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61 Los Angeles, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 45–60
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Like many people living in Los Angeles, I have a lot of interests and not a lot of time. So let me get right to description: I think I can be reasonably and fairly described as a man who is fairly funny, reasonably intelligent, and occasionally charming. I am affectionate but not possessive, sensible but not boring, cultured but not a snob. I like to interact with people who think and feel and have something to say, other than "Whatever dude."

I was born and raised back East in Maryland. I lived in Boston for a decade and now live in Downtown LA. I generally like an urban vibe. I work as a Librarian. I have visited many of the major cities of America: New York, New Orleans, Washington, DC, and Chicago. I enjoy travel, but in many ways I am a home body. See I told you I was paradoxical.

I am a poet and a writer, and I take that craft seriously, but I try to not take myself too seriously. I enjoy my work as a Librarian but I am pretty talkative for a profession known for its silence. I love to be in a good conversation about history, politics, food, music, arts, or film. I am something of a classic film buff. I have wide ranging interests, so some people find me insightful and witty and other people just think I know a lot of trivia. In fairness, they are both right.

I enjoy going to restaurants, pubs, dinner parties, and wine bars. Every now and then I like to go to Las Vegas and gamble in a casino or two. I enjoy horse racing also. But I am also at home in art galleries, museums, and cultural events. I enjoy Baseball, shooting pool, and reading a good book. I am more interested in enjoying myself than I am in impressing others.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work, I write, spend time with friends and family. I like to walk around my neighborhood of Downtown Los Angeles and enjoy the interesting mix of people.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking, writing, joking, observing
Thinking, listening and analyzing
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a sense of humor, and a kind of quirky charm
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Fiction and history. I like a good biography and short stories.

Movies: Singing in the Rain, The Verdict, Night of the Hunter, and about 10,000 more Classic features of cinema (TCM) style.

Music: I love the music of Billie Holiday, Ella Fitzgerald, but I also like progressive rock, blues, and 80’s tunes. I have a little knowledge of classical music, show tunes, and even a bit of country and western.

Food: I enjoy in alphabetical order: American Barbecue, Chinese, Indian, Italian, Mexican, and Thai. But I am happy going to a good old fashioned diner now and then.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A morning cup of coffee or tea
A good conversation with just about anyone
My writing
A nice glass of wine
My sense of humor
World of literature and knowledge
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Politics, my writing, my work, the important people in my life. Where I have been and where I am going in my personal life and my career.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Tired from the week, looking forward to the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a life long Democrat, but I am sometimes amused and enlightened by the antics of Fox News. I don't often agree with them, but I believe it does me no harm to listen to the other side now and then. Whether it is Fox News or CNN, l like open discussion, open minds.
You should message me if
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Hey if you want to communicate then I am glad to listen. But no pen pals please. I do enough writing. I am open to meeting new dating partners or just making new friends. Always happy to show folks the highlights and quirky charm of Downtown LA.