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26 • Jackson, MI • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–30
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 2
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Working on university
- Less than $20,000
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
- Has cats
- English (Fluently)
I'm also a creative type: I enjoy drawing, writing, acting, singing, sewing, and a number of other various interests. I tend not to do a lot of it unless there's opportunity to show it off, though, due to motivational issues. (Much more likely to do something for someone else than for myself.)
And I am not a big fan of… going out, as it were. I tend to be quiet unless working or speaking about something that interests me, and I'm more than a little awkward around people I'm not used to, so I find myself fading into the background. So... parties, clubbing, that sorta thing? Not my cup'a tea. (Earl Grey, hot. Admittedly, though, I've been curious about going to cons before but never had anyone to go with, so would be amenable to the idea of going to something like that, even if a bit outside my normal comfort zone.)
It is also to be noted, my sense of humor can range from dry and sarcastic to dark and a little macabre, and as I have an INTJ personality type, I can be more than a little blunt at times.
So if you like staying in, or being in small group settings, while dealing in geeky or creative interests, and have skin that's maybe just a touch on the thick side- there's a decent enough chance we'll get along.
(As a side note, I tend to be something of a cuddler- so all the better if you're not too shy about physical contact.)
Joking aside (it's shaved)... I tend not to stand out until I speak up, so probably either my intellect or my sense of humor.
Various graphic novels/comics, most things fantasy/sci-fi, and just about anything that's well written, with decent plot/witty dialogue. Also, Shakespeare. (Might be a bit redundant, but I consider it worth mentioning.)
All time favorite is probably The Princess Bride, but I'm generally a fan of most fantasy or sci-fi based moves, and animated family/kid friendly movies: esp. disney/pixar varieties. Also basically any Super Hero flick.
I've only seen Phantom of the Opera and My Fair Lady so far, and only film versions of those, but love the music from Cats, Les Miserables, Beauty and the Beast, and Wicked, and would love a chance to see some shows in person.
Television: (After realizing that's probably what they meant by saying 'shows'...)
Not really a big tv watcher, but will catch things like Star Trek, Supernatural, Firefly, Sherlock, or Doctor Who through Netflix… basically following my movie tastes. Also, various anime. (Used to be a whole lot of anime, but sorta grew out of that stage- only watch a good one every now and then anymore.)
Musical tastes are pretty eclectic… I'll listen to pretty much anything apart from overblown old-school twangy country, or hip-hop/rap. Favorite offhand would probably be anything by Queen, and also Alestorm… because pirates.
Chinese... and pretty much anything edible, I'm not much of a picky eater
Friends and family
Hell, start a conversation that has nothing to do with my profile and I'll probably still jump in and go with it.
I will say though, if you're looking for a romantic relationship, I am most looking for someone who'd be willing to share my geek interests and at least be curious about my creative pursuits- my stories and my worlds especially- if not willing to share and build them together.
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