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pan_i_am

43 Stoke Newington, UK Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:32pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Strictly vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English, German (Poorly), French (Poorly), Other (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"...almost the whole world is asleep. Everybody you know. Everybody you see. Everybody you talk to... only a few people are awake and they live in a state of constant total amazement."

I love serendipity. I'm always up for adventures to interesting places. I love being creative and all things arty, love trying new things, I have a good sense of humour and a naughty side on occasion.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I live in Stoke Newington in Hackney, North East London. I manage a gallery shop and in my own time I paint, draw and make stuff. I occasionally DJ and manage an amazing band. I love live music and go to lots of gigs. I and my friends stage arts and crafts events and areas at small festivals such as End of the Road Festival.

I love art of all kinds, most genres of film and love books, and I collect comics, musical instruments from around the world, old cameras and tin robots.

I love to travel. After seeing The Secret Life of Walter Mitty, I resolved: "To see things thousands of miles away, things hidden behind walls and within rooms, things dangerous to come to, to draw closer, to see and be amazed."

I've been to Madagascar working for an NGO studying lemurs, In 2014 I have visited Paris, Barcelona, Morocco, India and Copenhagen and would love to have a companion for future adventures.

I also love spending time with my amazing 12 year old niece and playing with my best friend's extremely adorable 2 year old.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making chocolate desserts, making stuff, making friends and making people laugh
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I always smell nice apparently.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends
Creativity
Inspiration
Music
my hula hoop
Dr Bronner's Magic Soap
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What adventures I'll get up to next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
innocent until proven guilty...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't have many secrets... just things yet to discover.

Ask me nicely and I might just tell you...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
if your dreams and realities sometimes collide in beautiful ways, and you want to meet someone who loves life and enjoys every moment, if you want little adventures and have a heart that smiles. Let's find out what secrets wait for us in the depths of the universe.

I'd love someone to have fun and little adventures with, so if you do like the sound of me then do get in touch.

“Really, the fundamental, ultimate mystery -- the only thing you need to know to understand the deepest metaphysical secrets -- is this: that for every outside there is an inside and for every inside there is an outside, and although they are different, they go together.”
Alan Watts