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paragon9i

56 / M / straight / Single

Wichita, Kansas

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I am Chivalrous, Libra-Sanguine, and mercifully faithful.

My Self-Summary

Well, I won’t say so much any more here as to, could I sweep U off Ur feet and dazzle U with brilliance.? Or might I tell U I’m a person who is striving to be of honest and noble character (sure, yea right).! Maybe might I baffle U with ‘B/S’ as other “Priceless Messages” U have received as it would seem, I’m sure, from jerks = idiot’s, that make U Fractious, I would guess.! . Well Let me show U I’m a Gentleman and “Chivalry” is still alive and well.! View my profile with an open mind and seek what U may, but remember.! . The mind is like that of a rustic book found in a loft of parachutes. Never judge by its cover, or that it appears daunting, for it may be of those things posing a challenge.!? What If, when “Opened” it could take us to palaces we could not see at first glance.! .

What I’m doing with my life

So Do U believe the concept of people can meet, take time to first build that "chemistry" which might not be spontaneous BUT achieved in Chivalrous First Date and time… ……………………………….. I think we need to re-establish the basic fundamentals in relaitionships, get back to “KISS” (keeping it simple ....).! I believe in the concept of talk, meet second and chemistry after (in personality); I believe that first impressions get lost in appearance and that people should take time to make friends first to build that chemistry. Be patient U never can really tell a book just by its cover, what content maybe laying in wait for U to simply, open, look and see… What about it.? But, hay U should get it, but so if u don’t then what would be the point.!

I’m really good at

I once read this little poster with a bunch of ducks wondering amilesie around as if lost.! the capition read "If U Can't Lead, Get Out of the Way and Follow"...! . My Dad always use to say "Do your best at what U know, but admit to what U don't know as well"...! .

The first things people usually notice about me

So, Do U believe in the concept of spontaneous first chemistry.? ……………………………………………………………………………….. or Do U believe the concept people can meet, take time to first build that "chemistry" which might not be spontaneous, BUT achieved in a Chivalrous First Date and time...?

The six things I could never do without

U have to ask because some require explaintion...! (and-NO its nothing preverted...!)

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

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You should message me if

U do not judge a book by its cover.? U give people a second look.! U can be shy but make friends easily. U like being spontaneous &/or planned activities. U accept compliments well. U R easily excited about events, activities, special occasions and cool things.! U can Tease and can-take-joke (dido-dido). U don’t hold a grudge or stay mad very long, especially after dark (nor I vise-verse’a) and ALWAYS agree to make-up the same day.! …………………………………………………………………….. OH, PS; U R Feminine, (NOT a Feminists.! ) the more U R the better.! And LONG Hair – I Luv It.!!!