(To Whom It May Concern: I'm in a transitional phase right now. Just recently moved from Boston, currently temporarily in CT... on my way to Oregon Feb/Mar 2010)

- Paradox Cake -
Ingredients & Instructions

In a bowl mix:
2 cups Acrylic Paint
2 cups Nuclear Fusion
1/4 teaspoon black liquid ink

Melt into a sauce pan:
2 sticks of free range cow's organic butter, produced sustainably
4 heaping tablespoons of silliness ...stir together
Add 1 cup boiling water
...Boil for 30 seconds remove from heat, pour over paint and fusion mixture then stir lightly to cool.

Pour into a large measuring cup:
1/2 cup campfire ash
Add 2 beaten organic, free range hen's eggs, sustainably farmed (or 2 beaten "slaves" if preferred)
1 teaspoon curiosity
1 teaspoon passion
1 1/2 teaspoon quality organic vanilla extract

Combine the two mixtures, pour into a buttered, floured sheet pan and bake at 350 for 20 minutes.

While the cake is in the oven begin to make the icing:
Finely chop 1/2 cup toasted 8Gb memory cards
Melt 1 3/4 sticks organic butter in sauce pan
Add 4 heaping tablespoons more silliness ...stir until well mixed and remove from heat.
Add 6 tablespoons of humor
1 teaspoon wickedness
Approximately 1lb tropical beach sand
Stir together, then combine the chopped memory cards.

Pour over warm cake and share and enjoy immediately.

...For a more literal summary:
---25
---Scorpio
---Loves the city, but was born and raised in the midwest so still a country gal in many respects
---Bohemian Artist meets Intellectual Scientist
---Earthy Hippy meets Ambitious Entrepreneur
---Compassionate human, animal, and mother earth activist
---Polyamorous but not sexually casual and only with full knowledge and consent of partners
---Dominant and prefers to have power exchange based romantic relationships
---Keeps a regular Journal and thinks it'd be good if pretty much everyone else did too... And not just for future anthropological reasons either, although that's always a good one
---Loves friends like family
---Loves family more than own right hand
---Agnostic, spiritual and connected to the world and people. Created personal "religion" called The Quest. In a nutshell: Strive to be nonviolent, consider what violence is. Explore the world and self entirely and infinitely.
---More curious than a cat
---Has a cat, so is pretty confident in previous statement. Her name is Kitsune.
---Very driven but somewhat prone to being easily distracted.
---Short tempered but easy going... Perfectionistic, neurotic and demanding yet empathetic, flexible and forgiving... Bold, but shy... impatient yet willing to endure...
---A Dreamer, but not the only one.

I'm starting a business with one of my significant others. Hopefully it will be successful and we can use it to pay the bills, build a profitable company and fund a non-profit global aid organization and provide clean water, education, skill building classes and other important services to people in need.

Sometime relatively soon I intend on enrolling in some photography classes. Perhaps it might lead to the combination of two of my great loves: Art and Travel.

Outside of career aspirations, I've overcome quite a bit of adversity and I continue to do so. I'm quite passionate about becoming unfettered by my past and building a solid future for myself and family. I'm in a constant process of growing and developing as a person.

I'm also house shopping along the West coast and trying to figure out where to settle down at, so take note that my location is very flexible at the moment.

Also I'm currently learning Spanish! Hola.

That's too difficult and biased. I'll go from a different approach.

Things I've been complimented a lot on:
Cooking, Being crafty (not in the way of traditional "crafts" which I am also good at, but rather I get called a combination of Martha Stewart and McGyver a LOT), Artistic stuff, Being supportive and helpful, Insight into human interaction, and... is it terribly egotistical to list Sex here too? Well. I have been complimented in that area a lot too so I'm adding it.

I get told frequently that I'm "very animated" and "cute". Not really sure what that totally means, but hey there ya go.

And oh yeah. My eyes and long hair.

Book: Why Does He Do That, by Lundy Bancroft -that's an easy favorite pick because of how meaningful it was in my life. BUT I am an avid reader and really love books and reading (I even named my 2 cats after book titles). My tastes range from children's books to serious novels to textbooks, autobiographies to cook books, National Geographic Magazine to Entrepreneurial guides. I'm very interested in developing a wider range of reading in the areas of great science fiction and real quality mysteries... so if any of you have some suggestions I'm looking for titles to add to my To-Read List. :)

Movie: Much more difficult, I guess if I'm in a pinch it comes down to three: The Joy Luck Club, Snatch, and Spirited Away. Those aren't really necessarily my favorites but they are surely in the top ten and definitely describe my movie tastes. Oh. I can't omit the Celebration.... Its a recent favorite.

Music: I'm surely a music slut. I'll listen to a little bit of everything. My top three would be: Radiohead, Pink Floyd and... classical music in general.. I also love Opeth. One of my significant others just recently graduated with a degree in film scoring and bass performance so music is a big part of my life.

Food: Mexican, Indian, Thai, Chinese, Italian, American, Caribbean, Vegetarian/Vegan, my homemade food & family recipes. I love to cook. I love food. I love culinary art. I'd say I'm half Artist and half Scientist so the two personality elements converge very nicely in Culinary Art.

"could never do without"
Well. That is sort of silly. And quite subjective.

1-Clean water
2-Fresh, wholesome food
3-Unpolluted air
4-Adequate Clothes
5-Adequate Shelter
6-Companionship & Love

What I'd hate to have to do without:
1- My loved ones
2- Scarves & Socks in Winter
3- The INTERNET
4- oh god, I can't believe I waited until #4 to think of SEX-- maybe I should put that on the other list?
5- Hairbrush--- I have very long hair.
6- Some form of long distance transportation

sex drugs and rock n roll... just kidding, or am I?

More accurately: human/animal rights, saving the environment, self betterment stuff, my family & friends and whats going on in their lives, random current events, business related stuff, To-Do Lists, my future plans, travel plans.

Lately I've been thinking a lot about how the universe was created, M Theory, the potential of past lives actually being possible (or not?), getting the new place I'm at unpacked and clean and where I'm going to be moving to next.

I've also been thinking a lot on how to simplify everything and on learning how to build a more structured and scheduled life for myself. I'm dreadful at keeping up a routine but I find them so securing and helpful.

I like to do a lot of thinking.

.....who knows. Since I just revealed I'm not good with routines this is pretty much impossible to answer. But generally I'd like to be with friends, frolicking with my loved ones, vegging at home with the guys, cooking an exquisite dinner, traveling to a new place, or swimming. (I could be a transplanted mermaid sans tail.) I also love people watching and nature walks. And while not typical right now, I'd like to go to see more live classical music and theater.

I'll share a recent personal revelation: I'm finding myself to be a bit of a voyeur. Not in the sexual way necessarily, though I wouldn't exclude that. But more that its an underlining element of my personality. My love for photography, my deep deep curiosity, my profound enjoyment of anthropology. Really a lot of who I am seems tied to enjoying observing and contemplating my companions in the universe.

You are a young woman who is submissive and bisexual or a lesbian or what the heck, even bi curious since I love to introduce individuals to new things. If you also have a great sense of humor, love nature, love life, are sweet, open-minded, honest, introspective, loyal, talkative and lusty that'd be even better.

But go ahead and message me if you aren't any of that, but just want to make a new friend and have a good, deep conversation. Or maybe a recomendation on a good place to settle down, or a good book.

I'd also love to hear from anyone who is fluent in Spanish and would like to casually tutor me in it and I could tutor them in English if so desired.

Just don't message me if you are looking for casual sex, phone sex, cyber sex, to be negative and degrading, or any other such nonsense.