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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-43
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 20
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Other but it’s not important
Has kid(s) and might want more
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am an introvert. Health is important to me--I take care of myself, but I'm not over the top--I still eat potato chips on occasion and drink beer. I'm active and intelligent, which means I like to have meaningful conversations with people I am close to. I don't have time for small chit-chat; I like to get down to what makes us all tick. I am a loyal, caring and dedicated friend; so as a partner, I am that and more. Words are important to me--song lyrics, poetry, stories; I occasionally write some myself when the mood strikes me. Mostly, I'm a complex guy, but that keeps life interesting, and people who take the time to get to know me are not disappointed.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working and raising a kid.
I’m really good at
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_Really_ Good? Oh I don't,'s hard to tell. There are very few things I'm really bad at except starting a conversation. But if you start one, I'll definitely have something to say. Ask lots of questions, you'll get answers that satisfy.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my intense blue eyes and my wit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Frank Herbert was a visionary.

Yeah, I'm a GoT addict too. There really isn't anything else I'd lose sleep over. Haven't read the books for fear of ruining the show. Obviously the books will be good, so I'd rather enjoy the show first.

I like mostly music that actually meant something to somebody. And then there is music that is just fun.

I like mostly all food. I like it better if eating it makes me feel like I just did something good for myself.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to quickly and thoroughly distinguish myself from the D-bags flooding your inbox with messages like this: "Can I marry you so that I can pull your panties down every day for the rest of your life?" I mean, those are great and all, but I'm sure you get tired of hearing it after a while.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Passed out in a gutter by 11. Just kidding. I have a kid, so in bed by 10 or maybe out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've always been afraid of being that guy who thinks a woman likes him just because she's actually nice and polite. Consequently, if you are hitting on me, I am probably in turn trying my best to assume I must be mistaking your intentions.
You should message me if
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You are active and care about yourself, like intense conversations, and are willing to work a bit to get to know someone. I am also interested in meeting other introverts like me. But if you find me interesting and are an extrovert, please message!