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39 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:24am
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
Has dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm an honest, funny, confident, optimistic and authentic guy with a good heart and positive outlook on life.

One thing right off the bat. I co-parent an amazing 6 year old boy. His mother and I get along well and are loving parents. I truly enjoy being a father. I was hugely skeptical of online dating until I had a great relationship with someone that ended but left me feeling more confident about the potential.

You're still here? I'm glad your open minded. I think there are lots of benefits to dating a guy with a kid...1) You know what at least half his genes might look like 2) You know he's fertile and 3) You can mine his kid's brain for details about his father :)

So here is me in a nutshell (Im not nuts I promise)

Adventurous but not an addictive hyperactive thrillseeker. Love the outdoors, especially the coast. The beach is my inspiration and my therapy. I have celebrated many great moments and drowned many sorrows on those windy cliffs of Pacifica and Half Moon Bay. Working out and martial arts, which I do quite a bit of, is my lifeblood. With good coffee and a workout, all is well, no matter what the situation.

Spiritual but not religious. Very dedicated to personal growth and mindfulness. I meditate, do yoga, and attend a spiritual center.

I'm not shy. I love people. I love learning about what makes them tick. I usually strike up conversations at bars. I do have a quiet side as well but I am always happiest when around people. I'm the type of person that gets depressed when houseguests have to leave. I hug strangers without batting an eye.

For work I am an attorney. I have a great work life balance. I do public interest related stuff. I get to learn the intimate details of peoples lives and why they have fallen on hard times, which is inordinately fascinating to me. I also get to write alot, which I love to do. People respect and value my work, which is a great feeling. I earn a good living but I'm not rich. If riches are what you are after, you will have to wait until my start-up takes off.

I love to travel. I have been all throughout the developed and developing world, especially Latin America. I am as ready and willing to stay on a friends couch or in a tent as I am to stay in a 5 star hotel. I have friends all throughout the world who I love to visit.

I am a very tactile and affectionate person. I love to dance. I am not a macho jealous kind of guy but I have developed a strong romantic side after spending too much time with Latinos :) I am a mongamoous oriented individual.

I am raising my child to be a conscientious, empathetic, and loving person. He is my pride and joy. We love spending time together, although I hate when he convinces me to go to Chuck E Cheese (hell on earth).

There's obviosuly more but I learned from all the OK cupid gobblygook analyses that writing too much turns people off. I dont want to turn anyone off, so I will stop right here.

I know that it is for the most part taboo for women to write guys on these online dating sites. However, I really think this is a shame. If you like my profile, and think we are a match, drop me a note. I won't think any less of you for it. Actually, I will think you are cool for breaking the mold.
What I’m doing with my life
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All kinds of stuff. Always trying to make it better. I am pretty happy with my job but I plan to have my own practice and business one day soon. I pride myself on being a really good father. I am trying to improve my Muay Thai high kicks. I will soon learn to paddle board and speak French. Those things are going to happen! I do volunteer pro bono legal work when I can.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh. Making awesome smoothies. Poop talk with my 6 year old. Certain impersonations. Punching pads. Defusing angry people. Smooth talking to get refunds or better flights. Writing. Reading super fast. Dealing with animals, even vicious ones.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm pretty funny. I don't hesitate to tell it like it is. I am very knowledgable about world affairs. I have a great accent in Spanish. I look younger than I am .
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying, The Power of Now, Atlas Shrugged, The Fountainhead, Shantaram, The Roadless Traveled, The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, Midnights Children, The Alchemist, Palace of Desire, 100 years of solitude, The Unbearable Lightness of Being
Movies: Kolya, Like Water for Chocolate, Burnt by the Sun, Cinema Paradiso, Legends of the Fall, The Matrix, Barbarian Invasions, and so many more.
TV Shows: Shameless, The Walking Dead, Orange is the New Black, The Ultimate Fighter, Breaking Bad, House of Cards
Music: DJ Cheb I Sabbah, Vampire Weekend, Fun, Karsh Kale, Anoushka Shankar, Krishna Das, Arcade Fire, Group Love, Mazzy Star, Bastille
Food: I have very diverse tastes but I would have to say that I favor Asian/Indian food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
exceptional coffee, a little attitude, true friendship, a spiritual practice, an occasional massage, a hard driving workout, skepticism of authority, and a calculator since I clearly can't count to 6.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What, if anything, is holding me back from living out my true potential?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out with friends to eat at new restaurants/bars, watch movies at home or out, or if I'm tired, stay home and read a book or otherwise just chill at home. I dont feel pressure to go out. I go out when I feel like it and if there is something I really want to do. I may go out late on a Wednesday and stay in on a Friday. If I want to go out and nobody wants to come, I have no trouble going alone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I enjoy a good cuddle. If that's wrong, I dont want to be right.

In 11 years of marriage, I never once cheated. I'm not a cheater
You should message me if
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You are looking for a guy who is sincere, easy to talk to, engaging, and who knows how to treat a woman right.