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44 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 14
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm a local native Lefty/Liberal Progressive/Socialist who is proud of his "Patches Pal" roots. Back in the day, I read "the Rocket", saw shows @ the Backstage in Ballard, slurped stiffies @ the 5 Point, rocked out @ RKCNDY or ate hash after the bash @ the Off Ramp, & generally played/indulged in my 20's as many did in the 90's in this town. Denied myself nothing, as it were.

I attempted to stabilize in my 30's: I became a mailman, tried to settle down, got married, tried my hand @ home ownership a couple of times, bought a Harley, & nested south in West Seattle. But some things weren't meant to be.

In my 40's, I've gotten real: I gave up drinking, I divorced, swore off home ownership, kept the Harley, moved to Ballard to be close to work, focused on myself, and now I feel sober optimism about life.

But you can't be serious all the time, right?
I enjoy being single but I miss the nice stuff in a relationship so that's why I've put myself out here on OKC.

I'm a mellow extrovert here looking meet other mellow extroverts!
I'm an ESTJ according to the Myers-Briggs test.
(We're big on making honest connections with people. Sometimes we're kind of intense. Feel free to say, "Lighten up, Francis." Y'know Stripes w/ Bill Murray?)

If you've sown your wild oats, gone through some shit, settled down, gotten your shit together, and enjoy having a stable, optimistic life without the upheaval that you lived in your 20's & 30's, then we have something in common. Say hello!

As you can see from my pics, I enjoy the outdoors. If you enjoy the outdoors via car camping, hiking, road trips, & exploring in general, pass me a note. I really love road trips on my bike. I want to travel more! And I also want to dine out more with a lovely lady as my companion. Dinner & a movie is fun!
What I’m doing with my life
These days, it's getting outside and dieting.
Keeping it real & low-key: Delivering the mail. Paying my bills. Going out for dinner. Keeping touch with my folks. Knocking around Puget Sound. Going for drives. Going for walks in parks. Riding my H-D in summer. A lot of introspection. Learning from my past. Being open to happiness. Being rather Dude-like. Doing a jay every now & then.
I’m really good at
listening; flirting; hugging & kissing; massages; making you feel good.
Cracking jokes! Swimming! Riding my motorcycle! Driving!
The first things people usually notice about me
on here: hopefully, that I'm amiable & witty ---but I've been told that my blue eyes stand out.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors/Books: Aesop's Fables, Jack Kerouac's On the Road, just about anything by Hunter S. Thompson, some Charles Bukowski, Raymond Chandler, James Ellroy, Ernest Hemingway, John Steinbeck.

Movies: Cool Hand Luke, the Big Lebowski, School of Rock, Fearless, City of Lost Children, Rififi, Summer Hours, La Femme Nikita, Away We Go, Blood Simple, Up in Smoke, Unforgiven, Dead Man, Dead Man Walking, At Close Range, The Crossing Guard, Little Miss Sunshine, The Fisher King, Repo Man, Kingpin, There Will be Blood, The Lives of Others, Out of the Past, American Beauty, Winter's Bone, Lock Stock & 2 Smoking Barrels, Snatch, the Sweet Hereafter, The Wild Angels, Kingpin, 44 Inch Chest, Sexy Beast, the Lord of the Rings series, Our Idiot Brother.
Documentaries: Inequality for All, Chasing Ice, Why We Fight, Spellbound, Hoop Dreams, Dreams with Teeth, An Inconvenient Truth, the Aristocrats, Who Killed the Electric Car?, Winnebago Man, No Impact Man, The Most Dangerous Man in America, The Times of Harvey Milk, The Wild Parrots of Telegraph Hill, Ralph Nader: an Unreasonable Man, Trudell, Trumbo, God Grew Tired of Us, My Flesh & Blood, I Like Killing Flies, Buck, Hot Coffee, Beware Mr. Baker, Happy, Finding Joe.

Shows/TV: True Detective, The Wire, Breaking Bad, True Detective, the Larry Sanders Show, Frontline, Nova, Seinfeld, The Simpsons, Bob's Burgers, Barney Miller, the Phil Silvers Show, anything with Jonathan Winters or the 3 Stooges.

Food: Good coffee, grilled wild Pacific Salmon,
broccoli, red plums, apple cider, Penn Cove mussels or shellfish in
general, filet mignon, baby spinach salad, cherries, strawberries,
honeycrisp apples, grilled BBQ, asparagus, Lil' Rae's cookies,
apple pie, Odwalla mango tango or carrot juice.

Music: Peter Gabriel, Tool, Johnny Cash, Bruce Springsteen, Jimi Hendrix, The Beatles, Dave Mathews Band, Chris Whitley, Kings of Leon, Ray LaMontagne, Band of Horses, Howlin' Wolf, Nick Vigarino, the Meters, the Beatles, AC/DC, the Rolling Stones, Band of Horses, Hound Dog Taylor, Stevie Ray Vaughan, the Tragically Hip, the Pretenders, Faith No More, Soundgarden, Pearl Jam, the Screaming Trees, Mark Lanegan, Los Lobos, the Rev. Horton Heat, U2, Motorhead, Primus, Rush, Iggy Pop, the Church, Massive Attack, Sarah McLachlan, Kate Bush, Ella Fitzgerald & Louis Armstrong, Parliament & Funkadelic, Sting, Tom Waits, Radiohead, Morphine, Jeff Buckley, Marvin Pontiac, Cowboy Junkies, Miles Davis, the Stone Roses, the Black Keys, the Black Crowes, the Allman Brothers Band, Blues Traveler, Carl Perkins, Led Zeppelin, John Lee Hooker, ZZ Top, Queens of the Stone Age, INXS, REM, RATM, NIN, David Bowie, Bob Marley, Bob Dylan, RL Burnside,and some others.
(My musical taste is all over the place.)
The six things I could never do without
wild salmon
my glasses
wool socks
I spend a lot of time thinking about
When's my next vacation?
On a typical Friday night I am
mmyeh....huffing an ether-soaked rag...NOT!! ("There is nothing in the world more helpless and irresponsible and depraved than a man in the depths of an ether binge." Hunter S. Thompson)

probably watchin' the boob tube
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm 10-15#'s heavier than I want to be.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 40–48
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You like tall, blonde/bald, cute thinkers.
You're not bothered that I don't drink.
You're a stable gal looking for a stable guy.
You want to laugh at dumb stuff.
Your "pipes are clean!"
Or you wanna trade Lebowskiisms or HST quotes.