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elusive__spark

34 F New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:54am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Adventurous, playful, sometimes funny, and often ebullient, it's best to get to know me in person.

A fan of laughter, travel, food, the outdoors, biking, kayaking, dancing, ping pong, reading, writing, photography, fireflies, lakes, The Moth, and random acts of kindness.

I've done a lot of traveling, and I look forward to more. Though good company is more important to me than location, some of my favorite spots include Nepal, Iceland, Berlin, the Adirondacks, and the Mediterranean Sea. I've recently returned from Barcelona.
What I’m doing with my life
Formerly a teacher for ten years, I'm now a full-time student in a creative nonfiction MFA program, so I'm reading and writing away. I also work part-time as an ESL coordinator.
I’m really good at
finding humor in a situation
adapting
eating
kissing
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm very expressive. I would be horrible at poker.
Also, I laugh a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Catcher in the Rye, The Bald Soprano, Lolita, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Norwegian Wood, The Elephant Vanishes, The Mercy Papers, The Fault in Our Stars, Out Stealing Horses

Movies: Annie Hall, Juno, Amelie, The Breakfast Club, Little Miss Sunshine, The Graduate, Beasts of the Southern Wild

TV: Downton Abbey, 30 Rock, Mad Men, Arrested Development

Music: Jazz, classical, bluegrass, bhangra, new wave 80s, Explosions in the Sky, MC Solaar

Food: Yes. Especially French, Korean, Thai, Vietnamese
The six things I could never do without
Sense of humor, close friends, nature, exercise, books, laptop or pen/paper
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Food
Outdoor excursions
People's curious ways
Food
On a typical Friday night I am
There is no typical Friday night, but I like to get dinner with a friend or two, and in the warmer months, I may be en route to a trip in the great outdoors.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I recently fell into the gap between the subway and the platform.

This is certainly not private, but there's no option for this in OkCupid's pull-down menu: Jewish by birth, I'm a non-practicing, secular Jew. As for religion, I'd say I'm agnostic.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 27–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
you're
curious
liberal
funny
happy
kind.