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own2control

59 Wiesbaden, Germany Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–85
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Dec 14
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Administration
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Swahili (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Incurably romantic, more than slightly submissive, enjoying FLR (Female-led relationships) and Dominant Alpha-Ladies who know what THEY want and and enjoy worship (on bended knees) and devotion from Their loyal and faithful servant and owned "slave"....

Hoffnungslos romantisch, "ganz schön" devot, mag weibliche Führung und dominante Alpha-Ladies, die wissen, was SIE wollen, sich auf Knien verehren lassen (und dies geniessen) und die Ergebenheit und Treue "IHRES" Dieners und Sklaven zu schätzen wissen....
What I’m doing with my life
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After a heart attack six years ago, I no longer participate in the rat race for fortune and fame - I cherish life and every moment, would like to find my permanent "home" serving a cultured Dominant Lady in a committed Female-led relationship, as Her obedient servant, able assistant and male "secretary" (think of the movie), cuckold (erectile dysfunction due to medication), sexual toy (very "oral"), pet and OWNED slave....

Other than that, I like listening to music (mostly folk/roots type and singer-songwriters: American, British Isles, Canadian, Australian Folk, artists like Bob Dylan, Joan Baez, Leonard Cohen, Woody Guthrie, Pete Seeger, Eric Bogle, Johnny Cash, Sandy Denny, Richard Thompson, The Chieftains, The Dubliners, but also old pre-war blues and jazz, bluegrass and country, artists like Blind Willie McTell, Deford Bailey, Mississippi John Hurt, Flatt & Scruggs, Bill Monroe, etc.), doing research (music and social history of the U.S. mostly - mentioned in Wikipedia as "music historian"), publishing findings in blogs, occasionally also in magazines or on radio.
I’m really good at
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research (if it exists, I'll find it), writing (blogs, published articles in music magazine), learning languages, making my partner feel wanted and worshiped....
The first things people usually notice about me
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my smile....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books:
More non-fiction than fiction (history, archaeology, sociology, music, biographies), Mark Twain, James Thurber, John Steinbeck, Sir Arthur Conan Doyle (his historical novels more than Sherlock Holmes stories), Kurt Tucholsky, Erich Kästner, Lion Feuchtwanger, Franz Werfel, good psychological thrillers, and many others.

Movies: do not like most modern "action" movies, prefer older ones. Comedies by Ernst Lubitsch and Billy Wilder, almost anything by Alfred Hitchcock, anything with Charles Laughton, Buster Keaton, Charlie Chaplin's "Modern Times" and "The Great Dictator", "epic" Western movies like "Once Upon a Time In The West", The Grapes Of Wrath, Harold And Maude (one of my all-time favorites), The Graduate, The Big Lebowski, anything by the Coen brothers -- too many to list.

I especially like the film "Secretary" - would love to be a similar "male secretary"/"personal assistant"/servant to a Dominant Lady/businesswoman - complete reversal of traditional roles.

Hardly watch TV - except an occasional documentary on Phoenix or Arte, "New Tricks" on BBC, "Tatort" (especially the Münster team)