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40 Los Angeles, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:40am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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writer. hair stylist. mother. dreamer. meditator. authentic. responsible. creative. health minded. caring. nature loving. self aware. gracious... always embracing the little things in life! blah, blah, blah... if i was a dude, i'd totally dig me.
What I’m doing with my life
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reading, writing, working, dreaming, mom stuff.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
pondering the meaning of life. getting there on time. reading ingredients. hugging trees. color coordination. making gratitude lists. over analyzing. appreciating the little things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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teal hair and my hot bod ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
TOO MANY TO LIST but here's a sample, although I don't think it's necessarily an important factor in finding a compatible partner...

henry miller, anais nin, jack kerouac, augusten burroughs, cupcake brown, dr. brian weiss, dr. elisabeth kubler ross, dr. michael newton, francesca lia block, books on self-help, mediumship, shamanism, past lives, the after life, biographies, memoirs, etc. currently reading: the glass castle (so good!!!)

crispin glover, john waters, woody allen, wes anderson, john hughes, ghost world, edward scissorhands, peggy sue got married, back to the future, being john malkovich, bridesmaids, a mighty wind, best in show, thelma and louise, true romance, fargo, the outsiders, pretty in pink, eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, river's edge, mad men, the office, roseanne, laverne & shirley, welcome back kotter, three's company, morrissey, the smiths, sigur ros, goldfrapp, AIR, portishead, cocteau twins, nick cave, b-52s, juicifer, minor threat, RiFF RAFF, bauhaus, connie francis, sex pistols, peggy lee, ELO, the carpenters, simon and garfunkel, johnny cash, the cure, buddy holly, elvis, radiohead, pink floyd, amy winehouse, tammy wynette, leonard cohen... too many to list...

food... organic, vegetarian, gluten-free, healthy... but I do have a sweet tooth!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
nature. my daughter... i don't need six...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to be a better mom, shamanism, synchronicity, karma, how to contribute/make a difference, alternative healing, psychology, considering becoming a foster parent, wishing i could have a dog...wishing i lived somewhere that allowed dogs, is okcupid really the place to find a family oriented hot dude seeking a good old fashioned commitment?, my travel wish list, how to navigate through this existence with grace ... new age/hippie shit...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
attending a random workshop or lecture, checking out an art opening, going out to dinner w/ a friend or making dinner, listening to vinyl, praying/meditating, scavenging the pantry for sweet treats/cursing myself for not buying the latest Trader Joe's sweet treats, ignoring the dirty dishes... Ommmmmmmm...
You should message me if
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you have a big heart and you don't take yourself too seriously... if you happen to look like Jesus or a mountain man with tattoos then (swoon) all the better. but it's certainly not a requirement. ha.