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paralyzd_byhope

30 M Philadelphia, PA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:59am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), German (Poorly), Other

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My self-summary
Seeking "soulmate" or at least somebody half-way kind who doesn't already have fifteen boyfriends. I love getting to the bottom of things through conversations and productive reveries about: music, film, books, celebrity astrology, science, global politics, the emotional complexity of Laura Dern sitcoms and the intellectual complexity of the human condition.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a massage therapist and an aspiring improvisational vocalist. I take both seriously. My job is to help people become more aware of their bodies. It's surreal and rewarding. Other interests/aspirations include: change and growth and stability, maintaining child-like-ness, maturing, having thoughts about music, seeing a ton of films, discussing various half-thought-out schemes and plans with the amazing people that I love.
I’m really good at
Understanding and common threads, Music, idealism.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm an empty essay... fill me out!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOKS: Moore, Murakami, Meyerhoff.

MUSIC: Arthur Russell--Calling Out of Context; Malaria!--Cheerio; Wagon Christ--Tally Ho!; Brian Eno--Here Come the Warm Jets; Aretha Franklin--Young, Gifted and Black; Doldrums--Empire Sound; KUKL--The Eye; Life Without Buildings--Any Other City; Cocteau Twins--Head Over Heels; Liz Phair--Exile in Guyville; Wild Nothing--Gemini; Fleetwood Mac--Tusk; Arms--Kids Aflame; Schneider TM--Zoomer; John Maus--We Must Become the Pitiless Censors of Ourselves; Erykah Badu--New Amerikah Part 2; Lambchop--Mr. M; John Parish and Polly Jean Harvey--Dance Hall at Louse Point.

MOVIES: Gypsy '83, Series 7, 3 Women, 2 Days in Paris, Julia, Silver Tongues, The Witches, Savages, I'm a Cyborg but That's OK, You Can Count on Me, Me and You and Everyone We Know, Together, Mr. Nobody, Mister Lonely, The Last Picture Show, The Neverending Story, The Holy Mountain, Holy Motors, Batman Returns, L'Apollonide: Souvenirs de la Maison Close, Suspiria, Marwencol, Attenberg, Taxi Zum Klo, Death Becomes Her, Vampires.

TV: Six Feet Under, Buffy, Carl Sagan's Cosmos, AbFab, The Wire, The Comeback, Wonder Showzen, Work of Art Season 2, Borgen, Louie.

Food: ¡ThAi¡ (please kindly help me cook more. Shared meal creation feels romantic, I imagine?)
The six things I could never do without
Numbers. Futility. Cup. Bonding. Proceeds. Swingsets.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The relevance and/or importance of lyrics, human beings and our thought-influenced behavioral patterns.
On a typical Friday night I am
Pretending I'm in Mexico City in the 50's.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
"I still believe in getting low. I still believe in the history of half-past ten."
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to take me to Portugal.