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36 M Cambridge, MA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 17
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs
English, Ancient Greek

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i find it awkward to describe myself, so instead here is a description of what's in my living room.

a record player. a beat up croquet set. photos of Cabbagetown in the 30's (if you know where that is, let's talk). old maps. new books and old books, some i've read, some that i keep telling myself i'll read. my dog on the floor. a laptop. a backpack. a bike. an air of victory.

i value sarcasm. i value my family. i value good values. i'd like to meet someone who can share a paper and legitimately make me laugh.

i'm from atlanta and i moved to boston a few years ago. new england has grown on me.

i've been told by a friend i don't photo well. that doesn't bode so well for on-line dating.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
i am an urban designer.
you are a runner.
i am my father's son.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
navigation. fine tuning. nostalgia. brevity.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that i don't avoid eye contact...with anyone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
favorites are tough. i hate to leave anyone out.
lately, i've read
Great Jones Street by Don DeLillo
NW by Zadie Smith
Open City by Teju Cole
The New York Trilogy by Paul Auster
Dissident Gardens by Joanthan Lethem
Point Omega by Don DeLillo
Tinkers by Paul Harding
Vertigo by WG Sebald
The Art of Fielding by Chad Harbach
The Marraige Plot by Jeffrey Eugenides

lately, i've listened to
Big Boi, Phosphorescent, Vampire Weekend, Neil Young, Paul Simon, Sam Cooke, Wilco, Destroyer, St Vincent, John Coltrane

lately i've seen
Inside Llewyn Davis
Blue Jasmine
Museum Hours
Francis Ha
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. my family
2. my dog
3. dogwoods
4. the city
5. the coast
6. bicycles
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how i'd rather be looking at live oaks and salt marshes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
oh you know, grabbing some great pâté , making a pinot run, turning my nose up at things. that sort of shit.
sometimes making last minute plans while secretly hoping people are busy so i can stay in, watch a movie and see how fast i can fall asleep.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i have a crush on Terry Gross
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you like to look in houses at night.
you can take a joke.
you know Mary Chung
you're excited by ethnic neighborhoods.
you crave vietnamese coffee on a saturday.
you're kind hearted, good natured and care about what you do...dammit!