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32 M Ontario, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:24am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Christianity, and very serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
My name is Patrick. I'm a just a nice guy trying to live a simple life.

Any given day I may or may not have a beard.

I'm naturally a logical skeptic of all things.

I'm very self-aware (something I assumed was normal for humans).

My personality rating is completely innacurate and hardly relates to my character.

I don't like to talk myself up or quantify how cool my life is to anyone.

I disregard a lot of the match %s because I didn't answer all of my questions seriously or have complicated contradictory responses, failing to realize that OKC probably doesn't read the "intent" of responses in calculating %s and that may effect my matches adversely.

I'm trying to keep this thing as simple as i can...
What I’m doing with my life
I work for a leading automotive aftermarket intake company designing instruction sheets and editing web images. In my spare time I try to create things, I also have a clothing line I have been working on getting off the ground for some time. I am not driven by success, or status, or money. I enjoy any creative process just for the sake of creation. I have been through way too much in life to care about superficial things. These are the things important to me: Making memories, Making things, and Making an impact on lives.
I’m really good at
I am good at planning, communicating, designing, creating, fixing things, solving problems... and then there's things I like doing like rock climbing, mountain biking, body boarding, inline skating ...pretty much any outdoors activities. I know everyone says stuff like that, but Im literally out doing something almost every weekend. I hate being cooped up.
The first things people usually notice about me
I sometimes say outlandish things, often to people that don't know me. I've been told I don't have a filter. I'm working on it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
KZRG 1310 Missouri (radio app)
If the music I listen to is that important to you my pandora profile is p24rick7
The six things I could never do without
In order of necessity: God, water, food, clothing, shelter (debatable), Dr.Pepper (trying to cut back)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
quantum theory, time dilation, our reality, politics, theology, art/designs
On a typical Friday night I am
indoor rock climbing in riverside.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I won't be trying to have sex with you. I have be abstinent for 8 years now (it hasn't been easy). I have found that having sex early in relationships gives a false sense of emotional connection (false sense of love) so I try to take the time to grow a genuine friendship and a real connection instead.

I also don't drink and never have. I spend a lot of time in my mind. I like the way I think. I like to have a complete awareness of my surroundings and control of my own thoughts and actions. In this life thats the only thing we have any real control over. There is no benefit that alcohol can give me that I can't already consciously control. Everything comes down to self control, not in the sense of limiting yourself, instead it's freeing your mind from itself.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
I'm not going to give a long list of reasons why or why not to message me. If you think you might be interested say something. Maybe I would have messaged you first like a proper gentleman but your long list of ridiculous requirements has deterred me, who knows. If I message you... even one word, that means I would like to know you. It doesn't mean I have some shady intentions like the rest of the guys I hear complaints about. Im looking for a real genuine connection. I don't trust anyone with one photo and no info, specially if that one photo looks flawless.