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pan_i_am

43 Stoke Newington, UK Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:13pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Speaks
English, German (Poorly), French (Poorly), Other (Poorly)
My self-summary
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"...almost the whole world is asleep. Everybody you know. Everybody you see. Everybody you talk to... only a few people are awake and they live in a state of constant total amazement."

I love serendipity. I'm always up for adventures to interesting places. I love being creative and all things arty, love trying new things, I have a good sense of humour and a naughty side on occasion.

I didn't think it needed stating but apparently it does. I am looking for a relationship, partner or girlfriend (whatever you want to call it) but I'm also open to making new friends, gig buddies and travelling companions, so there's no pressure. If I do find the right person though I would take it seriously. Basically yes I do like having fun but that doesn't mean I don't want a long term relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
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I live in Stoke Newington in Hackney, North East London. I manage a gallery shop and in my own time I paint, draw and make stuff. I occasionally DJ and manage an amazing band. I love live music and go to lots of gigs. I and my friends stage arts and crafts events and areas at small festivals such as End of the Road Festival.

I love art of all kinds, most genres of film and love books, and I collect comics, musical instruments from around the world, old cameras and tin robots.

I love to travel. After seeing The Secret Life of Walter Mitty, I resolved: "To see things thousands of miles away, things hidden behind walls and within rooms, things dangerous to come to, to draw closer, to see and be amazed."

I've been to Madagascar working for an NGO studying lemurs, and in 2014 I visited Paris, Barcelona, Morocco, India and Copenhagen and would love to have a companion for future adventures.

I also love spending time playing with my friends' extremely adorable kids who are 2 and 4.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making chocolate desserts, making stuff, making friends and making people laugh

"He attacked everything in life with a mixture of extraordinary genius and naive incompetence and it was often difficult to tell which was which.” Douglas Adams
The first things people usually notice about me
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I always smell nice apparently... but this could just be wishful thinking.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love love love books, movies and music.

At the moment obsessing over all the obscure lounge and exotica mp3s converted from old vinyl I can find on the internet... as well as the range of traditional music from all around the world... it's amazing!

Favourite Books: The Little Prince, Peter Pan, The Tao of Pooh, Sherlock Holmes, Douglas Adams, Edward Gorey, J.G. Ballard, Neil Gaiman, James Thurber, P.G. Wodehouse, fairy tales, gothic novels, Moomins

Favourite Films: A Matter of Life and Death, Amelie, Casablanca, The Wizard of Oz, The Big Lebowski, Where The Wild Things Are, Wings of Desire, L'Atalante, The Piano, La Belle et La Bete, Ghost World, Beasts of the Southern Wild, Joe Vs. The Volcano, Terry Gilliam, David Lynch, Tim Burton, classic horror, animation, Disney, film noir

TV: Doctor Who, Sherlock, New Girl, Homeland, Marvel's Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D., Ripper Street, South Park, Twin Peaks, Seinfeld, Northern Exposure, Parks and Recreation, The Twilight Zone, Orphan Black, David Attenborough

and on the radio: I'm Sorry I Haven't a Clue and Hancock's Half Hour... that's me, down with the kids.

Favourite music: Bjork, Pulp, Richard Hawley, Nizlopi, Gabby Young And Other Animals, The Destroyers, Ben Folds, Public Service Broadcasting, The Decemberists, Jeffrey Lewis, The Polyphonic Spree, Sigur Rós, Arcade Fire, The Wave Pictures, Major Lazer, Tinariwen, Taj Mahal, Kodaline, Imogen Heap, African, jazz, blues and classical music.

I love braised tofu, twiglets, blueberries and anything vegan but not too spicy. I make my own vegan pizzas, enjoy red wine, rhubarb soda, cocktails and the occasional glass of Um Bongo.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends
Creativity
Inspiration
Music
my hula hoop
Dr Bronner's Magic Soap
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What adventures I'll get up to next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
innocent until proven guilty...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't have many secrets... just things yet to discover.

Ask me nicely and I might just tell you...

"Love is within man. It is not imported from the outside. It is not a commodity to be purchased when we go to the markets. It is there as the fragrance of life. It is inside everyone. The search for love, the wooing of love, is not a positive action; it is not an overt act whereby you have to go somewhere and draw it out." Osho
You should message me if
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if your dreams and realities sometimes collide in beautiful ways, and you want to meet someone who loves life and enjoys every moment, if you want little adventures and have a heart that smiles. Let's find out what secrets wait for us in the depths of the universe.

I'd love someone to have fun and little adventures with, so if you do like the sound of me then do get in touch.

“Really, the fundamental, ultimate mystery -- the only thing you need to know to understand the deepest metaphysical secrets -- is this: that for every outside there is an inside and for every inside there is an outside, and although they are different, they go together.”
Alan Watts