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30 Santa Clara, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 23
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Atheism, and very serious about it
Working on two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a vaguely humanoid shaped being who desires things and stuff. Mostly food and beer. Sometimes to ride my bike. Often to nap. Always coffee.

Art, gender and feminist lit/theory, science, and really bad puns are my current passions in life. The moment I can do them all at once, I will have achieved Ultimate Perfection (TM) and will have no more need for this puny mortal form.

I identify as queer/butch/gay depending on time of day/mood. Am happy to have discussions about my queerness/butchness/gayness, as well as my feminism and anything related to ideas about gender identity.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Setting goals and then overthinking them and re-evaluating my reasons for setting the goals in the first place. One advantage of constantly second guessing yourself is that you don't need an external agent to tell you that you're making a mistake--you're likely already convinced that all you do is a mistake, so the best you can do is keep on and try to do the things you need to do. Except when you realize that your motivations for a given goal aren't in line with what you really want.

Also, scheming to move to Portland within a year. I hear it's a hep place to be if you like cats. Plus, great schools for arts.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
setting goals for myself. I have so much practice. But I don't do the whole "New Year's Resolution" thing. Who really takes those things seriously, am I right?

I'm also good at being Very Serious about Things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm in their way.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The following is a list of my current favorites. My favorites change with my mood; also, I have a terrible memory, which leads me to forget awesome things that I've discovered.

Books (Non-Fiction):
-Predictably Irrational (Dan Ariely)
-The Psychopath Test (Jon Ronson)
-Bonk! (Mary Roach)
-Gulp (Mary Roach)
-Excluded (Julie Serano)

Books (Fiction):
-The Entire Discworld Series (Terry Pratchett)
-His Dark Materials trilogy (Philip Pullman)
-Closer to Spider-Man by Ivan Coyote
-Harry Potter (currently re-reading the entire series, because I can)

-The Four-Faced Liar (I have rewatched this movie sooooo many times)
-Kick Ass
-The Princess Bride
-Kill Bill Vol 1 & 2

-Dr Who (the new series--I'm slowly seeking out the old series, but I don't have the nostalgia that I feel is necessary to really dig it)
-Buffy the Vampire Slayer
-Arrested Development
-Battlestar Galactica
-The Simpsons (Seasons 1-10)
-Orange is the New Black

-The Builders and the Butchers
-Modest Mouse
-They Might Be Giants
-The Mountain Goats

-Broccoli + hummus

Most of it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Caffeine
2. Peanut butter
3. Potatoes
4. The internet
5. My computer
5.5 Punctuation
6. Numbers
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
feminism, gay rights, the interaction between my feminism and my queer identity, why people are shitlords, why I love peanut butter so much.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
not dead. Or doing homework. Clearly, I like living on the edge.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've read the entire Twilight series. Voluntarily.

I haven't been in a serious, long-term relationship for most of my adult life. I kind of want one.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. find something grammatically offensive in my profile have any good book/movie/comic/music/food recommendations are a nerd, geek, or generally pro-science kind of person want to chat (does this even need to be said? I mean, theoretically, this is a social networking site, so that means a great majority of the people on this site want to socialize, and chatting is usually an accepted part of socializing, so this may very well be redundant and I'm okay with that)