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45 M Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Straight women only
  • Ages 40–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:19pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Salutations, I'm Paul.
I'm a native Seattleite & endangered species.
I keep up on current events & lean lefty progressive in my politics. (I believe in the Labor Movement & that our Government can implement social justice for everybody. The glass is half full.)
I enjoy creature comforts but I'm not going to kill myself to acquire them.
I'm a laid-back guy who prefers low-key activities: dining out, movies, museums & art, Pike Place Market, farmers markets, live music, nature walks, camping, hiking, road trips, travel. I'll try new things but I'm not gonna fall out of a plane or climb a cliff face or look death in the face.

No kids of my own, but I enjoy their company: curiosity, laughter, optimism on a good day & pouting, sulking, cranky when it's not.

I've met some nice women on OKC & had some interesting relationships. I'm optimistic that I'll find a long-term match. I'm not interested in strictly short-term relationships for the rest of my life.
Middle age dating is a long strange trip. Share your adventures with me & we can have some of our own together!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I keep on truckin' & payin' the bills & laughin' @ life's curveballs & keepin' it real & watchin' Seattle evolve.

Looking for a co-pilot for some get-out-of-the-apartment-&-have-fun activities!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting out of town. Floating on a lake in summertime. Road tripping. Losing my hair! Finding my sense of humor! Blurting out inappropriate shit @ the worst times! Wait...that's bad.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
What do you notice? I'll put that in this box.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors/Books: Aesop's Fables, Jack Kerouac's On the Road, just about anything by Hunter S. Thompson, some Charles Bukowski, Raymond Chandler, James Ellroy, Ernest Hemingway, John Steinbeck.

Movies: Cool Hand Luke, the Big Lebowski, School of Rock, Fearless, City of Lost Children, Rififi, Summer Hours, La Femme Nikita, Away We Go, Sideways, Blood Simple, Up in Smoke, Unforgiven, Dead Man, Dead Man Walking, At Close Range, The Crossing Guard, Little Miss Sunshine, The Fisher King, Repo Man, Kingpin, There Will be Blood, The Lives of Others, Out of the Past, American Beauty, Winter's Bone, Lock Stock & 2 Smoking Barrels, Snatch, the Sweet Hereafter, The Wild Angels, Kingpin, 44 Inch Chest, Sexy Beast, the Lord of the Rings series, Our Idiot Brother, In A World.
Documentaries: Inequality for All, Chasing Ice, Happy, Why We Fight, Spellbound, Hoop Dreams, Dreams with Teeth, An Inconvenient Truth, the Aristocrats, Who Killed the Electric Car?, Winnebago Man, No Impact Man, The Most Dangerous Man in America, The Times of Harvey Milk, The Wild Parrots of Telegraph Hill, Ralph Nader: an Unreasonable Man, Trudell, Trumbo, God Grew Tired of Us, American Movie, I Like Killing Flies, Buck, Hot Coffee, Beware Mr. Baker, Finding Joe.

Shows/TV: True Detective, The Wire, Breaking Bad, Varg Veum, the Larry Sanders Show, Frontline, Nova, Seinfeld, The Simpsons, Bob's Burgers, Barney Miller, the Phil Silvers Show, anything with Jonathan Winters or the 3 Stooges.

Food: Good coffee, grilled wild Pacific Salmon,
broccoli, red plums, Lattin's apple cider, Penn Cove mussels or shellfish in general, filet mignon, baby spinach salad, cherries, strawberries, honeycrisp apples, grilled BBQ, asparagus, Lil' Rae's cookies, apple pie, Odwalla mango tango or carrot juice.

Music: Peter Gabriel, Tool, Johnny Cash, Bruce Springsteen, Jimi Hendrix, The Beatles, Dave Mathews Band, Chris Whitley, Kings of Leon, Ray LaMontagne, Band of Horses, Howlin' Wolf, Nick Vigarino, the Meters, the Beatles, AC/DC, the Rolling Stones, Band of Horses, Hound Dog Taylor, Stevie Ray Vaughan, the Tragically Hip, the Pretenders, Faith No More, Soundgarden, Pearl Jam, the Screaming Trees, Mark Lanegan, Los Lobos, the Rev. Horton Heat, U2, Motorhead, Primus, Rush, Iggy Pop, the Church, Massive Attack, Sarah McLachlan, Kate Bush, Ella Fitzgerald & Louis Armstrong, Parliament & Funkadelic, Sting, Tom Waits, Radiohead, Morphine, Jeff Buckley, Marvin Pontiac, Cowboy Junkies, Miles Davis, the Stone Roses, the Black Keys, the Black Crowes, the Allman Brothers Band, Blues Traveler, Carl Perkins, Led Zeppelin, John Lee Hooker, ZZ Top, Queens of the Stone Age, INXS, REM, RATM, NIN, David Bowie, Bob Marley, Bob Dylan, RL Burnside,and some others.
(My musical taste is all over the place.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
wild salmon
my glasses
sunscreen or hats
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
whether I really want to stay in Seattle. It's changed SO much.....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
"Is this....what day is this?"
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That list of my favorites makes my ass look fat from too much reading, eating, music, & tv.
You should message me if
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