I'm using okcupid to meet people who also want to meet people. I'm living by the idea that many awesome things happen when you're not trying to make it happen, and that if there's a connection that I'll find a place in my life where that relationship fits.
I'm non-monogamous. I have a partner who also shares the title of best friend and roommate - urbanknot. While we date separately, it's ideal if you guys get along!