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36 F Merrick, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:08am
Black, White
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Polish (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Swahili (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a big fan of foreign and independent films, politics (lefty). I'm always reading a good book--of the bound variety. (New-fangled Kindle thingamajigs just ain't the same.)

Love the thrill of the hunt with thrift shopping and appreciate art and design. I paint and draw but I've mainly been painting faces these days.

I'm big on learning about different cultures and foreign languages. I would love to go to just about every place on the map but Turkey, Brazil, South Africa and Ireland are on the top of my list. Also love a good road trip. I'm inclined to pick up and go on short notice and would love a travel buddy. :)
What I’m doing with my life
Working for the man (18 of them - will explain)


Fancy book learnin'.
I’m really good at
Trying to find a needle in this haystack of the shittiest of needles.

Picking up languages, packing, making little kids stop crying, adding to my book collection via Amazon and Powell's and making a mean meatloaf and mashed taters.
The first things people usually notice about me
My crazy, curly hair? My laugh? My specs? My racial ambiguity? My ample bosom?

Let me know when we meet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Wetlands, Towelhead, A Map of Home, The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, Girlbomb, anything by Oscar Wilde. Ones with purdy pictures

Movies: Mostly foreigns and indies and oldies. Repulsion, The Man Who Loved Women, Head-On, La Haine, Once, You and Me and Everyone We Know, Whatever Happened to Baby Jane, Pink Flamingoes, Welcome to the Dollhouse

Music: Otis Redding, Sam Cooke, Bob Marley, Desmond Dekker, The Smiths, Morrissey, Radiohead, Charlatans UK, The Stone Roses, Pulp, Blur, Oasis, David Bowie, The Jam, MC Solaar, Yelle, Jeff Buckley, Ray LaMontagne, St. Etienne

Telly: Shameless (UK)- RIP, Love/Hate, Orange Is the New Black, Mad Men, Bill Maher

Food: Will try anything once but am making an effort to do the elusive healthy/tasty combo these days.
The six things I could never do without
A dictionary, Netflix, a comfy bed, TomTom, my pops...working on a 6th.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...where I put my damned phone.
...why you're such an asshole.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is that I slept with my blankie until the age of 11.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
you're a genuinely sweet, kind, affectionate guy who's quick-witted, easy to laugh, altruistic, with left-leaning political beliefs. I'm a sucker for a man who is thoughtful and treats a woman like a lady, with good, old-fashioned politesse.

....if you can cook AND are good at fixing things; that makes me weak in the knees.

...are in need of a bike-riding buddy. I have a neglected apple green Schwinn cruiser (complete with bell and basket) that would love to go for a spin.

....if you've got an accent. I have a soft spot for foreign-born gentlemen.

...if you're a skinny white boy.