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paleorpurple

59 / F / bisexual / Available

Minneapolis, Minnesota

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 1" (1.54m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am scholarly, creative, and lazy.

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My Self-Summary

I'm a Witch, and they don't have that in the religion box. If that doesn't scare you off, keep reading.

I am always looking for more experiences and wisdom in my life, trying to stay open to all that is new and different. I'm looking for people to share experiences with. I'm polyamourous, and I am not looking for a "one-and-only" or someone who wants that. I live with my partner of 18 years. I would like more friends, lovers, people to go places and do things. And I'm open to new lovers as well.

I'm a science fiction fan. If you go to any of the fan conventions in the Twin Cities, you may have met me.

Oh, and I'm an INTJ, and very introverted. Most people don't know this, because when I'm feeling shy, I stay home.

What I’m doing with my life

Reading, writing, learning, playing, cooking, doing ritual, did I mention reading?

I’m really good at

Reading, cooking, reading Tarot cards (I've done it professionally, i.e. for money) writing (I've gotten money for that as well)

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes. Or the top of my head, depending on how tall they are.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

a)Stranger in a Strange Land, most science fiction and fantasy, especially Spider Robinson, Lois McMaster Bujold, Charles de Lint. I also like "malice domestic" mysteries, and classics like Dorothy Sayers and Rex Stout.

b) Rocky Horror Picture Show, Dark City, Cabinet of Dr. Caligari, Galaxy Quest. I have the first three seasons of "Fraggle Rock" on DVD but I haven't finished watching them yet.

c) Rock from the late sixties to early eighties: Beatles, Led Zeppelin, Eagles, the usual. Also Indigo Girls, and other recent music, but I'm more selective about that. And classical - Vivaldi, Bach.

d) chocolate, sushi

The six things I could never do without

Chocolate, computer, comfortable chairs, indoor plumbing, central heating and air conditioning,

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The future, the latest books I've read.

I realize this profile makes me sound more serious than I really am in person.

On a typical Friday night I am

I used to watch "Stargate SG-1", but that's over now. "Sarah Jane Adventures now, and soon, more "Dr. Who". Unless I have other plans, in which case I thank whoever invented the VCR.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

My hair is gray. (I'm not good at sharing secrets with strangers.)

You should message me if

Any of what I say intrigues you. Or you want to ask questions about what I mean by any of it.

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