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pancakedeprived

33 / F / gay / Single

Chicago, Illinois

The Skinny

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am smiley, loyal, and hilarious.

My Self-Summary

so yeah...pancake deprived. i couldn't think of a username, and one of my close friends was talking about being pancake deprived. i grabbed it. *shrug*

wow. time to sell myself, eh? well, i'm attractive, genuine, honest, open-minded, hilarious, driven, true to myself, loyal, laid back, and an audiophile. i'm comfortable with who i am and expect someone i'm dating to be the same. i guess you could say i'm bbw, but in a rubenesque kind of way. i think my best features are my eyes, lips, and hair. at least those are what i get the most compliments on, and what i feel most confident about. i think my tattoos are pretty nice, too.

i get frustrated with people who can't be straight-forward or authentic. i love people that follow through. i am attracted to women that can hold their own in a room full of strangers, and have a strong sense of self. i like attention, but you won't need to be with me every waking second or standing next to me whenever we go out. a little bit of space and separation of our lives allows us to miss each other, and not become one another. but if you wanna gimmie some sugar while we're out, i'm down!

i have a weakness and serious attraction to artists (all kinds), tattoos, longer hair, a great smile, someone that has rhythm and likes to dance, and women with a little bit of sass. i tend to go for women that have curves, so if that's you...move to the front of the line! :) please be someone that loves to kiss as much as they like to have sex. a good makeout session is great for your health. yep.

i'm open to long conversations, and not the kind of person that has my "walls up." i'm the type of girl that dives into life, and am ready for anything.

What I’m doing with my life

i work for a distributor of dance music (vinyl & cds). i'm the webmaster, and also do some buying and sales. i love my job, and can honestly say between it and djing i am doing what i want to be doing. i'm happy with life!

at home i work on my own music, which is currently morphing from house into more instrumental hip hop with a melancholic edge. i'm a head nodder, and a sucker for a good beat.

I’m really good at

thoughtful little gifts, kissing, making people laugh, finding humor in almost anything, cleaning & organizing, finding good in people, moving other people (everyone always calls me!), showing my emotions, and whatever else i put my mind to.

The first things people usually notice about me

hmmm. it could be a few different things, but i get compliments on my eyes, my mouth, my smile, tattoos, my hair....and my natural swagger. ;)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

i am a haruki murakami FREAK. i love japanese literature. i read juxtapoz and other modern art/illustration mags pretty regularly. i'm always open to book suggestions, and usually read every night before bed. it's a nice way to fall asleep!

i love parker posie, and think that "best in show" is painfully hilarious. i like foreign films, the occasional "action" movie (like italian job..charlize theron cracking safes and being all bad ass? yes please!), and documentaries. i think "grey gardens" might be one of the best....

The six things I could never do without

my records, a good moisturizer, my scooter, the color black, my hearing, and my friends.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

melodies, tattoos, art projects (that i need to actually finish), records, scooting, road trips, kisses, how awesome beth ditto and adele are and how i want them to do a duet, making life memorable and fun, my friends and how awesome they are, decorating my apartment, and how insane my cats are.

On a typical Friday night I am

you may find me at: gramaphone, smartbar, sonotheque, simon's, the spot, tweet, kopi, edgewater lounge, the lakefront. i feel comfortable in almost any atmosphere and love experiencing new places in the city. or i may just be kickin' it at home....i love my apartment.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

i don't dish that easily.

You should message me if

you think i'm not worth passing up.