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paden13

26 / M / Straight / Single

Santa Monica, California

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:17pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Born and raised in New York City, I moved to Los Angeles about a year and a half ago. While I left some of my dearest, most amazing friends on the East Coast, I'm sold on California. So to any LA haters out there...know that I can't be bothered with your nonsense...

Humor is a huge aspect of who I am as a person, and my humor has few boundaries. I have to be with a person who accepts this, and doesn't take life too seriously. That being said, those who know me well consider me to be a kind, and sensitive friend who has tact and understands when it's time to be serious. My main point is that I'm not some uber P.C., timid little snowflake that feels the need to tip-toe along certain issues. If I think of something funny to say...chances are that I'll say it...

Besides that, I enjoy hiking, biking, skiing, camping, and fishing. I'm a firm believer in COLD BEER. I spend a lot of time outside (when I'm not writing or working). I love to take advantage of the beach and the mountains as much as possible, and I worship our California sun. I'm looking for a fun-loving girl with a heart of gold to be my partner in crime. Brownie points if you have a deep appreciation for dogs; if you love bonding over cocktails and conversation; if you're passionate and creative; if you live for driving fast in pursuit of an exciting adventure; and lastly, if you genuinely desire to get together and meet face-to-face.

Other information: I'm a well traveled man, having been in many parts of the world. The combination of my experiences traveling and the fact that I was raised in a big city has exposed me to more in life than many other people my age. As a result, I have a pocketful of stories... This is largely why I've resolved myself to a career in writing.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a freelance writer. I'm enjoying living in California and being a good Dad to my German Shepherd.
I’m really good at
Fiction and essay writing, acting/improv, telling stories, making people laugh, making myself laugh, skiing, fishing and cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm good with words and I know how to communicate.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: "Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man" by James Joyce, "A Home At the End of the World" by Michael Cunningham, "The Horla" by Guy de Maupassant, "The Beach" by Alex Garland, "The Turn of the Screw" by Henry James, "The Witches" by Roald Dahl.

Movies: Taxi Driver, The Big Chill, Unforgiven, What About Bob?, Pulp Fiction, Dead Poet Society, Clerks, The Reader,.

Music: Black Sabbath, The Misfits, The Rolling Stones, The Jesus and Mary Chain, Lou Reed, Warren Zevon, Joe Walsh, Johnny Cash, Jim Croce, Bob Dylan, The Velvet Underground, and The Smashing Pumpkins are top on my list.

Food: I like everything except for brussel sprouts and beets.
The six things I could never do without
My family and friends
Winston (my German Shepherd)
Books
Exercise
Cold Beer
My truck
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends or having a glass of wine and watching a movie at home.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 23–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You enjoy having fun, you want to go to a concert, you want to bond over drinks and conversation, you want to laugh, and/or you want to talk movies.