traveling...basically, just living each day to the fullest.

Now, to the meat and potatoes...I was married. The topic is not off limits, but what's in the past, does not affect my future. My life has taken an unexpected turn and I am reassessing the dreaded 5-year plan. I've got some ideas and put a few into action. So, I've got some stuff going on.

Football, softball, driving fast, awesome things, humor, and partying Andrew W.K. style.

To be serious though, it's a hard question to answer. I am truly an expert in my field. I was an expert in my previous field. When I do something, I don't half-ass it; I strive to know everything about what I am expected to know. I don't have to be perfect, or the best; but, I do want to do the best I can.

That's a good question...maybe my aura of awesomeness?

Seriously though, I would say its a tie between my sarcastic, knee slapping humor and my delicious, sexy, manly, knee-weakening smile.

...well, I thought it was funny...

A Salty Piece of Land, Jimmy Buffett
The Cutting Edge
Collective Soul
Dexter
Homeland
Alex Kava books
Superhero movies
All food (expect nuts - I'm allergic)

1. My family
2. My friends (which would include my significant other)
3. My animals
4. Flip flops
5. Brutal Legend
6. My memories.

Today. I consider the past, acknowledge the future, but live for today. I'm in my 30's now, I'm not here to go "clubbing" or do keg stands. I'm here to meet people and have fun in life.

Who knows. Softball, bar/happy hour, movies, concert, race, anywhere really.

That falling in love, getting married, being betrayed, and getting divorced damn near broke me...but, I would not give up the good to avoid the bad.

As I have come to terms with the situation, I have realized that many times people aren't making mistakes to learn from; they are doing exactly what they mean to do, but never planned to do. It's these situations that we should acknowledge and learn from as well.

You want to talk and get to know someone new. Or you just want to increase your awesomeness.

Seriously though, if you want to just say hi, get a drink, see a game or movie, feel free to ask. I'm an open book and I'm just looking to meet new people.

All I really ask is don't be scared...take a chance...you never know, the next person you meet could be one awesome person for you.