Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
To start with, I'm polyamorous and married to a beautiful woman. I
feel like I have room to add some specific kinds of relationships
to my life, and I've had good experiences meeting people through
sites like this one. See more below about what I'm looking
I'm usually quiet to begin with until I get to know you a bit one
on one. After that, the bad jokes begin and the inappropriate sense
of humour. I enjoy most things science fiction and/or fantasy;
lasers really do make everything better. I'm not known for my tact
or my political correctness but I do believe in equality for all
and won't stand for blatant bigotry.
While I've put male on this profile, I've been moving more and more
towards identifying as genderfluid meaning that I occasionally feel
like I want to present as female (and I'm getting pretty good at
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now, I'm enjoying the feeling of being married and looking
forward to working on having kids and buying a house when the
market cools off. Also enjoying my recent foray into investing. I'm
also looking at expanding my horizons and social life by building
some on-going partnerships with interesting people I can hang out
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- making computers obey my will
- tying people up with rope
- cooking delicious meals for people
- organizing better with spreadsheets
- shooting people with lasers
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Kushiel's Dart (Jacqueline Cary), The Vorkosigan Saga (Lois
McMaster Bujold), Harry Turtledove, Anne McCaffery
Movies: Avengers, Dead Poet's Society, Star Trek, Burlesque, The
TV: The West Wing, Castle, Battlestar Galactica, Babylon 5, The
Newsroom, Star Trek, How I Met Your Mother
Music: Rock and roll, jazz, a smattering of good music from across
all other genres.
Food: Pasta, steak, bacon, chicken, BBQ, chinese, sushi, korean BBQ
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- My dirty-minded and awesome friends & partners
- Intellectual discussions
- The Internet
- A bag of kinky toys
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends for dinner and a movie, perhaps a sexy party, or
maybe a fun activity like laser tag.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I practice BDSM on a semi-regular basis and have a lot of fun doing
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
New friends who are looking for friends or advice are always
welcome, but I'm mostly looking for a few specific kinds of
1. Dominant/switch people/couples/groups who are interested in an
on-going exploration of my submissive/switch sides.
2. Kinky people interested in getting to know each other and
perhaps play in general.
3. People who are interested in building some level of intimate
relationship, who have similar interests to mine and who are
interested in some physical component to their relationship (I like
physical connections like cuddling, kissing, etc - intercourse is
not a requirement though)
Generally, you should be an open-minded person who is not
judgmental; communicative, vocal, proactive and good sense of
humour are also good qualities.
Who are you looking for?
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