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45 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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"A good day to you, ma'am!"

I'm Paul. A balding blonde guy in Ballard. I deliver mail during the week and fiddle faddle around on my days off.
I'm lefty-liberal, laid-back in my outlook but not flakey. So I cut people slack since we're all human, but I don't suffer fools gladly. I'm pretty laid-back. I avoid upheaval & dysfunction. Attaining wisdom through life experience is where I'm at. I enjoy keeping it real and making a sincere connection with people. Honesty and sincerity are big to me, as well as respecting others' boundaries/space in order to let a relationship develop organically.
-I enjoy creature comforts but I'm not going to kill myself to acquire them --plus I live in an apartment & it fills up with stuff pretty quickly.
-No kids of my own, but I enjoy their company: curiosity, laughter, optimism on a good day; pouting, sulking, cranky when it's not. I respect parents because I remember what a pain in the ass I was as a kid. But I'm a sweetheart now!
-My barfly days are over. I enjoy the company of light drinkers where it's not the focus of the socializing. I want to socialize in other ways. If wine/beer-thirty/happy hour happens regularly, good luck to you. Dealbreaker for me.
-Exploring the Northwest is what I love to do. An open road with a map & a truck full o' gear & a tank full o' gas & an ipod full of tunes is heaven to me. Wanna ride shotgun?

Dating in my 40's is something I never thought I'd be doing. I've met some nice women on OKC & had some interesting relationships but none that have panned out. I'm optimistic that I'll find a long-term match. I'm not interested in strictly short-term relationships for the rest of my life. You just keep rolling and see where life takes you. The dude abides.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
"And you may ask yourself: did I get here?"
Too much fiddle, not enough faddle.
I keep on truckin' & payin' the bills & laughin' @ life's curveballs & keepin' it real & watchin' Seattle evolve & tweaking this damn profile.

Looking for a co-pilot for some get-out-of-the-apartment-&-have-fun activities!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
(Duality as I reread my summary above.)
Road tripping on my motorcycle or in my lil' truck.
Floating on a lake in summertime.
Getting a sunburn.
Losing my hair.
Looking up stuff on the Internet.
Remembering trivial poo poo.
Crackin' a smart ass remark for fun.
Blurting out inappropriate shit @ the worst times. Wait...that's bad!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
What do you notice? I'll put that in this box.

-A visitor from South Carolina said that I'm "very handsome." Awww.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors/Books: Aesop's Fables, Jack Kerouac's On the Road, just about anything by Hunter S. Thompson, some Charles Bukowski, Raymond Chandler, James Ellroy, Ernest Hemingway, John Steinbeck.

Movies: Cool Hand Luke, the Big Lebowski, School of Rock, Fearless, City of Lost Children, Rififi, Summer Hours, La Femme Nikita, Away We Go, Sideways, Blood Simple, Up in Smoke, Unforgiven, Dead Man, Dead Man Walking, At Close Range, The Crossing Guard, Little Miss Sunshine, The Fisher King, Repo Man, Kingpin, There Will be Blood, The Lives of Others, Out of the Past, American Beauty, Winter's Bone, Lock Stock & 2 Smoking Barrels, Snatch, the Sweet Hereafter, The Wild Angels, Kingpin, 44 Inch Chest, Sexy Beast, the Lord of the Rings series, Our Idiot Brother, In A World.
Documentaries: Inequality for All, Chasing Ice, Happy, Why We Fight, Spellbound, Hoop Dreams, Dreams with Teeth, An Inconvenient Truth, the Aristocrats, Who Killed the Electric Car?, Winnebago Man, No Impact Man, The Most Dangerous Man in America, The Times of Harvey Milk, The Wild Parrots of Telegraph Hill, Ralph Nader: an Unreasonable Man, Trudell, Trumbo, God Grew Tired of Us, American Movie, I Like Killing Flies, Buck, Hot Coffee, Beware Mr. Baker, Finding Joe.

Shows/TV: True Detective, The Wire, Breaking Bad, Varg Veum, the Larry Sanders Show, Frontline, Nova, Seinfeld, The Simpsons, Bob's Burgers, Barney Miller, the Phil Silvers Show, anything with Jonathan Winters or the 3 Stooges.

Food: Good coffee, grilled wild Pacific Salmon,
broccoli, red plums, Lattin's apple cider, Penn Cove mussels or shellfish in general, filet mignon, baby spinach salad, cherries, strawberries, honeycrisp apples, grilled BBQ, asparagus, Lil' Rae's cookies, apple pie, Odwalla mango tango or carrot juice.

Music: Peter Gabriel, Tool, Johnny Cash, Bruce Springsteen, Jimi Hendrix, The Beatles, Dave Mathews Band, Chris Whitley, Kings of Leon, Ray LaMontagne, Band of Horses, Howlin' Wolf, Nick Vigarino, the Meters, the Beatles, AC/DC, the Rolling Stones, Band of Horses, Hound Dog Taylor, Stevie Ray Vaughan, the Tragically Hip, the Pretenders, Faith No More, Soundgarden, Pearl Jam, the Screaming Trees, Mark Lanegan, Los Lobos, the Rev. Horton Heat, U2, Motorhead, Primus, Rush, Iggy Pop, the Church, Massive Attack, Sarah McLachlan, Kate Bush, Ella Fitzgerald & Louis Armstrong, Parliament & Funkadelic, Sting, Tom Waits, Radiohead, Morphine, Jeff Buckley, Marvin Pontiac, Cowboy Junkies, Miles Davis, the Stone Roses, the Black Keys, the Black Crowes, the Allman Brothers Band, Blues Traveler, Carl Perkins, Led Zeppelin, John Lee Hooker, ZZ Top, Queens of the Stone Age, INXS, REM, RATM, NIN, David Bowie, Bob Marley, Bob Dylan, RL Burnside,and some others.
(My musical taste is all over the place.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
SUMMER SUNSHINE! (especially since it's winter)
sunscreen/hats (so I don't blind you)
wild salmon (yum!)
my glasses/contacts (I need to see you)
laughin' about shit & shinola
good lovin'
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Low-key activities: dining out, movies, museums & art, Pike Place Market, farmers markets, live music, nature walks, camping, hiking, road trips, travel.
I'm curious to try snowshoeing or cross-country or downhill skiing since it's winter. Anything to get out of the city & into Nature!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
"Is this....what day is this?"

Maybe doing laundry. Chillaxing since I have to work on saturday. (The mail must go through!)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The above list of favorites makes my ass look fat from too much reading, eating, music, & tv.
You should message me if
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