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34 • F • Tulsa, OK
- Last Online
- Yesterday – 7:09pm
- 5′ 4″ (1.63m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Dropped out of university
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly)
just moved back to tulsa after living in austin, tx for eight years. i am, at once, terrified & elated to be home. i am the nighttime kitchen manager at a steadily growing, mainly vegetarian cafe downtown - this means i keep odd late-night hours, sometimes have to drop plans to make sure things are running smoothly, do not have normal "weekends" (sunday-monday is my weekend), AND can make really, really good food for you/us.
making little things which are of no significance to anyone but me & the people to whom i give them.
being an animal magnet.
drinking beer. sometimes the fancy kind, but i mostly like lone star.
somehow being equally as incredible at bocce ball as i am awful at bocce ball. (i plan to soon buy a glow in the dark set. it will be bocce time at my place all day, e'ry day. yesplease.)
composing a bonkers good meal from the remnants of your pantry & refrigerator.
movies: the graduate. ratcatcher. all the real girls. la jette/sans soleil. ponette. the year my voice broke. don't tell mom the babysitter's dead. spirit of the beehive. valerie & her week of wonders. pat garrett & billy the kid. secret of nimh. vernon, florida. the red balloon. off the charts: the song poem story. juliet of the spirits. band of outsiders. better off dead. 400 blows. all terrence malick & hal ashby. turtles can fly. jurassic park! so many. so, so many.
tv: freaks & geeks. anything narrated by david attenborough. the wire. the adventures of pete & pete.
music: jason molina. bill callahan. will oldham. david bazan. low. anything phil elverum touches. slint. galaxie 500. wu-tang. the fucking champs. fugazi. bedhead. townes van zandt. shangri-las. epmd. silver apples. karen dalton. people under the stairs. unwound. spiritualized. bill withers. pentagram. shellac. godspeed you black emperor. richard buckner. gang starr. the sonics. otis redding. old modest mouse. eluvium. stars of the lid. jacques dutronc. grouper. forever & ever & ever & on & on & on....
also: hamilton & oliver (my cats).
also: bill callahan, atticus finch, holden, ira glass, snowfall, that dog over there, everyone i've ever known, aquariums, music that makes me shiver, how people might look awesome if they had paws instead of hands & feet, what jason molina would say, & people i want to touch.
- Guys who like girls
- Ages 25–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
(a) watch trains.
(b) go swimming & get your head wet.
(c) hug dogs.
(d) hug cats.
(e) hug mostly anything.
(f) make stuff.
(g) drive forever & ever without fear of getting lost - music loud & windows down.
(h) sit on warm pavement or curbs or porches or grass on hot summer nights drinking & talking about EVERYTHING.
(i) just be simple.
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