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paradox_bound

48 M London, UK

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 16
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of space camp
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a sociable loner who cares enough to let people be. I am an outgoing introverted and paradoxical.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to create something good. On a less esoteric level I trying to put together all the positive things I discover for myself and and are shown through others into something practical and good.

I live an open, honest life, If you want to label it a little more, try anarchist, hacker. If you don't know what they are or even if you think you do, look them up you might be surprised.

I would like to find someone else to share in my life either a life partner or something more transient but I as I look around here most people I like are either not available, or not attractive to me.

Living the dreams, the little ones: a nice place of my own, good food, interesting books (I read about three or four a week), great days and nights out and cosy nights in.

I live in South East London and like the area having lived on an off there for the last 15 years but I am not attached to it.

At work, I build and administer high end IT systems, usually it is fascinating work and I love the thrill and buzz of making programs, processes and people work, it isn't my life but a good expression of it. I run three teams across 2 continent I mentor the juniors and support the seniors. So I am not a stereotypical low social skills geek. I do the hardcore technical stuff too but don't expect me be able to explain it, at least not unless you know your BGP from your PGP. How. who and what I do at work is a refection of who I am. I am lucky to be able say that.

I scuba once or twice a year, love the macro stuff my ideal dive is only to 5-15 meters watching the life of the reef unfold before me.

I love anything on two wheel bicycles and motorbikes, I have a special place in my heart for the sound and feel of a Triumph triple and the sound of a single cylinder Enfield as you pass slowly through a village in India.

A few years I got lazy and put on more than a few pounds but I did the New Year gym resolution thing and surprisingly I have kept at it. So now I go to the gym or pool 2-3 times a week and walk an hour a day slowly I am reaching my ideal weight but I am probably worse than most women when it comes to chocolate.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
... being me, It has taken a while and I found it quite hard at first. I love philosophy, history and learning about the world and how it ticks. I am, I hope without sounding too arrogant, quite good at most things and very good at enjoying what I do.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am not what they were expecting good and bad. :D

I have a nice bum and good legs.

I have kind eyes.

Apparently I am easy going and easy to talk to, to be honest I am usually a bit too wrapped up in moment and the project of the moment to notice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love my music The following although no way typical of my musical tastes have been added recently to my last.fm and Spotify accounts for outstanding rightness: The Knife, Lykke Li, B.B. King, Run DMC, Bat for Lashes, Mr Scruff, Fat Freddy's Drop, Gui Boratto, Bessie Smith, Janis Joplin, Krumelur, Chet Baker, The Upsetters, Roots Radics Band, The Observers, Sly & The Revolutionaries, The Aggrovators, Aretha Franklin, Dionne Warwick, James Blunt, The Slackers, Ben Klock, Roots Manuva, Dean Martin, Fever Ray, Leonard Cohen, Ulrich Schnauss, TC, Ricardo Villalobos, Propellerheads, Shirley Bassey, Cut Chemist, Stanton Warriors, Jem, Battles, Fred Astaire, Kruder & Dorfmeister, Cold Cut

I am currently a voracious reader, I read far too much mediocrity on my Kindle but like a parched man finding an oasis I love it when I come across a good book, I just finished reading Anne Charnock A Calculated Life best book of the year for me. Quality SCFI Ian M Banks, Alastair Reynolds and Ken Macleod top my list there (why are all three Scottish)? Get me reaching for the big bucks. I also like Kafka, The Trial over Metamorphosis Camus The Plague over the outsider. I love his struggle to be right and do right. and Satre. I have read quite a bit of a philosophy over the years Neitzsche and Taoism stand out, the first for telling you how to get there and the second for being there. I keep promising myself I will read more contemporary literary fiction but I rarely see something to catch my fancy. Maybe you can help?

Film is a big love and has been since I was a freaky little quiet kid watching Saturday Matinee double bills on BBC 2, all the b&w and early colour Hollywood classics. I am a big fan of contemporary Korean cinema, they are producing a lot of really creative and original material. Anything Studio Ghibli, people need to be reminded how to be good to each other. European cinema always has some thing interesting to watch. Don't expect me to be an art house snob however, sometimes I just want people running around beating on each other preferably with spaceships and ray guns.

Proper Chinese food rocks Dim sum. Also a big fan of Thai and South Indian cuisine Dosa's are great.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Old friends,
New experiences,
Watching strangers be kind to each other,
Fast bike rides,
Slow dives,
Interesting things to make and fix.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What, why, followed by how, followed by what if.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing alone in my pants to an eclectic mix of tunes.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am dancing alone in my pants to an eclectic mix of tunes.
You should message me if
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If you are the shopkeeper, a moomin, Snufkin or any of the clangers.