Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: One Hundred Years Of Solitude (I know some parts by heart,
but I don't know if that is good or simply reveals that I can be
very obsessive), and Borges' short stories. Now I'm reading
Gladwell's Outliers (very original, I know), and Allan Bloom's Love
and Friendship (what has a closeted gay neoconservative have to say
about that...?). I also like Jonathan Swift's books. And
newspapers, magazines, and so on.
Music: Pink Floyd, Roger Waters, Peter Gabriel, Leonard Cohen, The
Cure, REM, Paul Simon... If you find that too depressing, I can
switch (only for you) to Coldplay, U2, Khaled, African music
(Youssou N'Dour, Femi Kuti, Fela Kuti, or Wazimbo... I bet you
never heard of that last one). I like disco in small dosage. I am
also ready to listen to other stuff.
Movies: Being John Malkovich, Jesus of Montreal, The Legend of
1900, Amelie, A Very Long Engagement, Before the Sunset (but not
Before the Sunrise), and every Woody Allen movie up until
Deconstructing Harry... again, if it is too pretentious, we can
watch Avatar (I actually liked it, maybe because I haven't seen
Food: I like almost everything. I can brag I have eaten crocodile,
which I liked. I can't stand junk food...