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palaven

22 / F / Bisexual / Single

Lynn, Massachusetts

Her Details

Last Online
Jun 15
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 0″ (1.52m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I do intend to fill this crap out
at a later date. Or maybe I just won't because I suck about talking about myself.

My hair isn't purple anymore, at some point I will upload new pictures. But not today.

also
call me Vina, or V.
INTP, if you care about that.
What I’m doing with my life
Short version? Trying to figure out a whole bunch of shit, adjusting to living alone, being stressed out and overwhelmed by daily life, playing video games. Failing at everything. Drowning in anxiety about everything and not knowing how to move forward without any support system.

If you want the long version... ask?
I’m really good at
1. Making iced coffee
2. Making an ass out of myself
3. Procrastinating
4. Daydreaming
5. Being awkward and nervous
The first things people usually notice about me
1.I'm quiet and awkward?
2. I'm really short.
3. ... glasses?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Discworld, Harry Potter, The Dresden Files, Prozac Nation, Girl, Interrupted, many others.

Movies:
12 Monkeys
Batman
Batman & Robin
Batman Begins
Batman Forever
Batman Returns
Beetlejuice
Burn After Reading
Chasing Amy
Clueless
Cry-Baby
Death Becomes her
Death at a Funeral
Domino
Do Not Disturb
Dogma
Drool
Drop Dead Fred
Ed Wood
Equilibrium
ExTerminators
Exam
Fight Club
Gattaca
Girl, Interrupted
God Bless America
Good Will Hunting
Grandma's Boy
Harold & Kumar
Heavenly Creatures
Hedwig & The Angry Inch
House
House On Haunted Hill
Human Traffic
Identity
Interstate 60
It's Kind Of a Funny Story
Jawbreaker
Kids In America
Kill Theory
Mallrats
Mars Attacks!
Martin & Orloff
Matilda
Men in Black
Mind Hunters
Neverwas
Nine Dead
Park
Party Monster
Pitch Perfect
Pulp Fiction
Raising Arizona
Remember The Daze
Repo Man
Rose Red
Saved!
Secret Window
Secretary
Shutter Island
Slums of Beverly Hills
Spirited Away
Sweeney Todd
Ten Inch Hero
The Breakfast Club
The Craft
The Dark Knight
The Dark Knight Rises
The Fifth Element
The Hamiltons
The Haunting
The House Of Yes
The Life Before Her Eyes
The Man From Earth
The Mummy
The Princess Bride
The Professional
The Rocky Horror Picture Show
The Stepford Wives
The Witches of Eastwick
TiMER
Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy
Valmont
V for Vendetta
What Dreams May Come
Women In Trouble
&& others

Shows:
3rd Rock From The Sun
Alphas
Angel
Big Bang Theory
Black Books
Breakout Kings
Buffy The Vampire Slayer
Castle
Community
Dead Like Me
Doctor Who
Dollhouse
The Dresden Files
Eastwick
Eureka
F.R.I.E.N.D.S.
Farscape
Firefly
The Guild
Hannibal
Haven
Leverage
Lie To me
Lost Girl
Nikita
Parks and Recreation
Party Down
Psych
Stargate SG-1
The Unusuals
Warehouse 13

Music: AC/DC, A Perfect Circle, Black Sabbath, Deb Talan, Eminem, Fiona Apple, Florence + The Machine, Garbage, Jack Off Jill, Rage Against The Machine, Sex Pistols, The Donnas, Three Days Grace, Tool, Musical Soundtracks and many others that I didn't feel like listing

Anime: Bubblegum Crisis, Cardcaptor Sakura, Cowboy Bebop, Darker Than Black, Death Note, El Hazard, Excel Saga, FLCL, Fruits Basket, Neon Genesis Evangelion, Ranma 1/2, Tenchi Muyo!, Others I can't think of right now

Video Games: Alice: Madness Returns, Dishonored, Dragon Age, Mass Effect, Skyrim, Tomb Raider
The six things I could never do without
1. Internet/Computer
2. Coffee
3. Cigarettes
4. Imagination
5. Socks
6. Tumblr
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Mass Effect
My mistakes
How other people seem to have no problem doing things that make me have panic attacks
Other things that are super deep and meaningful... only probably not.
On a typical Friday night I am
Mass Effect, Dragon Age, Chinese food, Tumblr, Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My life is a huge mess right now, but I'm trying to fix that. It's difficult when you have pretty much no support system what so ever. And no drivers license because of a bunch of things that just turn into one vicious cycle. I can't drive and no one can give me a ride that often so I can't take drivers ed, I can't skip drivers ed because insurance is expensive enough as it is, so I can't get my license, so I can't drive. Wow I'm pretty sure that ended up making no sense. But I'm going to leave it because if you expect me to make sense all the time you will be sorely disappointed.

Also I have no family left after my grandmother died this past December. None that count, anyways. That's pretty private I guess?

Also I am what you would call a fangirl. I have a tumblr.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 20–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You want to be friends, because I don't really have any of those anymore.

You like Mass Effect, or any of the other things in my huge collection of lists.

You feel like it.

You are NOT the type of person who immediately starts using the words "I love you", chances are if you say that too soon I will stop talking to you because it makes me uncomfortable, especially if I think it's bullshit.

You're willing to be patient with me, because I have a lot of anxiety about being close to people.

You don't expect me to change myself/who I am/how I dress to fit what you think I should be. Because I won't, and I'll tell you to go fuck yourself.