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gentle_coda

29 Brooklyn, NY Cis Man, Man

Cis Man, Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 30
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Status
Open relationship
Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I was born in Manhattan, grew up on Long Island, fled to a liberal arts college in Vermont, lived in Cleveland until the Lake Effect drove me west, Los Angeles until the lack of pizza drove me east, took a break in Northampton, MA, fell a little in love with San Francisco, and then finally came back home to New York.

I love languages, fencing, Bosc pears, cats, and video games. My favorite topic prompts for discussion are "video games are art", "empathy is a big deal", and "gender is bullshit". I'm a big burly manly man, and I'd rather be the femme to your butch than vice-versa.

Feel free to peep my profile on FetLife; my username there is the same!

Missing Profile Options
Outlook: Optimistic
Hair: Long & curly
D/s Orientation: Submissive
Feminist: Inclusive & sex-positive
MBTI: ENFP and it's fun to think about
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Fencing, designing reference posters for computer nerds, teaching people about the internet, learning woodworking, writing, and drinking a lot of chai.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Helping you see from someone else's perspective. Simplifying complex topics. Charming cats.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
- Hedwig & the Angry Inch
- chill instrumental jazz-hop
- Steven Universe
- Farscape
- Kiki's Delivery Service
- Dark Souls
- R. Scott Bakker's "Prince of Nothing" series
- Fancy vanilla bean ice cream
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Pen & paper
- Reliable noise-isolating headphones
- Cats
- Hair products
- Nice shoes
- Temperate, soothing, rainy summer days
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
gender roles can be fun
but girly manly men exist
and I am one
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lifting arbitrarily heavy things and putting them slowly back down again, probably while wearing fabulous pink-laced workout sneakers and listening to the Tron: Legacy soundtrack.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You'd love a first date at a comedy improv show, or a burlesque drink-'n-draw.

- You hate hanging out in venues where it's too loud to hear each other speak.

- You dig confident submissive boys with nice arms and impeccable diction, especially the ones who make fun sounds when you're mean to them.

- You can beat me at Go (or Soul Calibur II).