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outofdebox

44 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 31–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
New photos added 7/15/14. Please have up to date photos too!

........................................*BTW*.............................................
I was a guinea pig in OkCupid's experiment #3 without ever knowing. Both me and now my ex, totally bought the 94% of a match. Which was what initially got us together. We literally went through struggles trying to make it work thinking it was just a learning curve. All because we believed what OkCupid told two tender lonely people. It pains me so much to see my ex has fallen so much deeper into his addiction because of our evolvement do to OkCupid's manipulation and lies. I have the tools and skills to get over this, he does not. The nail I call "tragedy" is I got this email from OkCupid to check out their blog and I'm in it, ten day after I ended the relationship.
This should had never have happened. We should had never been brought together. Neither of us would not had to suffered if someone wasn't being careless with something as tender as one's heart and their future while facading compassion for the lonely.
All to sell a book!
The author is one of the founders of OKCupid. He sifted through the vast amount of data collected from users interactions within OkCupids website.
This doesn't even begin to address OkCupid accessing people private, and personal messaging to each other on their website.

READ THEIR BLOG!
You might be a victim or a recovering victim too.
http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/we-experiment-on-human-beings/
......................................*7/30/14*...........................................

I love exploring the world around me through art, nature, people and animals. This means as an artist I enjoy seeing all kinds of things as well as creating all kinds of art. I am also an enthusiastic theorist of human and social evolutionist.
What's even more exhilarating is being challenged to experience and having someone to par the challenge with.
A man who is into similar things, but doesn't have to hold all the same interest while holding his own life. A man who is like me, loves the world we live in, the good and is strong enough to see the bad.
Doing little things a long the way (outside of recycling) to try to make it a better place for us all by educating ourselves and others. Whether it is with that new special someone or a new friend, it would be great to giggle a long and have fun. I like a man who enjoys the fun of enhancing through challenging the intellect, spirituality, physical, and romantic self and with each other, without mind game playing in a cruel ways.

I am not into "partying," or being stupid around sex and my health.
I've alway been upfront about my HIV status and have dated and boyfriended equally both + & -. When I'm with a guy being tender, revealing, sexual, intimate and willing: I don't want him to ever be concern about health issues. But what I want and what I see happen to be two different things. Body language is the single cord of HONESTY that Nature twisted into all creatures. A global language, the only original language and yes, a picture does speak a thousand words. I don't ever want to see my partner scared because of infection concerns. There is nothing I can say to take away that concern for him. That is why I feel uncomfortable to date HIV- men.

I like good looking men who carry a level of masculinity, maturity, intellect, creative talents, and are fit and/or athletic.
Though I'm usual with brunettes playing camouflage, I find myself attracted to versatile top blonds with facial hair and hairy chest. Between 35 - 55 yrs old, who are uninhibited to explore sexual fun and to have the same or close height is always a plus. I like touching in so many different ways, and have been told I'm well versed in it.
All out of the box thinkers are always welcome.
My offer isn't just for the love looker, dater or future boyfriend. If you find me to be a cool bud ;), hang out friend, fellow artist, city explorer, what ever catches you, it would be great to hear from you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Learning to speak like a distinguish Brit. ;- )
Always looking to do something new and challenging.
Reading and writting about human ecology.
Urban design from found objects with the incorporation of interior design has also enhanced that creative expression challenge.
Painting, children's picture books, sculpturing and writing are the ones I juggle to make happen in my week life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Friends, family, and strangers have pointed out to me that I see/notice the most simplest things that most overlook. From nature to the nature of man. "The Devil's Detail" is the nick name I was ribbed with.

For me, mostly artwork, ingenuity, listening, reseach, writting, cooking, touching, dancing and facing the facts to find the bottom line.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Though I only resently have chosen to have fun with it, visually I look like younger version of JI, a famous British actor's.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Mary Shelley's Frankenstein, The White Stag, anything from Yukio Mishima and Hans Christian Andersen. Non fiction books on human and social evolutionist.
Presently (7/19/14): "The Blackest Night" series.

Movies: Constantly changing. Tinker Tailor Soldier, Crash, Fallen, Prometheus, Iraq for Sale, The Cooperation, Cabin in the woods, "Saw 1" (believe it or not little boys the movie is not a slasher-blood and gutts horror movies, don't judge a movie by it's poster), House of Boys, "The Girl with"... (series) the originals, "Hair" make me cry every time. And all kinds of classics, and a variety of American and Japanese animations to name a few. So many, I didn't have time to think. I LOVE MOVIES!!

TV Shows: Young Justice, Big Bang Theory, The Killing, and any artsy reality tv show, and documentaries of all kinds.

Live Shows: Ka, Lion King, La Cage Aux Folles, A Chorus Line, live performances whether music, dance, plays.

Music: Easier to say what I'm least fond of Country, Heavy heavy Metal, extreme rap. Though I don't hate them I will enjoy listening to them.

Food: Almost anything, not too heavily spiced food, but I do need my meets. Love desserts.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
music
the great out doors
Night skies filled with stars
my hands and mind to create
witnessing and experiencing acts of kindness
a warm body to spoon
sex (ok I know the math doesn't add up)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Wheather Roddy McDowall was a top or bottom.
Actually, linking paths. How things our connected from micro to macro and the position of all of that in between and how I link into it all with the universe.
Time lines within human ecology fascinate me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
(usually) Home: good eats and good movie.
Out: (with friends) live show, movie, dinner or an art show.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love hunting for artzy videos on Youtube and Vimeo. I'll also pick out a famous song like "Pour Some Sugar on Me" by Def Leopard and see how many innovating versions of the same songs artist have crafted from their personalities. I need something more than the cat videos and stupid people's stunts videos while enjoying my fun time with Youtube.

Okay I really do wonder about Mr McDowall's sexual activities, preferences and with whom.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Come-on, if you have the similar likes, good looks, intelligent, artistic, outdoors, like thinking out side of the box; I'm gain to share, I'm gain to explore. I did put casual sex cause thats how lovers are made too.
Please do not contact me if you want to live vicariously through my activities.
And if you can't answer "The most privite thing I'm willing to admit."
Studies show if you can not answer it openly you are a manipulator.