I attempted to stabilize in my 30's: I became a mailman, tried to settle down, got married, tried my hand @ home ownership a couple of times, bought a Harley, & nested south in West Seattle. But some things weren't meant to be.
In my 40's, I've gotten real: I gave up drinking, I divorced, swore off home ownership, kept the Harley, moved to Ballard to be close to work, focused on myself, and now I feel sober optimism about life.
But you can't be serious all the time, right?
I enjoy being single but I miss the nice stuff in a relationship so that's why I've put myself out here on OKC.
I'm a mellow extrovert here looking meet other mellow extroverts!
I'm an ESTJ according to the Myers-Briggs test.
(We're big on making honest connections with people. Sometimes we're kind of intense. Feel free to say, "Lighten up, Francis." Y'know Stripes w/ Bill Murray?)
If you've sown your wild oats, gone through some shit, settled down, gotten your shit together, and enjoy having a stable, optimistic life without the upheaval that you lived in your 20's & 30's, then we have something in common. Say hello!
As you can see from my pics, I enjoy the outdoors. If you enjoy the outdoors via car camping, hiking, road trips, & exploring in general, pass me a note. I really love road trips on my bike. I want to travel more! And I also want to dine out more with a lovely lady as my companion. Dinner & a movie is fun!