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oyveyasaurus

40 F Los Angeles, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:40am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Other
Sign
Gemini
Education
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
they may say, "you will feel better tomorrow",
but perhaps they don't know limitless sorrow
trying to seek out small, but lovely comforts
'cus my heart was punctured by a waterfall of darts
like dying my hair my favorite color, teal
smelling a fresh orange peel
i smile within,
when i think of your grin
staring into the geometric perfection of a bright yellow sunflower,
then closing my eyes under the luminescent moon...
knowing you're still with me hour after hour
keep praying the pain is going to lessen
when the big things hurt so much,
i try to stay focused on my blessings...
even the twirl of my skirt my friend gave me the other day,
you were the needle in a mile high pile of hay
i said "infinity"... you said, "infinity squared"...
thank you for everything, i know you really cared
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Recovering from an existential crisis/spiritual-nervous breakdown... hey, atleast I'm honest :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
pondering the meaning of life. getting there on time. crying. reading ingredients. color coordination. crying. being passive-aggressive when i encounter cigarette smoke. singing along and getting all the words wrong. obsessing over germs, natural disasters and death. crying.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
teal hair and my hot bod ;) oh wait, scratch that... i'm a 40 year old single mom living in l.a... therefore, i am invisible.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
TOO MANY TO LIST but here's a sample, although I don't think it's necessarily an important factor in finding a compatible partner...

henry miller, anais nin, jack kerouac, augusten burroughs, cupcake brown, dr. brian weiss, elisabeth kubler ross, dr. michael newton, francesca lia block, books on self-help, psychic development, mediumship, shamanism, past lives, the after life, quantum physics, etc. (ok, I haven't actually read up on quantum physics, yet... it's in my to-be read pile)

currently reading: the year of magical thinking by joan didion, destiny of souls by michael newton and slowly working my way through stephen hawking

crispin glover, john waters, woody allen, wes anderson, john hughes, ghost world, edward scissorhands, peggy sue got married, back to the future, being john malkovich, bridesmaids, a mighty wind, best in show, thelma and louise, true romance, fargo, the outsiders, pretty in pink, eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, river's edge, mad men, the office, roseanne, laverne & shirley, welcome back kotter, three's company, morrissey, the smiths, sigur ros, goldfrapp, AIR, portishead, cocteau twins, nick cave, b-52s, juicifer, minor threat, RiFF RAFF, bauhaus, connie francis, sex pistols, peggy lee, ELO, the carpenters, simon and garfunkel, johnny cash, the cure, buddy holly, elvis, radiohead, pink floyd, tammy wynette, leonard cohen... too many to list...

food... organic, vegetarian, gluten-free, healthy... but I do have a sweet tooth!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
nature. my daughter... i don't need six... the universe already stripped me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to make the most out of life... what would that look like/mean to me? should i open my own business? should i move? do i just need a break or a entirely new life? how to spread kindness and embrace beauty at least just a little bit every day... how to stay positive which does not always come naturally for me... all I can do is keep trying to be conscious of it... asking for divine guidance to help with... well, help with everything... shamanism, traveling/accessing/understanding other realms, synchronicity, mediumship/spirit communication, pranic healing, animal spirit medicine, how to navigate through this existence with grace when my heart is so heavy with grief... i love you, lonnie xoxoxo r.i.p.

It's all kinda heavy stuff right now.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
making dinner, listening to vinyl, praying/meditating, ignoring the dirty dishes... Ommmmmmmm... or staring at the wall and crying... there's a lotta that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i am currently a high-functioning mess... this is an improvement ;)

Update as of the 2014 equinox: getting better... getting better... still crying, but getting better... :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... i'm not sure that you should... but what the hey?