Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Finding true love is not easy these days. Love and relationships
need to build on the right values. Things shouldn't be taken for
granted in relationships, but such things happen too often these
days. Active communication and wisdom to face the huge challenges
in a marriage are just as important.
To me love should be something simple. It's simply 2 people with
the same values in life, sharing a life together, enjoying each
other's company and learning and experiencing the later half of
their lives together in bliss.
I enjoy traveling, and experiencing the culture, the arts, the
history, and the way of lives of different societies. I love the
nature, museums, mountains, seas, and parks a lot.
Everything in life is a choice. Many people these days are blinded
by many unnecessary materialistic pursuits of life. Most end up
losing sight of the the real joys and aims of life, and end up
never really achieving happiness. I believe life should be simple,
with minimal materialistic pursuits. Money is important for
survival, but you should be the one (and not money) that drives
your own life. Work with the aim of doing something meaningful in
life and any material gains can be seen as a bonus and never a
burden. That's the grace of life that can give rise to true bliss
and happiness in life :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Pursuing my dreams, and learning about myself, and how I can learn
and grow (and not find excuses for my incapabilities).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
seeing and rationalizing things/problems.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Jack Reacher series, 24 hours, X-men, Avatar, etc. Basically
adventurous, thrillers stuff.
I enjoy music by Yanni, Yiruma, Enya, Kitaro, David Wright, David
Lanz, and George Winston.
Love to try different cuisines from all over the world. Japanese
(Sushi and sashimi) is my favourite.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I believe in adjusting myself and working towards developing myself
to be a better person. Here's my philosophy.
1. Morality & Virtue- I believe in not just doing the right
things, but also do them the right way. I don't believe in
selfishness. One's actions should not cause inconvenience to
others. I believe in lending a helping hand to deserving people
[The mind of the superior man is conversant with righteousness; the
mind of the mean man is conversant with gain.
2. Wisdom & Enlightenment - I value the wisdom to decipher the
right from the wrong, to know the fundamental problems in life.
More importantly, this wisdom allows one to live in true and not
[Knowing others is wisdom, knowing yourself is enlightenment.
~ Lao Tzu]
3. Philosophy of reasoning - There are far too many grey areas in
life today. And law is never the tool to govern the actions of
people. The only tool that should be used is principles and values.
This ability to reason things, governed by good values, is critical
as we embark on our life journey.
[We need to get back to reasoning and thinking things through. The
future generation is being brought up in greed and without a true
understanding of civics. There is no more emphasis on knowledge and
time. As a society we need to process ideas and understand what
certain principles are based upon.
~ Richard Dreyfuss]
4. Never live behind excuses - This is my life and I make every
decision myself. Take responsibility for one's actions and
decisions and never push them to others in the name of "that's the
way the world is". We are the master of our very own destiny.
[The person who has the most to do with what happens to you is you.
It is not the environment, it is not the other people who were
there trying to help you or trying to stop you. It is what you
decide to do and how much effort you put behind it.
~ Dr. Benjamin Solomon Carson]
5. Learning - There are so many things that we do not know in life.
I believe that life is a journey full of learning. Each experience,
encounter (good or bad) is an avenue for us to learn. It teaches us
about our thinking, our approach to things, our values, and how
these things can be done better and differently.
[Adversity is the true school of the mind.
~ Katharine Lee Bates]
6. Happiness - It is simple to achieve happiness. Learning to
appreciate what one has and not be obsessed with what one doesn't
will give lots of peace and happiness.
[We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think. When the
mind is pure, joy follows like a shadow that never leaves.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Meaning of life and how my career can revolve around it
- What it takes to build healthy and lasting relationships
- Life issues and learning from them
- Society and world issues and how I can contribute and make things
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing whatever my heart and mind takes me to :)
You should message me if
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you find me interesting and find meaning in my philosophy.
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