Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
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me know you like me!
Well, after being stuck in neutral for a while over what to write
on this part, here goes nothing!
The first thing you should know is I'm somewhat shy (an introvert)
and don't always talk very much. I don't really enjoy large parties
but do better in smaller groups of people. When I go out to arts
and crafts shows or home and garden shows (which I love) I usually
go early to avoid as much of the crowd as possible. I am also a bit
lacking in the tact department. I have a tendency to be rather
blunt when answering questions so you might want to be careful what
you ask. I sometimes blurt out an answer and then consider that it
may not have sounded the way I intended.
I enjoy traveling but haven't been able to do much in the past few
years. Many years ago my sister and I spent 2 weeks in Germany
touring castles and going wherever the mood struck. I've been in
Oklahoma most of my life but have lived in several other states. My
favorite was Alaska. I loved living there. There's always something
to do and see! I'd love to go back for another visit or even move
back given the opportunity. I went deep sea fishing while I lived
up there. It was great! I loved the winter and yes, even the snow!
Going out at night and watching the northern lights was amazing.
I've walked across a frozen lake with icebergs larger than a house
frozen in place while a winter storm was howling down from the
mountains and blowing snow. Just about froze my butt off on that
I'd like to find someone to share all of these things and more.
It's so much more fun to share them with someone you're close to.
Even sitting at home and watching a movie is better if you've got
someone to watch and cuddle with. I'd like to find someone who's
wanting to start out as friends and see where it goes from there.
If it turns into more than a friendship, that would be
An important note about religion: The choices on here did not
include my religion. I'm wiccan/pagan, but I'm not deeply into it.
It's not something that consumes my life. It's just who/what I am.
If this is something you're not comfortable with or willing to
accept, then I'm not the one for you. I know in some cases it would
be a deal-breaker and I understand and wish you luck in your
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently recovering from all of the questions the robot keeps
coming up with. I still haven't made it through all of them! I'm
also giving CPR to my computer mouse cause the poor thing has just
about been worn out...
Hoping to make a connection with someone on this site that wants to
meet and see where things go from there.
I'm also doing other things with my life, but it's mostly
boring/mundane and I'm sure most don't want to read about.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
OK, there are a lot of things I'm good at, but I really enjoy
kissing and I'm good at it.
I'm also very good at my job (otherwise they wouldn't keep me
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm somewhat shy but I open up once I get to know more about a
person. I also have very expressive eyes and a nice smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Food: I like a lot of different types of food from Italian to
Mexican, Chinese, American. I can usually find something I like at
just about any restaurant. I make some really good chili and I'm
also fairly handy with the grill. I enjoy making buttermilk donuts
and cherry walnut bread, but need someone to share them with.
Weekend mornings are great for fixing pecan belgian waffles with
Music: I enjoy soft rock, oldies, some country. Not interested in
rap/hiphop or hard rock.
Books: I love to read. I like mysteries, fiction, science fiction,
even get into some romances. I won't list any as being favorites
because that's always subject to change.
Movies: I'm not much into the chick flicks. I like action/adventure
movies or science fiction. I love cartoons and animated movies! My
favorite is Ratatouille.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, chocolate, books (regular or of the kindle
variety), computer, sleep, my mind...yeah, I know, that's 7 things
and it's obvious one of them is missing. So, if you happen to find
my mind, please bring it back to me. I sort of miss it... Also
can't do without A/C for the blazing hot summers here.
So I'm over the 6 item limit...bite me...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future. Things I need to accomplish. How I'm going to get all
my chores done.
What the heck did I come into this room for? Hmmm...maybe if I go
back to the other room, it will come back to me...
Finding that special someone I'd like to spend the rest of my life
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home. Recovering from the work week. Checking to see what's going
on for the weekend that might be interesting, maybe at the
fairgrounds or an arts festival coming up.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Is what's already on here. Sheesh...I've already admitted I've lost
my mind! How much more private information do you need?? OK, fine,
something a bit more private. I was going to add one more thing to
"The six things I could never do without" but I had already
exceeded the limit on there...so I'll add it here! SEX! There, I
said it. It's something I could never do without. Except it has
become glaringly obvious to me recently that YES, indeed, I CAN do
without sex. Well, that just bites... As long as I'm admitting
private things...I'd also like the sex to be more than the vanilla
variety. Having admitted to the above, don't assume I'm only
looking for sex. I'm not and I'm not into casual sex.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you want to get to know me. I'm here to
meet people so let's do it!
Also if you wouldn't mind taking care of spiders for
If you're a non-smoker. If you smoke...nope, not going to work. I'm
I'm not sure why the system says I reply selectively (or very
selectively, whichever it may be) but it's not true. If you send me
a message, I'll usually reply, even if it's to say no thank you.
Some exceptions: If you're under the age of 50 or if you're only
contacting me for sex, I'll most likely just block you.
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