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33 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Apr 13
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly vegan
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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First of all, I'm not identifying as a cub these days. However, I have to pay money to change my user name, so it stays for now. I am a panda at times so that can stay. Anyway..

Grew up in Maine, and migrated to San Francisco when I couldn't take the weather anymore- well actually my main motivation was education, but that's since changed. Oddly enough, I miss Maine weather now! Thunder, lighting, downpours, blizzards, hurricane threats! I've lived on the west coast for about 9ish years now. I do plan on moving back to the East Coast at some point in the next 5-10 years. My heart belongs there, and CA just isnt feeling long term for me.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm exploring the capabilites of my body and capacities of my mind in order to experiance my life to the best of my ability. I feel as though I'm finally coming into the person ive always felt inside but couldnt express, due to previous mind and body limitations. Ive discovered I love challenging my body physically! I have a few goals for my body, like to be able to do a pullup! I enjoy bodyweight/calisthenics training in my back yard and taking my dog on 3-5hr urban hikes around SF on my weekends. Exploring neighborhoods and things ppl do with their yards/houses, is awesome! This is my version of nature hiking, as I dont always want to *get* to nature first. Easier to just pick a direction and go!

Anyway, I'm fairly athletic and am constantly looking for new things to experiance. At the same time, I dont do any of this for *weight loss* (meh). I believe that ALL bodies are amazing and beautiful because each is so unique to our individuality! We are amazing creatures, and it makes me sad to know that so many of us beleive that small body equals sexyness and happiness. I dont think I could be where I am with my body, if I didnt love me as I am, at any given time. Ive not always had this body love awareness; thru honoring my needs and desires no matter what(in all areas), I've allowed a non judgmental internal inner dialog to form and grow. -Which has been beautiful.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Boundaries. Yes I have them, and yes you're going to need to have them too. I have found that when I set new boundaries with people, in the moment it may suck, but in the long term, that friendship is always better off for it. I beleive in communication. Of course, I'll expect the same from you! It's important to me that you are a confident (or willing to learn) communicator. Not mean or aggressive, just self awarness and confidence are huge pluses.

Movement. I love exploring new things with my body! I love pushing my mental and physical limits, in regards to my bodies capabilites. I would like to sky dive and bungee jump. (bungee jumping makes me more nervous thene sky diving!)

Karaoke. Well, mostly just singing, karaoke is merely the vessel that takes me where I want to go. Ive found that singing helps me release feelings in ways I never anticipated. I'm grateful for song and music in my life!

Movies. I really like going to the theater alone and watch movies none of my friends want to see. Mostly stupid comedy movies and sappy love/ romantic comedies and dramas. I love watching movies at home in bed, and I dig marathon watching of awesome TV series on Netflix! I like horror. You get 8 more points if you do too. It's SO hard to find people to go with me, and I don't like going alone to horrors. Its not that I'm overly scared, but I can startle easy, and prefer to have a friend around for that.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hat? Eyes? Smile? Oh let's face it, they notice my multi colored dog first. But, when they look up, my beard.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Enders Game, Harry Potter, Peaceful Warrior
Movies: Better off Dead, Spirited Away, Howls Moving Castle
Music: Dubstep, house/dance, love a good dance beat! Dar Williams, Cure, Chumbawumba
Foods: I like making vegan pizza!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Glass H20 bottle
Beautiful Women
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why I react the way I do.
How important an individual's upbringing is; and how that shapes them, whether they realize or not.
America's widly screwed up brainwashed ideals that thin/smaller/fit equal happiness.
New ways to move my body on various random objects in the world.
Beautiful Women.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Exhasted from my 4 hour urban hike that day!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The human body is amazing and beautiful. Each one has a story; I crave exploring them. I am a mmj user, and it is importent you understand the difference between medicating and recreational smoking. I do both, but mostly the former.
You should message me if
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You appreciate a healthy mix of romance and dorkiness.

Youre excited about practicing our communication skills together, as we need them!

You have boundaries, and are able to keep them. -you do this in loving and kind ways, as often boundaries hurt the other in that moment, but strengthens both in the longer run.

Are excited about mind blowing sex, random sex, kinky sex , and our bodies moving together passionately on a regular basis.

You're into queer guys who have have learned to express their masculinity confidently and respetfully.

You desire a man who highly respects, craves, and melts for those who express their femininity confidently.

You are aware that some people are assigned a gender at birth that doesnt really match how they feel when they get older. This needs to be a workable non issue for you, as I am one of these people! :-)

Ps. Im a feminist.