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45 M Seattle, WA

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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
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Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Let me encapsulate my last 30 years.
I'm a local native Lefty/Liberal Progressive/Socialist who is proud of his "Patches Pal" roots growing up here in Pugetropolis in the 80's.
In my 20's, I read "the Rocket", saw shows @ the Backstage in Ballard, slurped stiffies @ the 5 Point, rocked out @ RKCNDY or ate hash after the bash @ the Off Ramp, & generally got down n' dirty in the mud puddle of 1990's Seattle.

I attempted to stabilize in my 30's: I became a mailman, tried to settle down, got married, tried my hand @ home ownership a couple of times, bought a Harley, & nested south in West Seattle. But some things weren't meant to be.

In my 40's, I've gotten real: I gave up drinking, I divorced, swore off home ownership, kept the Harley, moved to Ballard to be close to work, focused on myself, and now I feel sober optimism about life. And boredom. -Yawn-

I enjoy being single but I miss the nice stuff in a relationship so that's why I've put myself out here on OKC.

I'm a mellow extrovert here looking meet other mellow extroverts!
I'm an ESTJ according to the Myers-Briggs test.
(We're big on making honest connections with people. Sometimes we're intensely focused. Feel free to say, "Lighten up, Francis." --from the movie Stripes w/ Bill Murray?)

If you've sown your wild oats, gone through some shit, settled down, gotten your shit together, and enjoy having a stable, optimistic life without the upheaval that you lived in your 20's & 30's, then we have something in common.
"C'mon over & shoot the shit." Kurt Cobain

As you can see from my pics, I enjoy the outdoors. If you enjoy the outdoors via car camping, hiking, road trips, & exploring in general, pass me a note. I really love road trips on my bike. I want to travel more! And I also want to dine out more with a lovely lady as my companion. Dinner & a movie is fun! Dating should be fun! And funny! Take my advice and date a funny fucker!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
These days, it's getting outside and "sounding my savage yawp."
Keeping it real & low-key. Delivering the mail. Paying my bills. Going out for dinner. Keeping touch with my folks. Knocking around Puget Sound. Going for drives. Going for walks in parks. Riding my H-D in summer. A lot of introspection. Learning from my past. Being open to happiness. Strikes & gutters.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Riding my motorcycle! Driving! Reminiscing about Seattle! Lists? Losing my hair! Finding my sense of humor! Blurting out inappropriate shit @ the worst times! Wait...that's bad.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It's summer: the glare on my forehead!

on here: hopefully, that I'm amiable & witty ---but I've been told that my blue eyes stand out.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors/Books: Aesop's Fables, Jack Kerouac's On the Road, just about anything by Hunter S. Thompson, some Charles Bukowski, Raymond Chandler, James Ellroy, Ernest Hemingway, John Steinbeck.

Movies: Cool Hand Luke, the Big Lebowski, School of Rock, Fearless, City of Lost Children, Rififi, Summer Hours, La Femme Nikita, Away We Go, Sideways, Blood Simple, Up in Smoke, Unforgiven, Dead Man, Dead Man Walking, At Close Range, The Crossing Guard, Little Miss Sunshine, The Fisher King, Repo Man, Kingpin, There Will be Blood, The Lives of Others, Out of the Past, American Beauty, Winter's Bone, Lock Stock & 2 Smoking Barrels, Snatch, the Sweet Hereafter, The Wild Angels, Kingpin, 44 Inch Chest, Sexy Beast, the Lord of the Rings series, Our Idiot Brother, In A World.
Documentaries: Inequality for All, Chasing Ice, Happy, Why We Fight, Spellbound, Hoop Dreams, Dreams with Teeth, An Inconvenient Truth, the Aristocrats, Who Killed the Electric Car?, Winnebago Man, No Impact Man, The Most Dangerous Man in America, The Times of Harvey Milk, The Wild Parrots of Telegraph Hill, Ralph Nader: an Unreasonable Man, Trudell, Trumbo, God Grew Tired of Us, American Movie, I Like Killing Flies, Buck, Hot Coffee, Beware Mr. Baker, Finding Joe.

Shows/TV: True Detective, The Wire, Breaking Bad, Varg Veum, the Larry Sanders Show, Frontline, Nova, Seinfeld, The Simpsons, Bob's Burgers, Barney Miller, the Phil Silvers Show, anything with Jonathan Winters or the 3 Stooges.

Food: Good coffee, grilled wild Pacific Salmon,
broccoli, red plums, apple cider, Penn Cove mussels or shellfish in
general, filet mignon, baby spinach salad, cherries, strawberries,
honeycrisp apples, grilled BBQ, asparagus, Lil' Rae's cookies,
apple pie, Odwalla mango tango or carrot juice.

Music: Peter Gabriel, Tool, Johnny Cash, Bruce Springsteen, Jimi Hendrix, The Beatles, Dave Mathews Band, Chris Whitley, Kings of Leon, Ray LaMontagne, Band of Horses, Howlin' Wolf, Nick Vigarino, the Meters, the Beatles, AC/DC, the Rolling Stones, Band of Horses, Hound Dog Taylor, Stevie Ray Vaughan, the Tragically Hip, the Pretenders, Faith No More, Soundgarden, Pearl Jam, the Screaming Trees, Mark Lanegan, Los Lobos, the Rev. Horton Heat, U2, Motorhead, Primus, Rush, Iggy Pop, the Church, Massive Attack, Sarah McLachlan, Kate Bush, Ella Fitzgerald & Louis Armstrong, Parliament & Funkadelic, Sting, Tom Waits, Radiohead, Morphine, Jeff Buckley, Marvin Pontiac, Cowboy Junkies, Miles Davis, the Stone Roses, the Black Keys, the Black Crowes, the Allman Brothers Band, Blues Traveler, Carl Perkins, Led Zeppelin, John Lee Hooker, ZZ Top, Queens of the Stone Age, INXS, REM, RATM, NIN, David Bowie, Bob Marley, Bob Dylan, RL Burnside,and some others.
(My musical taste is all over the place.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
wild salmon
my glasses
sunscreen or hats
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
whether I really want to stay in Seattle. It's changed SO much.....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
"Is this....what day is this?"
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 39–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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the spirit moves ya!

It can't hurt to say hi!