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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Not at all
Might want kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey Fabulous --I was wondering when you'd stop by! 😄

I'm a native Seattlite with lefty-liberal ideals and passionate progressive politics involving tolerance & respect.
If you like to laugh at high & low-brow humor, we'll get along.
I'm just a low-key guy living a laid-back middle-class lifestyle.
I love to discuss various topics over coffee/dinner. I enjoy going to restaurants, museums, films, parks all over town. I even enjoy staying in for dinner & streaming a movie. I will cook but I'm a little out of practice, so let's team up!
I have one foot in the city & one in a lovely river somewhere in eastern WA or OR --as you can tell by my recent pics.
I really enjoy exploring & travel to break my weekly monotony.
I don't work out but I walk daily for my job & I've cut back on eating sugar, so that has put a dent in "the Thickening" of my midsection. (I'm down with HWP/yeah you know me.)

If this helps: I'm an ESTJ Myers-Briggs Personality Type, and a dead-on Taurus according to astrology.

I'm attracted to HWP women who take care of themselves & their loved ones. I enjoy kids so I'm open to dating moms --and at this point in life, many of us have kids. I get along well with someone who enjoys the outdoors, or exploring the Northwest, or going out on the town on a regular basis. Educated women with a conventional, stable lifestyle and healthy self-esteem are who I do really well with. They enjoy similar interests: movies, music, politics, some camping, some hiking, traveling, and a low-key lifestyle.
I believe that dating is like a long interview so it's going to take a while to get comfortable with each other. Do we make each other laugh? Do we share a similar outlook on things? Do we look forward to seeing each other because we really enjoy each other's company? Do we turn each other on? Are we both at a point where we can put the effort into developing a relationship? I want to take my time to get to know someone for a long-term relationship --but it doesn't have to involve getting hitched. I learned a few things about myself after my amicable divorce a few years back, so I realize cooperation is key to making a relationship work. I'm willing to give & grow, as well as take. Sometimes that leads to pleasant surprises! What do you know!

What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being a productive member of society.👏
Keeping my eyes open for fun ( 😳
Working my mojo to charm a special lady friend 😉
Thinking --always thinking --'bout stuff. 😶
I have changed with age, just like Seattle, but Seattle isn't losing its hair to the degree that I am. 😭
Reading articles online about current events. (The Nation, Huffington Post, Rolling Stone, Sea. Times) 🌐
Laughing at dumb shit that I think or say or do.😝
Riding my pedal pony around the 'hood. 🚲
Road trippin' when I can! 🚙
Relaxing next to one of our fabulous PNW rivers when I can.😎

"The dude abides."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Pouring on the charm
Affection, Intimacy, & Love (w/ the right candidate)
Writing a long profile
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Tell me & I'll put it in this section.

-I was told recently that I'm better looking in person than my pics reveal. That's pretty flattering. ☺️
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Authors/Books: Aesop's Fables, Jack Kerouac's On the Road, just about anything by Hunter S. Thompson, some Charles Bukowski, Raymond Chandler, James Ellroy, Ernest Hemingway, John Steinbeck.

Movies: I enjoy a blend of old & new films of various genres. The ones that stand out in my book are Boyhood, the Big Lebowski, Happy, Cool Hand Luke, Raffifi, Easy Rider, Why We Fight, & There Will Be Blood.
Shows/TV: True Detective, The Wire, Breaking Bad, Varg Veum (a Norwegian show), the Larry Sanders Show, Frontline, Nova, How We Got to Now, Seinfeld, The Simpsons, anything with Jonathan Winters or the 3 Stooges.

Food: Dillano's Black & Tan blend coffee, grilled wild Pacific Salmon, Penn Cove mussels or shellfish in general, filet mignon, grilled BBQ, organic anything: broccoli, red plums, asparagus, baby spinach salad, blueberries, cherries, strawberries, Fuji apples, Columbia Organics Carrot & Leafy Greens juice, Lattin's apple cider, Odwalla mango tango or carrot juice.

-NOW FOR THE BIG LIST- Music: Peter Gabriel, Tool, Johnny Cash, Bruce Springsteen, Jimi Hendrix, The Beatles, Dave Mathews Band, Chris Whitley, Kings of Leon, Ray LaMontagne, Band of Horses, Howlin' Wolf, Nick Vigarino, the Meters, the Beatles, AC/DC, the Rolling Stones, Hound Dog Taylor, Stevie Ray Vaughan, the Tragically Hip, the Pretenders, Faith No More, Soundgarden, Pearl Jam, the Screaming Trees, Mark Lanegan, Los Lobos, the Rev. Horton Heat, U2, Motorhead, Primus, Rush, Iggy Pop, the Church, Massive Attack, Sarah McLachlan, Kate Bush, Ella Fitzgerald & Louis Armstrong, Parliament & Funkadelic, Sting, Tom Waits, Radiohead, Morphine, Jeff Buckley, Marvin Pontiac, Cowboy Junkies, Miles Davis, the Stone Roses, the Black Keys, the Black Crowes, the Allman Brothers Band, Blues Traveler, Carl Perkins, Led Zeppelin, John Lee Hooker, ZZ Top, Queens of the Stone Age, INXS, REM, RATM, NIN, David Bowie, Bob Marley, Bob Dylan, RL Burnside,and some others.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Something to do
Something to look forward to
Somebody to share it with
my eyesight
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-lines from the Big Lebowski.
-funny stuff that my friends say or that I think up
-how lucky I am considering some of the things I've been through
-where did all these new people in Seattle come from?
-where will I go on my next vacation (domestic or international)?
-how nice it would be to have a special lady friend
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
"Is this....what day is this?"

Maybe doing laundry. Chillaxing since I have to work on saturday. (The mail must go through you know!)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Don't be scared off by the fact that I don't drink. I'm still comfortable with people who are social drinkers. My time spent with heavy, daily drinkers ended 7+ years ago.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you want to laugh with an intelligent, good-natured working-class guy who is easy on the eyes, house-broken, owns a sport coat, and can tie his own tie (just a little out of practice), and you're interested in toe-curling orgasms. (Wait. Should I have said that?)