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50 Sylva, NC Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Mar 1
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I prefer to be outdoors. i take care of my home and cherish that it is peaceful. I clean and tidy a lot - thanks Mum. I put a lot of energy into what I eat, so that I'll feel good and stay pretty healthy.
A few random facts: I pick up trash on my road and lint off strangers. i love it when someone gets my sense of humour. I'm a dedicated friend. I like to make and build things. I have the sweetest dog in the world.
People don't believe me when I tell them my age. When I was younger, I felt more comfortable with elders and now I tend to need younger folks to play with since they still have energy, optimism, and want to play.
What I’m doing with my life
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working as a physical therapist, volunteering a bit, learning the art of human interaction, enjoying my little community, commuting by motorcycle, at war with the kudzu, cycling on/off road, exploring new trails on foot or wheel, paddling on the lakes, practicing yoga, trying to get the most mileage out of this body, Moving! Practicing handstands.

**WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR: with most of my difficult growth behind me (me thinks), i am ready and able to be a good partner to another. i want an equal who can support and be supported, share and grow together. okay, Universe, i've got solo down pretty well, bring me someone to share the next chapter with!
I’m really good at
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fixing things, cleaning, organizing, planning, building things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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you tell ME. sometimes the color of my eyes. perception is so individualized.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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BOOKS take a long time to read, if i finish them. I have the best intentions and an impressive stack next to my bed, zzzz. however, a few have kept my attention: stiff and bonk by Mary roach. Kingsolver's prodigal summer; animal, vegetable, miracle. anatomy by Netter. geek love. she's not there. the man who fell in love with the moon. the book thief. buddist teachings (any of pema chodron). Eckhart Tolle.

MOVIES (rarely watch lately): billy elliot, triplets of belleville, sordid lives, best in show, hedwig and the angry inch, the 7 up series, man on wire, religulous, documentaries about nature, the Earth, and our national parks.

MUSIC: favorite way to listen is pandora (neko case, Gillian welch, the be good tanyas. With some Tron tracks thrown in) or my ipod plugged into some sweet computer speakers: pj harvey, jeff buckley, moby, the smiths, grace jones.

FOOD: healthy, fresh food. the less it's traveled, the better. happy meat of all sorts. local trout. roasting and baking a lot of veg. Preparing a 4x8ft raised bed garden for 2015. Here goes!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. healthy food, clean water and air, shelter
2. love, people who get me
3. the outdoors
4. bicycle
5. kind, conscious people
6. movement
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
reflecting on my actions and words. people in my life. the weather forecast.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
resting from a busy week, usually at home, in the winter probably building a fire. cooking, making weekend plans.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Not private, but weird to some people: I like the smell of skunk. There are lots more interesting bits I'll not broadcast here. Really !
You should message me if
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You like what you see and want to play with me.