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37 San Francisco, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 33–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:55pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Fluently), French (Poorly), Portuguese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Ok, so I think I can say with confidence that I'm a pretty great catch because I am loyal, fun-loving, enthusiastic (yet stable), and I'm always seeking to improve myself. I may expect a lot but in return, I give a lot - and never forget to give thanks and appreciation. I believe that in relationships we should build each other up and bring out the best in each other. I also think it's super important to be able to goof off together and make each other laugh, and I am looking for someone who shares this outlook.

We each have our own lives and enjoy time with friends and activities on our own. But because we both feel totally alive, engaged, and inspired when playing in nature, we likely spend a lot of our time together running or biking the Headlands....taking a weekend and hitting the slopes in Tahoe to catch some fresh tracks and then enjoying the après (with drinks and a cozy fire of course)...camping at some hidden gem of a campground in the redwoods, or up on the lost coast....climbing a mountain once in a while to test our limits...attempting to surf/kite surf... or maybe just checking out a random part of yhe Bay Area.

As often as we can, we also try to get a bit further afield to explore the far corners of the earth - the more exotic and off-the-beaten path the better. Sometimes to enjoy an active vacation, other times to lounge on a deserted beach with soft sand and epic blue waters to ourselves. We spend time meeting new friends, seeing new cities, trying the local foods, learning about other cultures, and likely making more than a few bad decisions but most assuredly having some great laughs because of it. Together.

You are a healthy, funny, goofy, warm, smart man who is well informed. And I kind of fall for you during our conversations because you are curious and aware. And you've taken the time to experience a lot of the world yourself and have your own entertaining stories to contribute. What I most admire in men is a combination of a fun and adventurous spirit with an ability to successfully navigate the real world. I like a guy who is at ease with life, sees the joy in it, and is looking to make the most of it.

Don’t be shy. I think you if you read my profile carefully, you know my kind of man. If you see a match – come on out and say hello – and let's get out there and explore each other along with this amazing city/state/country/world!
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to get the most out of it. I enjoy continually learning and experiencing new things, so can be a bit like a kid in a candy store when it comes to life. Yet I'm also strangely focused, loyal, and driven at the same time.

Trying to figure out how to make others' lives better in the process as well. What can I say...I'm still a bit of a VT hippie idealist at heart, because I'm never fully satisfied if I don't feel like I'm giving back as well.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
remembering lyrics to very random songs
parallel parking
just the right amount of sass
booking vacations/vacations homes. Seriously, my friends can back me up here. I am awesome at this, may even turn it into a business soon.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my voice if talking... Maybe my eyes if not
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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bit of a nerd with books, I'm happy to admit it. Do a good amount of reading. Recent reads I liked were Cutting for Stone, Night Circus, South of Broad, Devil in the White City, Little Bee and Infidel.

Big fan of clever and witty sarcasm - movies of the Anchorman variety, TV of the Jon Stewart/Family Guy variety, and newspapers of the Onion variety... you get the idea. I don't mind pushing the boundaries of decency for a good laugh at times. But the next day you might find me watching an artsy foreign drama.

I love music but one look at my ipod confuses most because my taste really varies. I listen to mostly alternative-ish/singer-songwriter stuff when just going about my day or driving.

Love food... up to try anything or try and make anything! Cooking is something I really enjoy - along with baking. I also dig bourbon. A well-made brown cocktail is a favorite treat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm so tempted to find something clever to say here... but failing. So here are some thoughts:
- laughter
- challenge
- passport -- I know everyone on here claims travel, but this is something I just can't leave off, it has had too much of an impact on my life and I hope to continue to have more off-the-beaten path adventures into the future, ideally even living abroad again.
- variety
- books
- wine (I mean I could totally live without it, but why?!?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If traffic is so bad because everyone is distracted taking car selfies. seriously, how has that become a thing?

life and what it's all about and how to make great memories. how I can make the world a more sustainable, pleasant place. how to be a better person.

people... what they are up to, what a day in their life is like, etc. Kinda random, I know. But along the lines of looking out an airplane window and wondering what it must be like to live in one of the little towns I'm flying over.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out for happy hour?
cooking dinner?
relaxing with a movie?
driving to tahoe?
I often just rest up to enjoy an early Saturday, but can be easily swayed by a bright idea
You should message me if
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You are someone who is fun, funny, adventurous, and enjoys life... I feel drawn to people that don't take themselves or life too seriously, but still know how to handle their business. Can't resist someone a bit feisty as well who will challenge me, so long as you can also take a bit of it in return.