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gentle_coda

30 Brooklyn, NY Cis Man, Man

Cis Man, Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:58am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Status
Open relationship
Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi! I'm Max. I like when local shops have a cat; I think "get a thicker skin" and "just try harder" are always worthless advice; and my favorite color is eggplant purple (followed by hot pink, then green).

Let's get some standard deal-breakers out of the way first:

- I'm currently in a committed non-monogamous relationship, and I am "single" in that I am still open to another lifelong partnership (one that could even lead to kids and cohabiting and marriage, if we decide we're into that kind of thing; or just seeing each other a couple of times per month, if that turns out to be the right balance).

- Inclusive feminism is very important to me, and I do not write people off just because they say they are "anti-feminist"; I believe in respecting the experiences of those who have negative connotations with the word, too. I might not always have the spoons to deal with them, but I at least don't write them off immediately!

- Kink and D/s are very important to me. I'm submissive! If that's a turn-off for you, or there simply isn't a dominant bone in your body, we probably should not date.

I pay the bills with web development and side projects, but my hobbies span far and wide:

I fence competitively (foil and épée), draw & paint, play a lot of games (both board and video), and try to learn a new skill every couple of months. Last was woodworking, next up is comedy improv.

My favorite movies (in no particular order) are Kiki's Delivery Service, Groundhog Day, and Pacific Rim.

I've watched a lot of TV, but have slowed down lately. Adventure Time, Steven Universe, Gravity Falls, Firefly, and Scrubs will always be a little magical to me. I enjoyed Lost, Black Books, Sense8, Orphan Black, and a host of others, too.

Let's go draw some burlesque performers at Dr. Sketchy's Anti-Art School, or hit up a music/comedy show!