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40 F Los Angeles, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:10am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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oy vey.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Recovering from an existential crisis/spiritual-nervous breakdown... hey, atleast I'm honest :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
pondering the meaning of life. getting there on time. reading ingredients. color coordination. being passive-aggressive when i encounter cigarette smoke. singing along and getting all the words wrong. obsessing over germs, natural disasters and death.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
teal hair and my hot bod ;) oh wait, scratch that... i'm a 40 year old single mom living in l.a... therefore, i am invisible.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
TOO MANY TO LIST but here's a sample, although I don't think it's necessarily an important factor in finding a compatible partner...

henry miller, anais nin, jack kerouac, augusten burroughs, cupcake brown, dr. brian weiss, dr. elisabeth kubler ross, dr. michael newton, francesca lia block, books on self-help, psychic development, mediumship, shamanism, past lives, the after life, quantum physics, etc. (ok, I haven't actually read up on quantum physics, yet... it's in my to-be read pile)

currently reading: the year of magical thinking by joan didion, destiny of souls by michael newton and slowly working my way through stephen hawking

crispin glover, john waters, woody allen, wes anderson, john hughes, ghost world, edward scissorhands, peggy sue got married, back to the future, being john malkovich, bridesmaids, a mighty wind, best in show, thelma and louise, true romance, fargo, the outsiders, pretty in pink, eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, river's edge, mad men, the office, roseanne, laverne & shirley, welcome back kotter, three's company, morrissey, the smiths, sigur ros, goldfrapp, AIR, portishead, cocteau twins, nick cave, b-52s, juicifer, minor threat, RiFF RAFF, bauhaus, connie francis, sex pistols, peggy lee, ELO, the carpenters, simon and garfunkel, johnny cash, the cure, buddy holly, elvis, radiohead, pink floyd, tammy wynette, leonard cohen... too many to list...

food... organic, vegetarian, gluten-free, healthy... but I do have a sweet tooth!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
nature. my daughter... i don't need six...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
shamanism, traveling/accessing/understanding other realms, synchronicity, mediumship/spirit communication, spiritual blue prints, pranic healing, animal spirit medicine, how to navigate through this existence with grace ... new age/hippie shit...
It's all kinda heavy stuff right now.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
making dinner, listening to vinyl, praying/meditating, ignoring the dirty dishes... Ommmmmmmm... or staring at the wall and crying... there's a lotta that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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you don't want to know.
You should message me if
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... i'm not sure that you should... but what the hey?