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outofdebox

45 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 31–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:38am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am looking for a long term relationship, will date a long the way until I get there, and will enjoy casual sex in the in-between.
Big time lover of nature, creating visual art, friends, hot showers, murmuration, starry night skies, art, music, fitness, full moons, human studies, hiking, camping, dancing, hot bubble baths, shore lines, movies, cooking/baking, four seasons, and superhero cartoons.
Always looking for an out of the box thinker and creative boyfriend to have fun with our lives.
Always looking for artist friends and fellow hikers to share our gifts and our worlds.

I like a good looking man who carries a level of masculinity, maturity, intellect, creative talents, and are fit and/or athletic. A man who is into similar things, but doesn't have to hold all the same interest while holding his own life. Uninhibited men who like to explore sexual fun are welcomed.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Entrepreneuring a local motorcycle detailing business.
Reading and writing about human ecology.
Urban design from found objects with the incorporation of interior design. Working on children's picture books, painting, sculpturing and writing are the ones I juggle to make my self happiness in my life.
Always looking to do something new and challenging.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
According to friends and ex-boyfriends, touch, generosity, caring, strength, intelligence, creative, romance, humor, singing off key.

For me, mostly artwork, ingenuity, listening, research, writing, cooking, touching, dancing and facing the facts to find the bottom line.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't know ? ? ?
Unless they're nailing me with, "You look just like J. I. ! OMG !!!!"
OR
"Funny (?), you look like you are wondering about... what kind of sex Roddy McDowall has. Really ?"
AND
never big hands, big nose, big feet... hmmm ;D- ?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Mary Shelley's Frankenstein, The White Stag, anything from Yukio Mishima and Hans Christian Andersen. Non fiction books on human and social evolutionist.
Presently (7/19/14): "The Blackest Night" series.
Movies: Constantly changing. Tinker Tailor Soldier, Crash, Fallen, Prometheus, Iraq for Sale, The Cooperation, Cabin in the woods, "Saw 1" (believe it or not little boys the movie is not a slasher-blood and gutts horror movies, don't judge a movie by it's poster), House of Boys, "The Girl with"... (series) the originals, "Hair" make me cry every time. And all kinds of classics, and a variety of American and Japanese animations to name a few. So many, I didn't have time to think. I LOVE MOVIES!!
TV Shows: Young Justice, Big Bang Theory, The Killing, and any artsy reality tv show, and documentaries of all kinds.
Live Shows: Ka, Lion King, La Cage Aux Folles, A Chorus Line, live performances whether music, dance, plays.
Music: Easier to say what I'm least fond of Country, Heavy heavy Metal, extreme rap. Though I don't hate them I will enjoy listening to them.
Food: Almost anything, not too heavily spiced food, but I do need my meets. Love desserts.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
music
the great out doors
Night skies filled with stars
my hands and mind to create
witnessing and experiencing acts of kindness
a warm body to spoon
sex
(ok I know the math doesn't add up)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether Roddy McDowall was a top or bottom.

Actually, linking paths. How things our connected from micro to macro and the position of all of that's in between and how I link into it all with the universe.
Time lines within human ecology fascinate me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
(usually) Home: good eats and good movie.
Planning the weekend .
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
... that's important for you to know about me:

I am not into "partying," or being stupid around sex and my health.
I've alway been upfront about my HIV status and have dated and boyfriended equally both + & -.
When I'm with a guy being tender, revealing, sexual, intimate and willing, I don't want him to ever be concern about health issues. But what I want and what I see happen to be two different things.
Body language is the single cord of honesty that Nature twisted into all creatures. A global language, the only original language and yes, a picture does speak a thousand words.
I don't ever want to see my partner scared because of infection concerns. There is nothing I can say to take away that concern for him. That is why I feel uncomfortable to date HIV- men.

Okay I really do wonder about Mr McDowall's sexual activities, preferences and with whom. Mostly cause I always thought he was straight, a straight British Englishman. Any insights?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Come-on, if you have the similar likes, good looks, intelligent, artistic, outdoors, like thinking out side of the box; I'm gain to share, I'm gain to explore. I did put casual sex cause thats how lovers are made too.
Please do not contact me if you want to live vicariously through my activities.
And if you can't answer "The most privite thing I'm willing to admit."
Studies show if you can not answer it openly you are a manipulator.