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45 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 38–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm Paully Paul!

I'm a local boy with lefty-liberal ideals and passionate progressive politics involving tolerance & respect.
I love music & movies (see lists below)!
I believe that dating is like a long interview so it's going to take a while to get comfortable with each other & I'm cool with that.
I'm the guy with no kids who appreciates kids and will get along with your kids.
If you like to laugh at high & low-brow humor, we'll get along.
I love to road trip, camp, goof off outdoors, talk over meals or coffee.
I'm not into working out but I keep myself HWP so I can see my shoes.

If this helps: I'm an ESTJ Myers-Briggs Personality Type, and a dead-on Taurus according to astrology.

In town:
I wanna break my rusty cage & start hitting some of these fabulous restaurants in this town. I enjoy dining out more than dining in. (But I am a pretty good cook when I want to be.)
Live music is best but I don't go to live shows like I used to. I'm willing to go to The Tractor or the Triple Door or a show @ The Paramount. My musical tastes have mellowed with age --except TooL, heh heh. Museums are fun to investigate too! I haven't been to MOHAI yet.

Out of town:
Exploring the Northwest is what I love to do. An open road with a map & a truck full o' gear & a tank full o' gas & an ipod full of tunes is heaven to me. Wanna ride shotgun? -Does anybody have a boat or watercraft? I'd like to get out on the water --especially in summertime! I'd love to try waterskiing again! I enjoy the outdoors. Camping along the Columbia River is a blast!

I'm attracted to HWP women who take care of themselves & their loved ones. I enjoy kids so I'm open to dating moms --and at this point in life, many of us have kids. I get along well with someone who enjoys the outdoors, or exploring the Northwest, or going out on the town a couple times a month. Educated women with a conventional, stable lifestyle and healthy self-esteem are who I do really well with. They enjoy similar interests: movies, music, politics, camping, hiking, some traveling, and a low-key lifestyle. I want to take my time to get to know someone. Do we make each other laugh? Do we share a similar outlook on things? Do we look forward to seeing each other because we really enjoy each other's company? Do we turn each other on? Do we get along? Are we both at a point where we can put the effort into developing a relationship? Do we have it to give? I'm interested in getting to know someone for a long-term relationship but it doesn't have to involve getting hitched.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being a responsible, productive member of society.👏
Keeping my eyes open for fun ( 😳
Working my mojo to charm a special lady friend 😉
Thinking --always thinking --'bout stuff. 😶
I have changed with age, just like Seattle, but Seattle isn't losing its hair to the degree that I am. 😭
Reading articles online about current events. (The Nation, Huffington Post, Rolling Stone, Sea. Times) 🌐
Laughing at dumb shit I think or say or do.😝
Riding my pedal pony around the 'hood. 🚲
Relaxing next to the Deschutes River when I can.😎

"The dude abides."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
(I'm an ESTJ Personality Type if that helps. Yup, that's me.)

Affection, Intimacy (oral sex), & Love (w/ the right candidate)
Talking 'bout stuff & sharing personal experience
Keeping tabs on current events
Road tripping to new destinations on my motorcycle or in my lil' truck.
Floating on one of our fabulous lake in summertime.
Pouring on the charm.
Blurting out inappropriate shit @ the worst times --wait! That's bad. 😳
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
-A visitor from South Carolina said that I'm "very handsome." Awww.
-I was told recently that I'm better looking in person than my pics reveal. That's pretty flattering. : )

My sense of humor? Gregariousness? Seriousness? The shine off my forehead? The long profile?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Authors/Books: Aesop's Fables, Jack Kerouac's On the Road, just about anything by Hunter S. Thompson, some Charles Bukowski, Raymond Chandler, James Ellroy, Ernest Hemingway, John Steinbeck.

Movies: I enjoy a blend of old & new films of various genres. The ones that stand out in my book are Boyhood, the Big Lebowski, Happy, Cool Hand Luke, Raffifi, Easy Rider, Why We Fight, & There Will Be Blood.
Shows/TV: True Detective, The Wire, Breaking Bad, Varg Veum(Norwegian show), the Larry Sanders Show, Frontline, Nova, How We Got to Now, Seinfeld, The Simpsons, anything with Jonathan Winters or the 3 Stooges.

Food: Good coffee, grilled wild Pacific Salmon,
broccoli, red plums, Lattin's apple cider, Penn Cove mussels or shellfish in general, filet mignon, baby spinach salad, cherries, strawberries, honeycrisp apples, grilled BBQ, asparagus, Odwalla mango tango or carrot juice.

-NOW FOR THE BIG LIST- Music: Peter Gabriel, Tool, Johnny Cash, Bruce Springsteen, Jimi Hendrix, The Beatles, Dave Mathews Band, Chris Whitley, Kings of Leon, Ray LaMontagne, Band of Horses, Howlin' Wolf, Nick Vigarino, the Meters, the Beatles, AC/DC, the Rolling Stones, Band of Horses, Hound Dog Taylor, Stevie Ray Vaughan, the Tragically Hip, the Pretenders, Faith No More, Soundgarden, Pearl Jam, the Screaming Trees, Mark Lanegan, Los Lobos, the Rev. Horton Heat, U2, Motorhead, Primus, Rush, Iggy Pop, the Church, Massive Attack, Sarah McLachlan, Kate Bush, Ella Fitzgerald & Louis Armstrong, Parliament & Funkadelic, Sting, Tom Waits, Radiohead, Morphine, Jeff Buckley, Marvin Pontiac, Cowboy Junkies, Miles Davis, the Stone Roses, the Black Keys, the Black Crowes, the Allman Brothers Band, Blues Traveler, Carl Perkins, Led Zeppelin, John Lee Hooker, ZZ Top, Queens of the Stone Age, INXS, REM, RATM, NIN, David Bowie, Bob Marley, Bob Dylan, RL Burnside,and some others.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
This week?

sunny weather
quarters for laundry
clean clothes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-lines from the Big Lebowski.
-how nice it would be to have a steady girlfriend
-when is the consistently nice weather gonna get here?
-where will I go on my next vacation?
-funny stuff that my friends say or that I think up
-how lucky I am considering some of the things I've been through
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
"Is this....what day is this?"

Maybe doing laundry. Chillaxing since I have to work on saturday. (The mail must go through you know!)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Even though I don't drink, I'm still comfortable with people who are social drinkers. My time spent with heavy, daily drinkers ended a long time ago.
You should message me if
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you like what you see & read in this profile!

(Don't be scared off by the fact that I don't drink.) 😀