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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 33-46
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 10:49am
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English, Spanish (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Portuguese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm loyal, fun-loving, enthusiastic, and always seeking to improve myself... I may expect a lot, but in return, I give a lot - and never forget to give thanks and appreciation. I also think it's super important to be able to relax and goof off together and make each other laugh, and I am looking for someone who shares this outlook.

Because we both feel totally alive and inspired when playing in nature, we likely spend a lot of our time together outdoors....running, hiking, or biking nearby trails....taking the time to hit the slopes to catch some fresh tracks and then enjoying the après (with drinks and a cozy fire of course)...camping at some hidden gem of a campground....climbing a mountain once in a while perhaps?

As often as we can, we also try to get a bit further afield to explore the rest of the world - the more off-the-beaten path the better. Sometimes to enjoy an active vacation, other times to lounge on a deserted beach with soft sand and epic blue waters to ourselves.

You are a funny, goofy, warm, smart man who is well informed. And I kind of fall for you during our conversations because you are curious and aware. What I most admire in men is a combination of a fun and adventurous spirit with an ability to successfully navigate the real world. I like a guy who is at ease with life, sees the joy in it, and is looking to make the most of it.

Don’t be shy. I think if you read my profile carefully, you know my kind of man. If you see a match – come on out and say hello – and let's get out there and explore!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to get the most out of it. I enjoy continually learning and experiencing new things, so can be a bit like a kid in a candy store when it comes to life. Yet I'm also strangely focused, loyal, and driven at the same time.

Trying to figure out how to make others' lives better in the process as well. What can I say...I'm still a bit of a VT hippie idealist at heart, because I'm never fully satisfied if I don't feel like I'm giving back as well.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
remembering lyrics to very random songs
parallel parking
just the right amount of sass
booking vacations/vacations homes. Seriously, my friends can back me up here. I am awesome at this, may even turn it into a business soon.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my voice if talking... Maybe my eyes if not
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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bit of a nerd with books, I'm happy to admit it. Do a good amount of reading. Recent reads I liked were Cutting for Stone, Night Circus, South of Broad, Devil in the White City, Little Bee and Infidel.

Big fan of clever and witty sarcasm - movies of the Anchorman variety, TV of the Jon Stewart/Family Guy variety, and newspapers of the Onion variety... you get the idea. I don't mind pushing the boundaries of decency for a good laugh at times. But the next day you might find me watching an artsy foreign drama.

I love music but one look at my ipod confuses most because my taste really varies. I listen to mostly alternative-ish/singer-songwriter stuff when just going about my day or driving.

Love food... up to try anything or try and make anything! Cooking is something I really enjoy - along with baking. I also dig bourbon. A well-made brown cocktail is a favorite treat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm so tempted to find something clever to say here... but failing. So here are some thoughts:
- laughter
- challenge
- passport -- I know everyone on here claims travel, but this is something I just can't leave off, it has had too much of an impact on my life and I hope to continue to have more off-the-beaten path adventures into the future, ideally even living abroad again.
- variety
- time in the mountains
- time on the water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If traffic is so bad because everyone is distracted taking car selfies? seriously, how has that become a thing?

life and what it's all about and how to make great memories. how I can make the world a more sustainable, pleasant place. how to be a better person.

people... what they are up to, what a day in their life is like, etc. Kinda random, I know. But along the lines of looking out an airplane window and wondering what it must be like to live in one of the little towns I'm flying over.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out for happy hour?
cooking dinner?
relaxing with a movie?
flying or driving somewhere?
I often just rest up to enjoy an early Saturday, but can be easily swayed by a bright idea
You should message me if
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You are someone who is fun, funny, adventurous, and enjoys life... Can't resist someone a bit feisty as well who will challenge me, so long as you can also take a bit of it in return.