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37 Merrick, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:10pm
Black, White
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Polish (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Swahili (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a big fan of foreign and independent films, politics (lefty). I'm always reading a good book--of the bound variety. (New-fangled Kindle thingamajigs just ain't the same.)

Love the thrill of the hunt with thrift shopping and appreciate art and design. I paint and draw but I've mainly been painting faces these days.

I'm big on learning about different cultures and foreign languages. I would love to go to just about every place on the map but Turkey, Brazil, South Africa and Ireland are on the top of my list. Also love a good road trip. I'm inclined to pick up and go on short notice and would love a travel buddy. :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working for the man (18 of them - will explain)


Fancy book learnin'.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Trying to find a needle in this haystack of the shittiest of needles.

Picking up languages, packing, making little kids stop crying, adding to my book collection via Amazon and Powell's and making a mean meatloaf and mashed taters.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My crazy, curly hair? My laugh? My specs? My racial ambiguity? My ample bosom?

Let me know when we meet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Wetlands, Towelhead, A Map of Home, The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, Girlbomb, anything by Oscar Wilde. Ones with purdy pictures

Movies: Mostly foreigns and indies and oldies. Repulsion, The Man Who Loved Women, Head-On, La Haine, Once, You and Me and Everyone We Know, Whatever Happened to Baby Jane, Pink Flamingoes, Welcome to the Dollhouse

Music: Otis Redding, Sam Cooke, Bob Marley, Desmond Dekker, The Smiths, Morrissey, Radiohead, Charlatans UK, The Stone Roses, Pulp, Blur, Oasis, David Bowie, The Jam, MC Solaar, Yelle, Jeff Buckley, Ray LaMontagne, St. Etienne

Telly: Shameless (UK)- RIP, Love/Hate (RIP), Orange Is the New Black, Mad Men, Bill Maher

Food: Will try anything once but am making an effort to do the elusive healthy/tasty combo these days.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A dictionary, Netflix, a comfy bed, TomTom, my pops...working on a 6th.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...where I put my damned phone.
...why you're such an asshole.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is that I slept with my blankie until the age of 11.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.'re not married. Sadly, it's necessary to mention this.'re a genuinely sweet, kind, affectionate guy who's quick-witted, easy to laugh, altruistic, with left-leaning political beliefs. I'm a sucker for a man who is thoughtful and treats a woman like a lady, with good, old-fashioned politesse.

....if you can cook AND are good at fixing things; that makes me weak in the knees.

...are in need of a bike-riding buddy. I have a neglected apple green Schwinn cruiser (complete with bell and basket) that would love to go for a spin.

....if you've got an accent. I have a soft spot for foreign-born gentlemen.

...if you're a skinny white boy. Just what I'm into. No exceptions, no hard feelings :)

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