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30 M Philadelphia, PA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 19
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), German (Poorly), Other

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My self-summary
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Seeking "soulmate" or at least somebody half-way kind who doesn't already have fifteen boyfriends. I love getting to the bottom of things through conversations and productive reveries about: music, film, books, celebrity astrology, science, global politics, the emotional complexity of Laura Dern sitcoms and the intellectual complexity of the human condition.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a massage therapist and an aspiring improvisational vocalist. I take both seriously. My job is to help people become more aware of their bodies. It's surreal and rewarding. Other interests/aspirations include: change and growth and stability, maintaining child-like-ness, maturing, having thoughts about music, seeing a ton of films, discussing various half-thought-out schemes and plans with the amazing people that I love.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Understanding and common threads, Music, idealism.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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BOOKS: Moore, Murakami, Meyerhoff.

MUSIC: Arthur Russell--Calling Out of Context; Malaria!--Cheerio; Wagon Christ--Tally Ho!; Brian Eno--Here Come the Warm Jets; Aretha Franklin--Young, Gifted and Black; Doldrums--Empire Sound; KUKL--The Eye; Life Without Buildings--Any Other City; Cocteau Twins--Head Over Heels; Liz Phair--Whip-Smart; Wild Nothing--Gemini; Fleetwood Mac--Tusk; Arms--Kids Aflame; Schneider TM--Zoomer; John Maus--We Must Become the Pitiless Censors of Ourselves; Erykah Badu--New Amerikah Part 2; Lambchop--Mr. M; John Parish and Polly Jean Harvey--Dance Hall at Louse Point; Alice Coltrane--Eternity.

MOVIES: Gypsy '83, Series 7, 3 Women, 2 Days in Paris, Julia, Silver Tongues, The Witches, Savages, I'm a Cyborg but That's OK, You Can Count on Me, Me and You and Everyone We Know, Together, Mr. Nobody, Mister Lonely, The Last Picture Show, The Neverending Story, The Holy Mountain, Holy Motors, Batman Returns, L'Apollonide: Souvenirs de la Maison Close, Suspiria, Marwencol, Attenberg, Taxi Zum Klo, Death Becomes Her, Vampires.

TV: Six Feet Under, Buffy, Carl Sagan's Cosmos, AbFab, The Wire, The Comeback, Wonder Showzen, Work of Art Season 2, Borgen, Louie.

Food: ¡ThAi¡ (please kindly help me cook more. Shared meal creation feels romantic, I imagine?)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Numbers. Futility. Cup. Bonding. Proceeds. Swingsets.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The relevance and/or importance of lyrics, human beings and our thought-influenced behavioral patterns.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Pretending I'm in Mexico City in the 50's.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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"I still believe in getting low. I still believe in the history of half-past ten."
You should message me if
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You want to take me to Portugal.