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22 • Brooklyn, NY • Cis Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–40
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 7:45am
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body Type
- Strictly other
- When drinking
- Other, and laughing about it
- Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Working on university
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Polish (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
I was also once told that I looked like "Tori Amos as Delirium." But, that's not usually.
"If Sara has anything, it's opinions"
I watch a lot of movies... http://www.imdb.com/list/K1uUNI_dAQ4/
Music: If it inspires movement or thought, I like it. Diggin on baile funk/ cumbia/ tropical bass vibes mostly right now.
I get foodgasms regularly, particularly from: all the spicy things, mothafuckin' AREPAS!, cheese, mushrooms, gelato, indian, thai, figs, beef bourguignon, couscous, mortadella, arugula, falafel, beets, spinach, pork buns, seafood/fish, raspberries, guacamole, dates, sushi, croissants, empanadas, baguettes, I JUST CAN'T GET ENOUGH.
- mountain air/trees
-gender/feminism/sexuality/intersectionality/etc and how to talk about these topics in more accessible ways
- time travel
- how can i become a tree?
- starting a pierogi food truck
is not a weakness, a passing indisposition, or something we can arrange to do without, vulnerability is not a choice, vulnerability is the underlying, ever present and abiding under-current of our natural state. To run from vulnerability is to run from the essence of our nature, the attempt to be invulnerable is the vain attempt to become something we are not and most especially, to close off our understanding of the grief of others. More seriously, in refusing our vulnerability we refuse to ask for the help needed at every turn of our existence and immobilize the essential, tidal and conversational foundations of our identity.
To have a temporary, isolated sense of power over all events and circumstances, is a lovely illusory privilege and perhaps the prime beautifully constructed conceit of being human and most especially of being youthfully human, but it is a privilege that must be surrendered with that same youth, with ill health, with accident, with the loss of loved ones who do not share our untouchable powers; powers eventually and most emphatically given up, as we approach our last breath.
The only choice we have as we mature is how we inhabit our vulnerability, how we become larger and more courageous and more compassionate through our intimacy with disappearance, our choice is to inhabit vulnerability as generous citizens of loss, robustly and fully, or conversely, as misers and complainers, reluctant, and fearful, always at the gates of existence, but never bravely and completely attempting to enter, never wanting to risk ourselves, never walking fully through the door." - David Whyte
Self-care time with books and writing and stretching
Cuddle puddling with my friends as we plot to create a more conscious, sex positive society
You read obsessively, dance well, and have a good bullshit detector.
Intimacy and feelings don't put you off, perhaps you even find vulnerability sexy.
You value authenticity and accountability.
Please teach me Spanish? *edit: I now speak a little Spanish and would love to practice*
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