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outdoorfaninpa

54 / M / Straight / Single

Palo Alto, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 2:11pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$150,000–$250,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Hi there and thanks for stoping by my profile! According to my Very Extensive Research™ you live either in San Francisco or Oakland and have a secret addiction to punk rock clubs. Me, I live in Palo Alto and spend most of my time organizing Outdoor Adventures ...

I'm normally outgoing and socially adroit, smart — both intellectually and emotionally. Unfortunately "dating" doesn't fall into the above for me. I become shy, tentative, awkward and clumsy. Sometimes I wish we could just skip straight to the Third Date where everyone is already comfortable. :-) But the Good News™ is that it does pass!

So my idea of a perfect first date is a "Play Date." Head out and do something active — hiking, biking or rock climbing (inside or out) — and then grab a burger and beer afterwards. Maybe a bit ambitious, but still, now you know something about me even if that's a "second date" ... :-)

Cruise Director was my unofficial title at a company for which I used to work. And in my neighborhood they refer to me as The Mayor of Cowper Street ... It's kind of My Thing, bringing people together in social situations — athletic outdoor events followed by food and drink being my favorite. I feel very lucky in my life. I've made amazing friends who are very important to me.

A woman I once met said of the person she wanted to meet: "You treat clerks well even when no one is looking." That's stuck with me for years and I think is one of the best rules to live life by.

All of that said, in the end, I'm "just a nice guy" who strives to make the world a better place ... for friends, family and random strangers ... and for myself as well of course!
What I’m doing with my life
Currently I'm a software engineer but I'm interested in getting involved with Computational Biology (I've taken a lot of biology, chemistry and physics classes and have recently finished taking a class in molecular genetics). Outside of work I'm into rock climbing, hiking, bicycling, etc. — and organizing group Firepit/BBQ/Potlucks afterward!

4/13/2013:

Led a group of friends on a beautiful 8 mile hike through Foothills Park in Palo Alto. The weather was perfect and we had some great wild flowers. There was of course the traditional Breakfast of Continents before and subsequent Potluck/BBQ/Firepit to round out the day.

4/8/2013:

Just got back from a one week rock climbing trip at Joshua Tree National Park and Red Rock Canyon outside of Las Vegas (coinciding with the annual Red Rock Rendezvous — a very fun, multi-day climbers party). I got to spend time with a friend developing skills in "Traditional (Trad) Climbing" and "Multi-Pitch Climbing" which I had wanted to do for some time. Way fun time!!

3/23/2013:

Led a small group of friends out to California Ridge at Castle Rock State Park for a light day of climbing — introducing one of them to his first outdoor climbing experience. Afterwards I hosted a Vernal Equinox Potluck/BBQ/Firepit.
I’m really good at
My friends tell me that I'm a great cook but have a hard time following recipes. As a result, there's a lot of experimental improvisation at hand in the kitchen ... But my real talent seems to be organizing outdoor Play Dates and Social Events and bringing people together. See above re my title of Cruise Director ... :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This is of course not exaustive, but I picked the first things which came to mind:

Book: Sidarth by Hermann Hesse.
TV: Buffy the Vampire Slayer
Movie: Pleasantville
Music: White City (Pete Townshend)
Food: everything
The six things I could never do without
Friends and family
Outdoors activities
Singing
Good food and wine
An appreciation of how fortunate I am
New challenges
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life. But that's a bit ambiguous. How we treat each other. How we treat ourselves. How to treat myself better.
On a typical Friday night I am
Organizing a dinner party.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a serious Large Cookware fixation. I own a 40 quart stockpot, a 32 inch paella pan (and the appropriate sized paddles to use with it), an outdoor burner, etc. Worse yet, I'm considering buying a 36 inch paella pan because I'm not convinced I can feed enough people with my current one. But I've been clean and dry for several months and with the help of friends I'll probably just stick with cooking with the aforementioned implements of destruction ...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You're into outdoors activities, like social gatherings of friends and are serious about engaging in life's grandest adventure: sharing your life with all of its inherent messiness ...

N.B. For a long time I've said that I really wanted children but I think I may have to admit that this is getting impractical ... but I still have to declare myself as "flexible" on the subject ... :-)