I was a guinea pig in OkCupid's experiment #3 without ever knowing. Both me and now my ex, totally bought the 94% of a match. Which was what initially got us together. We literally went through struggles trying to make it work thinking it was just a learning curve. All because we believed what OkCupid told two tender lonely people. It pains me so much to see my ex has fallen so much deeper into his addiction because of our evolvement do to OkCupid's manipulation and lies. I have the tools and skills to get over this, he does not. The nail I call "tragedy" is I got this email from OkCupid to check out their blog and I'm in it, ten day after I ended the relationship.
This should had never have happened. We should had never been brought together. Neither of us would not had to suffered if someone wasn't being careless with something as tender as one's heart and their future while facading compassion for the lonely.
All to sell a book!
The author is one of the founders of OKCupid. He sifted through the vast amount of data collected from users interactions within OkCupids website.
This doesn't even begin to address OkCupid accessing people private, and personal messaging to each other on their website.
READ THEIR BLOG!
You might be a victim or a recovering victim too.
I love exploring the world around me through art, nature, people and animals. This means as an artist I enjoy seeing all kinds of things as well as creating all kinds of art. I am also an enthusiastic theorist of human and social evolutionist.
What's even more exhilarating is being challenged to experience and having someone to par the challenge with.
A man who is into similar things, but doesn't have to hold all the same interest while holding his own life. A man who is like me, loves the world we live in, the good and is strong enough to see the bad.
Doing little things a long the way (outside of recycling) to try to make it a better place for us all by educating ourselves and others. Whether it is with that new special someone or a new friend, it would be great to giggle a long and have fun. I like a man who enjoys the fun of enhancing through challenging the intellect, spirituality, physical, and romantic self and with each other, without mind game playing in a cruel ways.
I am not into "partying," or being stupid around sex and my health.
I've alway been upfront about my HIV status and have dated and boyfriended equally both + & -. When I'm with a guy being tender, revealing, sexual, intimate and willing: I don't want him to ever be concern about health issues. But what I want and what I see happen to be two different things. Body language is the single cord of HONESTY that Nature twisted into all creatures. A global language, the only original language and yes, a picture does speak a thousand words. I don't ever want to see my partner scared because of infection concerns. There is nothing I can say to take away that concern for him. That is why I feel uncomfortable to date HIV- men.
I like good looking men who carry a level of masculinity, maturity, intellect, creative talents, and are fit and/or athletic.
Though I'm usual with brunettes playing camouflage, I find myself attracted to versatile top blonds with facial hair and hairy chest. Between 35 - 55 yrs old, who are uninhibited to explore sexual fun and to have the same or close height is always a plus. I like touching in so many different ways, and have been told I'm well versed in it.
All out of the box thinkers are always welcome.
My offer isn't just for the love looker, dater or future boyfriend. If you find me to be a cool bud ;), hang out friend, fellow artist, city explorer, what ever catches you, it would be great to hear from you.