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47 Newington, CT Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 37–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 2
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
My self-summary
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Looking for someone to bike or otherwise be active in the outdoors with. If you don't believe in God we wouldn't be a match. I'm into "relationship with a higher power", NOT religion. If u go to church or mass, (I don't right now, but I try to live from my value base) but are unloving, critical and judgemental of others we wouldn't get along. Don't get me wrong I have a backbone and some conservative opinions, but I'm here to live MY life the best I know how, not to criticize others. What a flat out waste of time plus it's negative and destructive. My belief in God and Jesus Christ defines how I act and treat others. Does this resonate with your concept? I am not your typical online dater because basically so many people are crazy messes that are using each other to stay afloat or to " meet their needs". I'm not even vaguely interested in a "quid pro quo", relationship even unspoken or someone that doesn't have an opinion of their own, although we should all have the maturity to let others have their opinions and not try to change the other person me thinks :) I love intelligent conversation, I'll even indulge some monologues, but you have to be sane, heterosexual respectful, as in not rude to me road rage and courteous to others. I am all for those who speak their mind, but have some patience and tolerance. I'm not a fan of the gay lifestyle or alternative lifestyles that just too far out for me, but I also believe in respecting people, until they don't respect me then I'm gone period. I can be very tolerant, but I won't deal with disrespect period, or violence of any kind or twisted manipulating, or narcissistic personalities, and there are a lot of them out there or people who have multiple partners or cheat or lie to others or themselves for that matter. If you do these things I hope you find your peace, but I don't won't be part of that stuff. Also I'm not into materialism. I like things but favor resourcefulness more. But I'm not into cheap either. Generosity and financial responsibility is the right balance and it gives you options if not into debt up to ones eyeball. Living simply :) I lean more toward eating healthy with less meat but am not a vegetarian and don't need you to be one. Life isn't about STUFF it's about people, serenity you get the idea.

I'm a no drama woman looking for a friendship first that might turn into an LTR. I try to stay in shape and at a good weight and am looking for someone that does the same. I like day trips and enjoy being active. Looking for someone that is willing and able to connect on a deeper emotional level eventually. If that scares you or is not what you do, we probably wouldn't have much together for a relationship.

If you are a particularly moody or impatient person we wouldn't gel. I would prefer to find someone whose children are grown or at least older and, and who has time to pursue fun adventure together. I am a compassionate, intelligent and fun person. I have a sarcastic side but may be shy at first. Looking for intellectual stimulation as well, so smart is good. I can dress up fancy, but its not my normal bend, so if you need a girl with lots of makeup and high-heels who likes endless shopping, that's not me. :) If you like a more natural and athletic one, that works!

My Interests: I love to garden, hiking, cooking for someone special. Love the ocean, and any body of water. Love to camp but with the creature comforts of a shower. Long day hikes are fine. I am a nature lover and beautiful places refresh my soul. This is how I unwind. I also like to be active and would prefer to do something active while meeting people.

I can have a dry sense of humor and be sarcastic, but people have also called me charming and fun.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying temporary gigs in the insurance field and just taking life as it comes. Trying to keep up my coding certifications for future opportunities. Forging friendships and making the best of each season of life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Biking, being witty and playful, and I make a mean chocolate chip cookie!
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably my red hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like brainless comedy that makes me laugh after a long day at work.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Being in nature
Laughter and verbal banter
Physical activity like biking and hiking.
My cats
Moments of silent contemplation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How nice it is to take a drive in the country. The long days of Spring and Summer. I also think about how great it would be to meet someone active, who has the time, desire and emotional availability, to pursue a friendship and possibly a relationship. Someone who isn't perfect, but has integrity and a moral compass by which they live.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes chilling from a long work week or out for with a few friends biking , walking laughing, relaxing and ejoying the moment!
You should message me if
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You want to say hello and you are a God loving person. Often our hardship is self imposed or a consequence of our own actions. I'd prefer to suffer at the hands of other stuff than my own stupidity but both are valid teachers I suppose.