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otherguyinwham

29 / m / straight / single

Short Hills, New Jersey

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Ethnicity White

Height 5' 11" (1.80m).

Looking For New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Casual encounters (sex partners)

Smokes No

Drinks Not at all

Drugs Never

Religion N/A

Sign N/A

Education Graduated from college/university

Job Artistic / Musical / Writer

Income N/A

Kids N/A

Pets N/A

Languages English (Fluently)

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My Self-Summary

OK, I have revived my OKCupid profile from a nearly year-long slumber. Bear with me if anything is askew. I deleted out of frustration with this site and with myself---I am a NJ to NYC commuter. The long train rides make me feel displaced and home to neither state.

So, I decided to move. I packed my things for Queens! However, my move fell through and I ended up in the same exact situation as before. It's not so bad; I have a nice apartment in the suburbs, a great housemate, and a car to visit my family further down the East Coast.

Still, why would you want to date a commuter?

- Do you live in NYC? Then you want nothing to do with a man who has a NJ Transit-imposed curfew.

- Do you live in NJ? Then you want nothing to do with a man who arrives in the state only to sleep and shower.

- Are you a commuter yourself? Then you are already married. I am the only single commuter. Trust me; I've checked the left hands.

What I’m doing with my life

I am an incurable theatre queen and work for an NYC non-profit arts organization. I am not involved in the production aspects at all---I am strictly a mild-mannered office worker. However, I am very proud of the work we put onstage. In my spare time I jog, I write, I zzz.

I’m really good at

stupid data tricks! That's what attracts me to OKCupid; surveys and statistics are my weaknesses.

I also used to be funny, but now I just repeat the same necrophilia joke over and over again. It's lost its punch.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me

I am never ever noticed. Seriously!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Two recent films I really *really* enjoyed were The Brothers Bloom and Moon. I read mostly non-fiction---I really enjoyed Naomi Klein's The Shock Doctrine. I have been a longtime fan of dance music, even though I rarely go to any clubs. Foodwise, remember: Wednesday is Sushi Day.

The six things I could never do without

Trader Joe's Chocolate Peanut Butter Pretzels. That's six words for one thing, isn't it?

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Aging!

On a typical Friday night I am

Writing, seeing a play, or seeing a movie.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am already in love with you!

You should message me if

Gosh, I don't know if you should. I think I'm a decent-looking, interesting individual, but as far as I can tell no one else does. Many people find me boring. Deathly boring! Beware!

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