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33 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Feb 25
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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First of all, I'm not identifying as a cub these days. However, I have to pay money to change my user name, so it stays for now. I am a panda at times so that can stay. Anyway..

Grew up in Maine, and migrated to San Francisco when I couldn't take the weather anymore- well actually my main motivation was education, but that's since changed. Oddly enough, I miss Maine weather now! Thunder, lighting, downpours, blizzards, hurricane threats! I've lived on the west coast for about 9ish years now.

In the next section, I got very tired of changing my profile every year or so as my life changes. I've decided to try something new. And just start updating as things change and seem major enough to update here! This also will give readers a chance to see how I've changed, or not, over time! Enjoy!...
What I’m doing with my life
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Updated 10/14: I'm just, living! I'm free of all health problems I've mentioned in the past, and continue to enjoy my craving for life and movement, as my body responds more and more positively! I'm a manager at a small business, locally owned sex club and love it!

Update 4/14: the physical challenges have almost all resided. I now focus on eating nutritionally well, and don't beat myself up for craving the sweet stuff. Besides, I totally deserve the sweet stuff, just, with reasonable moderation to avoid feeling sick from the less then stellar, and yummy as Fuck food! I'm not trying to diet, I'm just trying to feed my body what it needs to feel its best. Im able to move again, which wasn't the case so much when I last updated here. With my nutritional and physical movement changes, I've been feeling healthier then ever! It feels so good to move by body and be happy about that again! I avoided okc because with that pain, I wasn't ready to think about a relationship. Now, I I'm finally headed in a direction that feels more indicative toward having a healthy, loving and intimate relationship with another human, as I am learning to do with myself. This feels good!

As of 9/13, I've gained some knowledge about certain happenings inside my body that I'm not excited about. I realize it's not super sexy to say "I'm having serious (to me) health problems and that will be a part of my life for awhile". But hey, thats where I'm at right now. If we get to date 1, I don't want to be avoiding major relevant life issues just because I think it'll make you uncomfortable. I would rather just be myself.

The positive side to all this is, it seems most of my health issues can be reversed with a change in how I eat. I now eat a diet close to the Paleo Diet (but not fully) to avoid internal pain. I'm new to all this, but am looking forward to learning more about eating within a healthy restricted diet. People who have healthy and tasty cooking skills get 8 points right off!

Apart from my physical health, I'm in an exciting period of understanding what it means to be Dane. (I'm Dane!) I finally grasp what it means to be "happy". At least for me. Honestly and vulnerability within myself and my relationships, appropriate boundries that foster stronger personal connections, communication that is not blinded by mind reading and manipulation. I could probably go on, but you get my point. I'm talking about all that inner self love that fosters growth stuff.

That's my mind and body. The rest of the time I work a little and walk a lottle, that's like a little, but a lot! ;-) I 'city hike' I guess. But that makes it sound more serious then it is. Most days of the week, when I'm not in major pain, I walk anywhere from 4-8 miles a day. I walk down allys and notice street art, both apparent and subtle. I take pictures of my findings if they inspire me. I search for things one can't find walking down main streets. I talk to strangers occasionally, I look up!
I’m really good at
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Not judging my friends. One of my close friends recently told me, "I love that I can tell you anything and I never feel judged by you," and yes, I asked and she was happy to let me quote her here. hmm, is that weird to quote a friend? Ha! well, I'm weird!

Things I enjoy, (am really good at?) vary. Here are a few:
Karaoke. Well, mostly just singing, karaoke is merely the vessel that takes me where I wanna go. Ive found that singing helps me release feelings in ways I never anticipated. I'm grateful for song in my life!

Walking. I walk when I am out and don't want to go home, which is often. I take pictures of odd things. I've started noticing hidden street art, which has been interesting. I'm discovering that SF has way more creative depth then I ever imagined. I'm not sure if it can be found if one is looking for it, but it's there, and it's beautiful!

Movies. I really like going to the theater alone and watch movies none of my friends want to see. Mostly stupid comedy movies and sappy love/ romantic comedies and dramas. I love watching movies at home in bed, and I dig marathon watching of awesome TV series on Netflix! I like horror. You get 8 more points if you do too. It's SO hard to find people to go with me, and I don't like going alone to horrors. Its not that I'm overly scared, but I can startle easy, and prefer to have a friend around for that.

Boundaries. Yes I have them, and yes you're going to need to have them too. I have found that when I set new boundaries with people, in the moment it may suck, but in the long term, that friendship is always better off for it. Because I beleive in communication. And yes, I am aware almost everyone says that. Basically, if someone does something that I feel uncomfortable with, and it continues to bother me, I let them know. I'm not mean about it, nor do I want to tell anyone how they are wrong for hurting me or effecting me negatively. My intention is always about offering the other person the opportunity to allow reflection of their actions. It takes a lot for me to stay mad if you're open to honest communication that sometimes may be painful in the moment, yet friendship strengthening in the future, it'll be worth it! Of course, I'll expect the same from you! It's important to me that you are a confident (or willing to learn) communicator. Not mean or aggressive, just self awarness and confidence are huge pluses.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My laugh? Eyes? Beard? Oh let's face it, they notice my punk rock dog first. But, when(if) they look up, my beard.


My personality comes out strong once I relax a bit. I have a great sense of humor, and I am just a bit sarcastic.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Enders Game, Harry Potter, Peaceful Warrior
Movies: Better off Dead, Spirited Away, Howls Moving Castle
Music: Dubstep, house/dance, love a good dance beat! Dar Williams, Cure, Chumbawumba
Foods: Indian, Italian
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Glass water bottle
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
*Why I react the way I do. *How important an individual's upbringing is, and how that shapes them, wheather they realize that or not. *New ways to move my body on various random objects in the world. *Beautiful Women.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Free to do whatever. I love dancing!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The human body is amazing and beautiful. Each one has a story; I crave exploring them.
You should message me if
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You can appreciate a healthy mix of romance and dorkiness.

I'm looking for someone to call girlfriend.

I am looking for someone sensitive. Knows what boundries are and use them! I also enjoy being alone even within a relationship, its my recharge time

Can handle mind blowing sex, random sex, kinky sex, our bodies moving together passionately, on a regular basis.