I am attracted to relaxed, gentle, confident men who are intelligent and comfortable with themselves and who they are.
And I love learning, from anyone and everyone, especially my partner. I need intellectual stimulation. Emotional and physical togetherness are lovely and necessary too.
Let's go to a lovely party, an art gallery opening, the Theater, a grungy party, a messy adventure, kayaking, mucking about on a farm, a street fair, and a who-knows-what! Oceans, open spaces, cottages by the sea or a brook, fancy hotel, quiet camping, and Swimming in natural bodies of water are all things I enjoy.
I want (need):
To hold and be held. Always have honesty; the truth keeps us free. Time apart brings us closer together, but I also really do like togetherness. Conversations and comfortable silences. Laughter and silent understanding. Romance in all senses of the word. One who will care about my 11r. old daughter who is with me part time. Time to spend together and Be together. One with self confidence and a positive outlook. Love of travel and the outdoors. Grow. Love.
I'm looking for: compatibility, a man who is smart, imaginative, open, readable, handsome, objective, reasonable, curious, and politically and environmentally concerned. Or at least some of those: no one is perfect.
I'm seeking, ultimately, a long-term relationship (turning to marriage I hope), and I'm ready and willing to put in the work to keep it fun and functional and growing.
I'm empathic, I can usually read others feelings, and I need someone who communicates well (or tries his best). I seek a blend of comfort, adventures, and security.
To love, to learn, to grow, to romance. I'd love to talk and learn from you!
Let's play and learn and get sand in our shoes.