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parasol

34 F Tulsa, OK

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:09pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Gemini
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Hospitality
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
i am an advocate of the underappreciated & a lover of most things & most people. i have high hopes for everything. this is good, in theory, but sometimes gets me into trouble. i also take great pleasure in doing awesome shit.
What I’m doing with my life
remembering all the words to all the best songs, accumulating a lot of miles in my car in search of the perfect place, being awed by birds in flight, walking other people's dogs, making heroes of the mountains & the seas, taking everything apart just so i can put it back together again, being fascinated by trains, & making sure not to forget anything or anyone.

just moved back to tulsa after living in austin, tx for eight years. i am, at once, terrified & elated to be home. i am the nighttime kitchen manager at a steadily growing, mainly vegetarian cafe downtown - this means i keep odd late-night hours, sometimes have to drop plans to make sure things are running smoothly, do not have normal "weekends" (sunday-monday is my weekend), AND can make really, really good food for you/us.
I’m really good at
sitting on porches.

making little things which are of no significance to anyone but me & the people to whom i give them.

being an animal magnet.

photographic memory.

drinking beer. sometimes the fancy kind, but i mostly like lone star.

somehow being equally as incredible at bocce ball as i am awful at bocce ball. (i plan to soon buy a glow in the dark set. it will be bocce time at my place all day, e'ry day. yesplease.)

composing a bonkers good meal from the remnants of your pantry & refrigerator.

giving hugs.
The first things people usually notice about me
that i'm probably pretending not to notice them noticing me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books: raymond carver. donald barthelme. j.d. salinger. dc berman. richard brautigan. flannery o'connor. denis johnson. mcsweeney's. spoon river anthology. the story of ferdinand. the giving tree. watership down.

movies: the graduate. ratcatcher. all the real girls. la jette/sans soleil. ponette. the year my voice broke. don't tell mom the babysitter's dead. spirit of the beehive. valerie & her week of wonders. pat garrett & billy the kid. secret of nimh. vernon, florida. the red balloon. off the charts: the song poem story. juliet of the spirits. band of outsiders. better off dead. 400 blows. all terrence malick & hal ashby. turtles can fly. jurassic park! so many. so, so many.

tv: freaks & geeks. anything narrated by david attenborough. the wire. the adventures of pete & pete.

music: jason molina. bill callahan. will oldham. david bazan. low. anything phil elverum touches. slint. galaxie 500. wu-tang. the fucking champs. fugazi. bedhead. townes van zandt. shangri-las. epmd. silver apples. karen dalton. people under the stairs. unwound. spiritualized. bill withers. pentagram. shellac. godspeed you black emperor. richard buckner. gang starr. the sonics. otis redding. old modest mouse. eluvium. stars of the lid. jacques dutronc. grouper. forever & ever & ever & on & on & on....

food: strawberries.
The six things I could never do without
(1) ice water (2) a pen (3) music (4) my driver's license (5) a camera (6) trust

also: hamilton & oliver (my cats).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
not tripping over that last step or bumping my knee on that table.

also: bill callahan, atticus finch, holden, ira glass, snowfall, that dog over there, everyone i've ever known, aquariums, music that makes me shiver, how people might look awesome if they had paws instead of hands & feet, what jason molina would say, & people i want to touch.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i'll tell you pretty much anything, really.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you like to do any of the following:
(a) watch trains.
(b) go swimming & get your head wet.
(c) hug dogs.
(d) hug cats.
(e) hug mostly anything.
(f) make stuff.
(g) drive forever & ever without fear of getting lost - music loud & windows down.
(h) sit on warm pavement or curbs or porches or grass on hot summer nights drinking & talking about EVERYTHING.
(i) just be simple.