-Man with the chemical stare, hands off
-Guy with the terrible hair, back off
-Dude with the look in your eye, leave it
-Man with the beautiful bride, beat it

Me;

A 28 year old woman. Driven, intelligent and sophisticated. I am about to undergo surgery to reallign my body with my brain. I consider it a medical sideline, and not a choice, fetish, or personal preference. I'm NOT a TV , so please don't contact looking discreet sex meets. I am seriously looking to date, but only with age appropriate men. So, being trans doesn't mean I am an easy target for the over 40s.

You;

I am looking for a MAN who wishes to explore the possibility of a relationship. This excludes TVs/CDs, those who are gender variant, or who like to wear anything remotely feminine. He must be taller than I, look after himself and have a clear idea about what he wants in life. Must not be married/ in a relationship, seeking a thrill or be fetish driven. I am long enough in the tooth to sense these qualities, and I won't have them in my life.

**Also, if you are a couple, like other sexual fetishes and imagine that I will too.. you are missing the point. Genuine, respectful and decent men only please.

My appearance; I am 5'7 and getting skinnier by the minute. Just over 9 stone. I have dark brown hair, green eyes, and my clothing choice is a fashion conscious decision, not something I get a thrill from wearing (sorry if that offended anyone!)

Thanks for reading. Check out my blog;

[url=http://www.freedomwithoutprejudice.blogspot.co.uk/2013/01/love-just-trick-of-mind.html]Dear Angel; Belfasts (trans) answer to Carrie Bradshaw[/url]

I plan to move to the mainland. I have been there before and it was great! I had many more friends and social occasions to attend over there. I want a bit of that back. Also, I am at a very defining point of my medical situation. Surgical correction is coming up this summer. Yay me... Then, finally, I can take this half decent body to the beach. Do the things a girl was meant to do at 18. :D

Oooh... I draw, I put myself together well, I advise friends when they come to me. I like to do a little choreography, and I sing... privately and not well... It didn't ask if I had to be skilled! :P

Oh, and I don't know if its something to be considered good at, but I keep a trans dating blog. I don't name and shame, but it is kinda like Carrie Bradshaws columns in Sex and the City... Only geared towards trans women and their suitors. Here is a link; http://freedomwithoutprejudice.blogspot.co.uk/

My little Chery Cole tattoo... Haven't been able to keep my hand outta my face since I got it. Planning on getting her thigh tattoo also, but still questioning the huge rose back piece. :D

Lady Gaga, 80s movie novels, Nightmare on Elm Street (the originals), Spice Girls (*blush), Pretty Reckless, and a few others.

Question... What is this 'food' you speak of? :D

Hmmm... This one is easy;

Straighteners (below 200C)
Makeup
Music
A leather jacket
Perfume
And a guy to warm me up when it gets cold. :D

What to do next and where I would like to go in life. As much as I try to avoid bringing it up in live conversation, my surgical status has been a big pause button. Once that is over with, I can start doing all of the things I should have already done at this age.

Sitting in and drawing, usually, or catching up on the soaps. Don't get me wrong, Id love to be out partying hard and going wild, but I just don't. Belfast gets boring after the first few goes... Unless, of course, you do it with someone new. :D

I think I have already done that... Haha ;)... But a womans heart is an ocean of secrets... like the old dear said in Titanic... What does she know? I picked up the heart of the ocean for 7.00 on eBay.

You are a good person and do not care what others think. Not specifically what they think of me... But you. I like someone who is their own person and serious intentions or not, knows how to make a girl feel special. Also, I get that sexuality is a difficult thing for many to deal with, but I am just a girl at the end of the day. If you are battling with sexuality, or trying to figure out if you like the male anatomy, best you don't message me. I have experienced a few of these. They date for a few months, and ultimately walk off into the sunset with someone who either has what I should have (a non-trans woman) or a guy. I've been a sexuality litmus test for about 13 years now..