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40 F Los Angeles, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:15pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
they may say, "you will feel better tomorrow",
but perhaps they don't know limitless sorrow
trying to seek out small, but lovely comforts
'cus my heart was punctured by a waterfall of darts
like dying my hair my favorite color, teal
smelling a fresh orange peel
i smile within,
when i think of your grin
staring into the geometric perfection of a bright yellow sunflower,
then closing my eyes under the luminescent moon...
knowing you're still with me hour after hour
keep praying the pain is going to lessen
when the big things hurt so much,
i try to stay focused on my blessings...
even the twirl of my skirt my friend gave me the other day,
you were the needle in a mile high pile of hay
i said "infinity"... you said, "infinity squared"...
thank you for everything, i know you really cared
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Recovering from an existential crisis/spiritual-nervous breakdown... hey, atleast I'm honest :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
pondering the meaning of life.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
teal hair... or whatever color it is this month.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
TOO MANY TO LIST but here's a sample, although I don't think it's necessarily an important factor in finding a compatible partner...

henry miller, anais nin, jack kerouac, augusten burroughs, cupcake brown, dr. brian weiss, elisabeth kubler ross, francesca lia block, books on self-help, psychic development, mediumship, shamanism, past lives, the after life, quantum physics, etc. (ok, I haven't actually read up on quantum physics, yet... it's in my to-be read pile)

crispin glover, john waters, woody allen, wes anderson, john hughes, ghost world, edward scissorhands, peggy sue got married, back to the future, being john malkovich, bridesmaids, a mighty wind, best in show, thelma and louise, true romance, fargo, the outsiders, pretty in pink, eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, river's edge, mad men, the office, roseanne, laverne & shirley, welcome back kotter, three's company, morrissey, the smiths, sigur ros, goldfrapp, AIR, portishead, cocteau twins, nick cave, b-52s, juicifer, minor threat, RiFF RAFF, bauhaus, connie francis, sex pistols, peggy lee, ELO, the carpenters, simon and garfunkel, johnny cash, the cure, buddy holly, elvis, radiohead, pink floyd, tammy wynette, leonard cohen... too many to list...

food... organic, vegetarian, gluten-free, healthy... but I do have a sweet tooth!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
nature. my daughter... i don't need six... the universe already stripped me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to be the best version of me, working on starting my own business, how to spread kindness and embrace beauty at least just a little bit every day... how to stay positive which does not always come naturally for me... all I can do is keep trying to be conscious of it... asking for divine guidance to help accomplish my blueprint... shamanism, traveling/accessing/understanding other realms, synchronicity, mediumship/spirit communication, pranic healing, animal spirit medicine, how to navigate through this existence with grace when my heart is so heavy with grief... i love you, lonnie xoxoxo r.i.p.

It's all kinda heavy stuff right now.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
making dinner, listening to vinyl, praying/meditating, ignoring the dirty dishes... Ommmmmmmm
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i am currently a high-functioning mess... this is an improvement ;)
You should message me if
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...i'm not sure that you should. i should probably delete this profile, but...