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paranorj

39 San Francisco, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 26–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Nov 21
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, and might want more
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am passionate, compassionate, adventurous, loving, generous, but also silly and unabashedly imperfect. These are the qualities I am also looking for in a woman. If you are prone to unintentionally putting your foot in your mouth, and you can laugh about it, you are my kind of people.

Full disclosure: I am divorced and share custody of an amazing 6 year old boy. He stays with me part of the week. While I am a devoted father, I do have time to date and eventually dedicate time to the right person. I'm open to dating anyone who loves kids, whether you are a parent, want to be one, are not sure you want to be one, or you'd rather be in charge of San Quentin than be one. Since he has a good mother, I don't have to look for one of those.

For many reasons, including becoming a father, I am dramatically more communicative, conscientious, and open than I ever was in my earlier life. Over the years, I have become pretty uninhibited. I'm not for everyone but if I can quote the great and wise Popeye "I is what I Is."

So, like everyone, I have lots of things I love to do. In terms of finding the right person, I personally don't think its a very relevant factor - well, unless you are into some freaky stuff I need to know about. When I have free time, you can typically find me at a martial arts class, running day or night, the movies, a dive bar, the beach walking my dog, yoga, or just chilling on my sofa with a great book. I've gotten quite into personal and spiritual growth so my bedside table rivals a library in Lhasa.

As long as you are generally fit and active, kind, compassionate, and grounded, what you watch, do, listen to, or read, makes absolutely no difference to me. Actually, I'm hoping you'll turn me on to some new stuff.

I work as an attorney - please...please...dont leave my profile yet. I do good work I promise. I don't screw anyone over. Get this, I even get loads of vacation time, get paid well, and work a regular workweek. While I am temporarily a little off my career track, I studied environmental law and management. I am very concerned about animal welfare and wildlife conservation, including the spiders in your bathroom.

I'm a monogamous oriented guy. My goal of dating is to eventually meet someone and have an amazing relationship. That said, I don't jump into relationships. I just don't avoid trying them either.

I love getting out and hitting the trails on a sunny day but you wont find me bitching about rainy foggy days, especially if I have someone to cuddle with (although my black lab is always pretty game for that). I run alot, not competitively, but to clear that "monkey mind" of mine.

I am an affectionate person. If the thought of kissing in a park bothers you or you are the type that likes to sleep on the other side of the bed, please read no further. I am not your guy.

I absolutely love to travel. I've been all over the world. I can stay on a friends couch, a hostel bed, or a tent as easily as a 5 star hotel. I know how to rough it and how to live in style.

Relationships. I was married for some time. I learned a lot. I'm wiser now about what I want then when I got married. I am still open to trying it again someday under the right conditions and with that very special person.

I believe that the purpose of a relationship is to bring out the best in each other. I try hard to look past the superficial to figure out what is in someones heart and soul, since I believe these things are the truest source of lasting chemistry. I love to laugh, goof off, and crack jokes. I can make you laugh when you are having a bad day...guaranteed!

My preference is still to fall in love the old fashioned way, whatever that is. I know, however, that online dating can work. If you think we are a match, please don't hesitate to drop me a line. Ive had better success dating the women who have reached out to me. Not going to analyze why.
What I’m doing with my life
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All kinds of stuff. Always trying to make it better. I am pretty happy with my job but I plan to have my own practice and business one day soon. I pride myself on being a really good father. I am trying to improve my Muay Thai high kicks. I will soon learn to paddle board and speak French. Those things are going to happen! I do volunteer pro bono legal work when I can.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh. Making awesome smoothies. Poop talk with my 6 year old. Certain impersonations. Punching pads. Defusing angry people. Smooth talking to get refunds or better flights. Writing. Reading super fast. Dealing with animals, even vicious ones.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm pretty funny. I don't hesitate to tell it like it is. I am very knowledgable about world affairs. I have a great accent in Spanish. I look younger than I am .
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying, The Power of Now, Atlas Shrugged, Shantaram, The Roadless Traveled, The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, Midnights Children, The Alchemist, Palace of Desire, 100 years of solitude, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Beloved, Americanah
Movies: Kolya, Like Water for Chocolate, Burnt by the Sun, Cinema Paradiso, Legends of the Fall, The Matrix, Barbarian Invasions, and so many more.
TV Shows: Shameless, The Walking Dead, Orange is the New Black, The Ultimate Fighter, Breaking Bad, House of Cards
Music: DJ Cheb I Sabbah, Vampire Weekend, Fun, Karsh Kale, Anoushka Shankar, Krishna Das, Arcade Fire, Group Love, Mazzy Star, Bastille
Food: I have very diverse tastes but I would have to say that I favor Asian/Indian food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
exceptional coffee, a little attitude, true friendship, a spiritual practice, an occasional massage, a hard driving workout, skepticism of authority, and a calculator since I clearly can't count to 6.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What, if anything, is holding me back from living out my true potential?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out with friends to eat at new restaurants/bars, watch movies at home or out, or if I'm tired, stay home and read a book or otherwise just chill at home. I dont feel pressure to go out. I go out when I feel like it and if there is something I really want to do. I may go out late on a Wednesday and stay in on a Friday. If I want to go out and nobody wants to come, I have no trouble going alone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I enjoy a good cuddle. If that's wrong, I dont want to be right.
You should message me if
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You are looking for a guy who is sincere, easy to talk to, engaging, and who knows how to treat a woman right.