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  • Ages 44-58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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6' 1" (1.86m)
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My self-summary
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First, I'm an actor, and that comes with it's own set of insecurities and issues. It's been said that I'm a rarity: an actor with very little ego. I can't say that that is completely true, but it's kind of nice that others think that.

I go to the zoo every day! While I'm there I manage the operations of the zoo's restaurants and other food outlets. I love being a part of a place that means so much to so many people, and I love being a part of making their day special.

The zoo is also a great date - but I have to be fairly serious about a woman to take her there. It's a lot like meeting my family. But I do regularly take cute animal pictures and text them at random times during the day...

I have many women friends, and they are dear to me. They tell me I'm handsome and charming and fun to be with. They say I'd be a "good catch." They've offered to help me write this. (Do you think maybe I should have taken them up on it?) They tell me a woman would be lucky...

I'm waiting to meet that woman.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living a somewhat bohemian lifestyle (sacrificing creature comforts to chase a creative dream, caring more for what one does than how much one is paid, etc.) is cool and edgy in your 20s, risky and brave in your 30's, even heroic and admirable in your 40s. In your fifties it becomes downright Quixotic. Especially if you're not that good at it.

UPDATE: Recent work changes (good ones) have resulted in some interesting changes. For the first time in my life I am not living paycheck to paycheck. New possibilities arise that I am anxious to explore - including a more active social life, leisure activities and travel. I've never been able to really pursue any of these, and now I'm excited about exploring possibilities.

Wanna help?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Put me on a stage, and I'm happy.
Let me sing while I'm there, even better.

I'm getting better at West Coast Swing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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If I'm performing, my voice.
If not, I think it's my eyes.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Venturing out of my comfort zone...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In the best of times, I'm on stage.

Other times, I may be seeing friends perform.
I'm trying to get out more. Dancing or meeting friends.

Honestly, I'm often just at home indulging in online TV marathons.

(Bear in mind, I supervise a seven day operation. "Friday" often doesn't mean all that much to me.)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've watched every season of Dancing With the Stars. In real time. With commentary.