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papabear1420

27 / M / straight / Single

New York, New York

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Black
Height
6' 1" (1.85m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Japanese (Poorly), Other (Fluently)

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I am cool, charming, and complex.

My Self-Summary

If I had to sum my Self up in a few short sentences then I would say that I am funny, smart, and laid-back. I love to meet new people and learn what makes them tick. I am slightly more stubborn than you would expect from a Libra (if you don't know horoscopes just smile & nod here) but it just adds to my charm.

I am a born & raised New Yorker but I have moved around enough that I don't come off as one.

Anything else you would want to know about me you can ask.

What I’m doing with my life

Well, Right now I am working for an insurance company while looking for a better job. I am also looking forward to finishing up with school so I can get my dream job.

I’m really good at

Listening. I mentioned before that I like to pick peoples brains and find out what makes them tick. this is probably why I am studying sociology. I am also a very good cook.

The first things people usually notice about me

I have been told that I can be kind of intimidating because of my size. Anyone who really knows me though knows I'm really a push-over. I also like to smile and laugh at lot so I guess that makes me stand out.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

A)BOOKS: Flowers for Algernon (Charlie) by Daniel Keyes, Fahrenheit 451 Ray Bradbury, Brave New World by Aldous Huxley, Lord of the Flies by William Golding, The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams, the Sandman Chronicles by Neil Gaiman, anything else by Neil Gaiman, They Cage the Animals at Night by Jennings Michael Burch, the Harry Potter Series, anything by Terry Goodkind, Ken Follett, and Ann Rice.

B)MOVIES: Silence of the Lambs, Full Metal Jacket, A Clockwork Orange, Forrest Gump, Bruce Leroy(the blaxsploitation era is a guilty pleasure of mine), The Butterfly Effect, Donnie Darko, Pulp Fiction, Annie, 40-year-old Virgin, Harold & Kumar Go To White Castle, Waiting, Dogma, Office Space, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Short Circuit, Spaceballs, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Memento, American History X, Dumb and Dumber, Ace Ventura, Fight Club, Don't Tell Mom The Babysitters Dead, clerks 1 & 2, Black Snake Moan, Anything Disney or Pixar. I am also a connoisseur of all things Anime and Manga..... its how I keep in touch with the child inside me while not having to watch spongebob squarepants.....

C)MUSIC: I listen to just about everything but my favorite artists at the moment are: Alicia Keys, Anthony Hamilton, Big Pun (R.I.P), Bob Marley, Busta Rhymes, Common, System of a Down, Disturbed, Donnie McClurkin, Eminem, Evanescence, Fallout Boy, Fort Minor, Hoobastank, Jadakiss, Jaheim, Jay-Z, John Legend, Kanye West, Jadakiss, Kanye West, Kirk Franklin, Lauren Hill, Linkin Park, Ludacris, Missy Elliott, Mos Def, Musiq Soulchild, My Chemical Romance, Nas, Ne-Yo,.....and too many more to list here......

D)Foods: I am a foodie.... I love to cook it all.... but I am especially fond of all things soul and ethnic (I have been recently falling love with all things Indian..... and Juniors Boston Creme Pie..... if you have never been to New York City or if you are planning to go, make sure you put Juniors on your to do list of places to visit (the one in Brooklyn not the Manhattan one.... no real difference except that one in Manhattan is priced to squeeze a few more bucks out of the naive tourists)

The six things I could never do without

1) my friends
2) my family
3) my computer
4) my game
5) breathing
6) my........... soul?

Not necessarily in this order either......

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Really random things...... lemme think about it and get back to you

On a typical Friday night I am

Lately, on a typical Friday night I am probably just getting off work. Since I work in sales my work hours are really random but they usually end up running into the evening which has been killing my social life. That is part of the reason I am job hunting now. That and commission based pay and a crappy economy are not a good combination.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have a thing for girls who wear glasses. I don't know why but I do. I am usually an open book but this is about as private as your going to get from me unless your willing to share also.

You should message me if

You are looking for someone to chill with, chat with, or basically shoot the proverbial shit with.