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37 • Merrick, NY • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 32–42
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 2:02pm
- Black, White
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body type
- Catholicism, and laughing about it
- Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), French (Okay), Polish (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Swahili (Poorly)
Love the thrill of the hunt with thrift shopping and appreciate art and design. I paint and draw but I've mainly been painting faces these days.
I'm big on learning about different cultures and foreign languages. I would love to go to just about every place on the map but Turkey, Brazil, South Africa and Ireland are on the top of my list. Also love a good road trip. I'm inclined to pick up and go on short notice and would love a travel buddy. :)
Fancy book learnin'.
Picking up languages, packing, making little kids stop crying, adding to my book collection via Amazon and Powell's and making a mean meatloaf and mashed taters.
Let me know when we meet.
Movies: Mostly foreigns and indies and oldies. Repulsion, The Man Who Loved Women, Head-On, La Haine, Once, You and Me and Everyone We Know, Whatever Happened to Baby Jane, Pink Flamingoes, Welcome to the Dollhouse
Music: Otis Redding, Sam Cooke, Bob Marley, Desmond Dekker, The Smiths, Morrissey, Radiohead, Charlatans UK, The Stone Roses, Pulp, Blur, Oasis, David Bowie, The Jam, MC Solaar, Yelle, Jeff Buckley, Ray LaMontagne, St. Etienne
Telly: Shameless (UK)- RIP, Love/Hate (RIP), Orange Is the New Black, Mad Men, Bill Maher
Food: Will try anything once but am making an effort to do the elusive healthy/tasty combo these days.
...why you're such an asshole.
...you're a genuinely sweet, kind, affectionate guy who's quick-witted, easy to laugh, altruistic, with left-leaning political beliefs. I'm a sucker for a man who is thoughtful and treats a woman like a lady, with good, old-fashioned politesse.
....if you can cook AND are good at fixing things; that makes me weak in the knees.
...are in need of a bike-riding buddy. I have a neglected apple green Schwinn cruiser (complete with bell and basket) that would love to go for a spin.
....if you've got an accent. I have a soft spot for foreign-born gentlemen.
...if you're a skinny white boy. Just what I'm into. No exceptions, no hard feelings :)
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