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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–45
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, casual sex

My details

Last online
Jan 20, 2014
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly vegetarian
When drinking
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Seeing Someone
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
They, Ze, or He pronouns, please!

Panromantic demisexual GQ/gender-variant fat omnivorous socio-anarchical feminist.

Okay I've received multiple rude and assumptive messages so I'm just gonna say it a few times so y'all nebbish can get it in your heads:

I am not a girl. I do not go by "she."
I am not a girl! I do not go by "she!"

I'm really quiet and socially awkward until I get to know you, and then I become like to a barnacle or a remora or a lamprey eel and love you forever and never want you to go away because I think you're so awesome! I tend to idolize my friends a bit, but only because I choose really quality people to spend my time with!

If you are a guy with a penis who only has penile pentrative sex with women with vaginas, I do not want to talk to you.

When it comes down to it, my biggest passion is words: Linguistics and phonetics are fascinating to me, and I am always trying to learn new words/sentence structure in different languages. I recently graduated with a degree in Writing and Publishing, and my dream is to work in publishing, particularly with text layout; though to be involved with the publishing industry in any capacity would make me extremely happy. Typography is one of my great loves. I read constantly, and if a book of which I love the layout doesn't have a colophon, I make sure to make my own notes to research it later. The text in posters, advertisements, and signage are also things that particularly spark my interest.

I like learning new skills and working with my hands more than anything. My hands constantly have to be preoccupied with something - whether it's typing on a keyboard, knitting or crocheting, beating egg whites for a meringue, practicing calligraphy, doing needlework, working out font or graphic designs, or practicing erhu or morin khuur. I guess I'm fidgety? It probably explains a lot.

My GQness means that I'm in-between when it comes to gender. I might have facial hair one day but be in a dress and heels the next. Usually my days don't waffle through such extremes, though.

I read often, when I'm not working or on the lookout for a new job. I am really trying to get my foot in the door regarding my career, but it's a tough market right now. New friends and hobbies are a means of keeping my depression to a just-manageable amount.

Science, sociology, music, activism, knitting/crochet, bookmaking, and cooking are all things that I like to learn about.

Cishetbros can fuck right on off.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working to survive, trying to get hired into my career path.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- cooking and baking
- yarn crafts
- dom(me)work
- paper cuts
- picking things up and putting them down
- being a fly honey who doesn't care what you think
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I wear a lot of three-piece suits and like to think that I'm fashion conscious? I probably fail in that regard, however. I also suffer under the delusion that I have cute hair.

Also, I'm that person that is out queer and doesn't give a fuck. So probably they're trying to figure out what sort of configuration my crotch might have.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books/Authors: Anything Haruki Murakami or Rilke has written, Arthur Rimbaud's collected works, The Silmarillion, the His Dark Materials trilogy, Edward Gorey, Douglas Adams, Los Iniciales de la Tierra, Dave Eggers, Arthur Conan Doyle, Lovecraft, Poe, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Zadie Smith . . .

Movies: Some examples are The Fall, The City of Lost Children, El Laberinto del Fauno, Third Star, The Lord of the Rings, Cirque du Soleil recordings, Attack the Block, Wreckers, Pacific Rim, K-Pax, the more recent X-Men films . . .

Shows: Currently watching/listening to Cabin Pressure, Hannibal, Sherlock, Elementary, The Thick of It, Welcome to Night Vale, Stargate SG-1, Shingeki no Kyojin, QI, Supernatural, Aku no Hana, and the Venture Bros.

Music: Mostly indie rock/alternative, bluegrass and folk, death metal/dark metal, "classical," ska, reggaeton, alternative/subversive hip-hop, and opera.

Food: The foods I could eat every single day are: grilled freshwater eel with sweet sauce, daal, macaroni and cheese, rice with chili peanut sauce, tonkatsu, saag paneer, khao tang na tang, corn flakes, risotto . . . Now I'm making myself hungry . . .
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
books, access to information, thunderstorms, growing things, self-sufficiency, and inquisitiveness.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- where exactly my life is headed

- crochet patterns

- what I should make for dinner

- A lot of fonts. Whether or not I have room in my hard-drive for more fonts. Whether or not I should I try to build my own letterpress. Whether or not I have the chops to finally try my hand at drawing fonts out freestyle, or use my software to make my own digital fonts. Fonts.

- my identity and what it means to me and how that affects my interactions with other people

- the sources of my anxiety and other disorders

- practicing Spanish in my head to ensure that I don't go rusty (not many people to practice with around here)

- how I can best push my way into the industries I want to be a part of as an employee
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
home, watching my SO play video games while I knit, or practicing the erhu or morin khuur or a vocal piece.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am constantly terrified by the possibility that my life won't turn out the way I want it to.
You should message me if
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You have more than single-word conversations.

Your interests are eclectic and varied and your brain is in constant overdrive to keep up with you.

You think there's something new you could learn from me or that we could learn together.

I've made you laugh.

I've made you consider.

I've made you interested.