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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 35-50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:21pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Not at all
Has kid(s)
My self-summary
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Just trying to be a good person... seeking the same. I value experiences over things, intimate one-on-one conversations vs. parties/clubs/bars, etc. My dreams include becoming a foster parent to adopt and living off the grid (or pretty close to it) near forest or mountains... I already have the land... just looking for a partner with the same dreams even though I don't know the first thing about raising chickens, building stuff or chopping firewood... Skills I'm guessing I will need. So I could probably be just as content w/ a snuggly dude, happy dog and organic garden in the city.
What I’m doing with my life
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reading, writing, working, praying/meditating, dreaming, mom stuff... lotsa mom stuff.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
pondering the meaning of life. getting there on time. reading ingredients. hugging trees. color coordination. making gratitude lists. over analyzing. embracing solitude.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
TOO MANY TO LIST but here's a sample, although I don't think it's necessarily an important factor in finding a compatible partner...

henry miller, anais nin, jack kerouac, augusten burroughs, cupcake brown, dr. brian weiss, dr. elisabeth kubler ross, dr. michael newton, francesca lia block, books on self-help, mediumship, shamanism, past lives, the after life, biographies, memoirs, etc. currently reading: lame deer, seeker of visions: the life of a sioux medicine man

crispin glover, john waters, woody allen, wes anderson, john hughes, ghost world, edward scissorhands, peggy sue got married, back to the future, being john malkovich, bridesmaids, a mighty wind, best in show, thelma and louise, true romance, fargo, the outsiders, pretty in pink, eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, river's edge, mad men, the office, three's company, orange is the new black, louie (louie c.k. is my imaginary bf), portlandia, shameless, morrissey, the smiths, sigur ros, goldfrapp, AIR, portishead, cocteau twins, nick cave, b-52s, juicifer, minor threat, RiFF RAFF (my other imaginary bf), bauhaus, connie francis, sex pistols, peggy lee, ELO, the carpenters, simon and garfunkel, johnny cash, she wants revenge, eminem, echo and the bunnymen, the cure, buddy holly, elvis, radiohead, pink floyd, amy winehouse, guns n roses, lana del rey, tammy wynette, leonard cohen... too many to list...

food... organic, vegetarian, gluten-free, healthy... but I do have a sweet tooth!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
nature. my daughter... i don't need six...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to be a better mom, shamanism, synchronicity, karma, how to contribute/make a difference, alternative healing, psychology, considering becoming a foster parent, wishing i could have a dog...wishing i lived somewhere that allowed dogs... wishing i lived in hawaii... how can i make that happen?... is okstupid really the place to find a family oriented hot dude seeking a good old fashioned commitment?, my travel wish list, how to navigate through this existence with grace ... new age/hippie shit...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
attending a random workshop or lecture, checking out an art opening, going out to dinner w/ a friend or making dinner, listening to vinyl, praying/meditating... up for anything low key... But perfectly happy to be at home... I'm an introvert and enjoy my own company. It'd be cool to meet someone that I like just as much as myself. Hah.
You should message me if
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you have a big heart... you enjoy talking about things of a spiritual nature ... if you have ideas on how to save the world... if you've experienced loss &/or personal tragedy that has made you grow in positive ways, i'd love to hear your story... i like beards, braids, tattoos and dreads... but it's certainly not a requirement... inner beauty is!