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pandacubsf

32 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Mar 22
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
First of all, I'm not identifying as a cub these days. However, I have to pay money to change my user name, so it stays for now. I am however, a panda, so that can stay. Anyway..

Grew up in Maine, and migrated to San Francisco when I couldn't take the weather anymore- well actually my main motivation was education, but that's since changed. Oddly enough, I miss Maine weather now! Thunder, lighting, downpours, blizzards, hurricane threats! I've lived on the west coast for about 8ish years now.

To be honest, I'm trying to think of something that'll make me stick out for you as you read on. That's a lotta pressure, ya know? But, regardless of what I write, if you're the type of person who can read inbetween lines, so to speak, and see something that is curious or interesting to you, I hope you'll say hi!
What I’m doing with my life
As of 9/13, I've gained some knowledge about certain happenings inside my body that I'm not excited about. I realize it's not super sexy to say "I'm having serious (to me) health problems and that will be a part of my life for awhile". But hey, thats where I'm at right now. If we get to date 1, I don't want to be avoiding major relevant life issues just because I think it'll make you uncomfortable. I would rather just be myself.

The positive side to all this is, it seems most of my health issues can be reversed with a change in how I eat. I now eat a diet close to the Paleo Diet (but not fully) to avoid internal pain. I'm new to all this, but am looking forward to learning more about eating within a healthy restricted diet. People who have healthy and tasty cooking skills get 8 points right off!

Apart from my physical health, I'm in an exciting period of understanding what it means to be Dane. (I'm Dane!) I finally grasp what it means to be "happy". At least for me. Honestly and vulnerability within myself and my relationships, appropriate boundries that foster stronger personal connections, communication that is not blinded by mind reading and manipulation. I could probably go on, but you get my point. I'm talking about all that inner self love that fosters growth stuff.

That's my mind and body. The rest of the time I work a little and walk a lottle, that's like a little, but a lot! ;-) I 'city hike' I guess. But that makes it sound more serious then it is. Most days of the week, when I'm not in major pain, I walk anywhere from 4-8 miles a day. I walk down allys and notice street art, both apparent and subtle. I take pictures of my findings if they inspire me. I search for things one can't find walking down main streets. I talk to strangers occasionally, I look up!
I’m really good at
Not judging my friends. One of my close friends recently told me, "I love that I can tell you anything and I never feel judged by you," and yes, I asked and she was happy to let me quote her here. hmm, is that weird to quote a friend? Ha! well, I'm weird!

Things I enjoy, (am really good at?) vary. Here are a few:
Karaoke. Well, mostly just singing, karaoke is merely the vessel that takes me where I wanna go. Ive found that singing helps me release feelings in ways I never anticipated. I'm grateful for song in my life!

Walking. I walk when I am out and don't want to go home, which is often. I take pictures of odd things. I've started noticing hidden street art, which has been interesting. I'm discovering that SF has way more creative depth then I ever imagined. I'm not sure if it can be found if one is looking for it, but it's there, and it's beautiful!

Movies. I really like going to the theater alone and watch movies none of my friends want to see. Mostly stupid comedy movies and sappy love/ romantic comedies and dramas. I love watching movies at home in bed, and I dig marathon watching of awesome TV series on Netflix! I like horror. You get 8 more points if you do too. It's SO hard to find people to go with me, and I don't like going alone to horrors. Its not that I'm overly scared, but I can startle easy, and prefer to have a friend around for that.

Boundaries. Yes I have them, and yes you're going to need to have them too. I have found that when I set new boundaries with people, in the moment it may suck, but in the long term, that friendship is always better off for it. Because I beleive in communication. And yes, I am aware almost everyone says that. Basically, if someone does something that I feel uncomfortable with, and it continues to bother me, I let them know. I'm not mean about it, nor do I want to tell anyone how they are wrong for hurting me or effecting me negatively. My intention is always about offering the other person the opportunity to allow reflection of their actions. It takes a lot for me to stay mad if you're open to honest communication that sometimes may be painful in the moment, yet friendship strengthening in the future, it'll be worth it! Of course, I'll expect the same from you! It's important to me that you are a confident (or willing to learn) communicator. Not mean or aggressive, just self awarness and confidence are huge pluses.
The first things people usually notice about me
My laugh? Eyes? Beard? Oh let's face it, they notice my punk rock dog first. But, when(if) they look up, my smile.

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My personality comes out strong once I relax a bit. I have a great sense of humor, and I am just a bit sarcastic.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Harry Potter, Peaceful Warrior
Movies: Better off Dead, Spirited Away, Howls Moving Castle
Music: Dar Williams, Cure, Chumbawumba
Foods: Indian, Italian
The six things I could never do without
My dog, my panda, my bed, my blanket and my pillow.

I noticed when I edited this, I only listed 5 things, so perhaps, number 6 should be a calculator...?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
*Why I react the way I do when I encounter various negative circumstances. *How important an individual's upbringing is, and how that shapes them, wheather they realize that or not. *how I have a cold right now, and want to include more things, but need to rest instead...!
On a typical Friday night I am
I work on Fridays till 8. But then I'm free to play!

In reality, I generally head home after work, eat and pass out around 12am!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a guy who is occasionally put into the box labeled 'ftm'.
I’m looking for
  • Bi girls only
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Your dorky, likes scrabble, likes hot sex, likes purple dogs, isn't hung up on body types, personality is hotter then looks.

I'm interested in finding someone to call my gf. But I'm not really actively looking. This means if I messaged you, I'm interested. Relationships are hard work, so you should be aware that I may be slow to commit to someone.

I am looking for someone sensitive. Knows what boundries are and has them! And enjoys being alone even within their relationship.