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39 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26–44
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My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:45am
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Has a kid, and might want more
Has dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am a laid back and outgoing guy who is looking for someone to share good times, and if the stars are aligned, to start a relationship with.

Full disclosure: I co-parent an amazing 6 year old boy. I love being a father. I have a cordial, no drama, and supportive relationship with his mother. I am legally divorced.

In terms of the things I like to do, well, there are so so many. If I was only a rich trust fund guy, I know for sure I would never get bored. However, since my parents didn't make that happen, (the nerve :), I generally spend my nonwork time doing Martial arts, yoga, working on personal growth, watching films, running on the beach with my black lab, spending time with my son, reading, and getting together with friends whenever I can.

I work as an attorney - please...please...dont leave my profile yet. I do good work I promise. I don't screw anyone over. Get this, I even get loads of vacation time, get paid well, and work a regular workweek. Not bad huh?

I want to give an honest impression of myself. I am not a player. I avoid relationship games like the plague. I'm a likable guy who is easy to talk to. I listen well. I strike up conversations with people everywhere. I can hold a conversation with almost anyone. I have addressed huge gatherings for work without batting an eye. I'm not, however, the kind of guy who is likely to approach a woman with a cheesy pickup line at a bar.

I have great energy and I love getting out to experience new adventures. However, I also love to just chill. If you want to get some breakfast on Sunday morning, hop into bed,and watch movies all day...I am down. I love rainy days. If you want to go on a long run, Im down for that to, but lets go somewhere beautiful, not on a treadmill.

I love to laugh. Crying is not easy for me unless you put on the movies "Project X" (the one about the test monkeys) or Barbarian Invasions (a Canadian film). Then, Ill flood you out of the room.

I would describe myself as thoughtful and considerate. If I hear that a friend is sick, Im going to bring over some chicken soup. Thats pretty much a guarantee. Im also not a pain in the ass friend. Don't call me for a problem. We will pick up where we left off. No guilt trips. People get busy. Friendship is not about control. I have friends that I haven't talked to in years and when I show up at their door in some random country 5 years later, or they show up at mine, the distance fades away. Thats true friendship.

I am an affectionate person. I don't mind at all public displays of affection. If the thought of kissing in a park bothers you or you are the type that likes to sleep on the other side of the bed, please read no further. I am not your guy.

I absolutely love to travel. I don't do solely tourism stuff anymore though. I had my fill of that. Now I travel throughout the world to see friends and family. If its pure tourism, I want to do something in nature. My last trips were to India and burning man. Incredible! Unless its Paris, I really don't want to just randomly tour cities anymore. I definitely do not do group tours.

Relationships. I was married for some time. I learned a lot. Im wiser now about what I want then when I got married. I am still open to trying it again someday under the right conditions and with that very special person.

I believe that the purpose of a relationship is to bring out the best in each other. Co-dependency is to be avoided. I am open to dating women of any color, religion, or nationality. I believe that the more we mix and become a human family, the better.

I try hard to look past the superficial to figure out what is in someones heart and soul, since I believe these things are the truest source of lasting chemistry. I work hard to develop myself spiritually. I love to laugh and crack jokes. To me, everything has the potential to be funny and I can find humor in almost any situation. I do goof off. Kids love me, which is a blessing and a curse. I can make you laugh when you are having a bad day...guaranteed!
What I’m doing with my life
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All kinds of stuff. Always trying to make it better. I am pretty happy with my job but I plan to have my own practice and business one day soon. I pride myself on being a really good father. I am trying to improve my Muay Thai high kicks. I will soon learn to paddle board and speak French. Those things are going to happen! I do volunteer pro bono legal work when I can.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh. Making awesome smoothies. Poop talk with my 6 year old. Certain impersonations. Punching pads. Defusing angry people. Smooth talking to get refunds or better flights. Writing. Reading super fast. Dealing with animals, even vicious ones.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm pretty funny. I don't hesitate to tell it like it is. I am very knowledgable about world affairs. I have a great accent in Spanish. I look younger than I am .
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying, The Power of Now, Atlas Shrugged, Shantaram, The Roadless Traveled, The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, Midnights Children, The Alchemist, Palace of Desire, 100 years of solitude, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Beloved, Americanah
Movies: Kolya, Like Water for Chocolate, Burnt by the Sun, Cinema Paradiso, Legends of the Fall, The Matrix, Barbarian Invasions, and so many more.
TV Shows: Shameless, The Walking Dead, Orange is the New Black, The Ultimate Fighter, Breaking Bad, House of Cards
Music: DJ Cheb I Sabbah, Vampire Weekend, Fun, Karsh Kale, Anoushka Shankar, Krishna Das, Arcade Fire, Group Love, Mazzy Star, Bastille
Food: I have very diverse tastes but I would have to say that I favor Asian/Indian food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
exceptional coffee, a little attitude, true friendship, a spiritual practice, an occasional massage, a hard driving workout, skepticism of authority, and a calculator since I clearly can't count to 6.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What, if anything, is holding me back from living out my true potential?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out with friends to eat at new restaurants/bars, watch movies at home or out, or if I'm tired, stay home and read a book or otherwise just chill at home. I dont feel pressure to go out. I go out when I feel like it and if there is something I really want to do. I may go out late on a Wednesday and stay in on a Friday. If I want to go out and nobody wants to come, I have no trouble going alone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I enjoy a good cuddle. If that's wrong, I dont want to be right.
You should message me if
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You are looking for a guy who is sincere, easy to talk to, engaging, and who knows how to treat a woman right.