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pareveinabox

25 Charlotte, NC Non-binary, Genderqueer, Transgender

Non-binary, Genderqueer, Transgender

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 19–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:53pm
Orientation
Queer, Pansexual
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Diet
Strictly vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Hebrew (Okay), German (Poorly), Greek (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First, a few important things:
I consider myself queer
And trans*/genderqueer. They/them/theirs pronouns plz.

I am also polyamorous! My primary partner veglyfe and I are in a committed and open relationship. We both pursue both long and short term outside relationships and are open with each other about them. It pretty much rules.

I love performance art, abandoned buildings, judaism, and creative use of grammar.

Who I am attracted to can be pretty fluid, and I'm usually attracted to 'people' rather than 'bodies'.
'Whom' I am feeling more sexually attracted to can vary drastically from one week to the next, but at least that means I'm never bored, and always trying to keep up with myself.
Currently this includes masculinity, in whatever form or forms it takes.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
embarking on the journey that is grad school.
also working and being vegan, for the most part
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
untangling knots.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
how TOUGH AND INTIMIDATING I am ...

Or that I'm pretty androgynous
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books:
Gender Outlaw [Kate Bornstein]
Herzog [Saul Bellows]
The Chosen [Chaim Potok]
Middlesex [Jeffrey Eugenides]
Everything is Illuminated [Jonathan Saffron Foer]
The Macho Paradox [Jackson Katz]
A Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man [James Joyce]
Howl [Allen Ginsberg] (ok it's not a book but i am perfectly willing to suffer the consequences)

Plays:
Equus [Peter Shaffer]
4.48 Psychosis [Sarah Kane]
Titus Andronicus [Shakespeare]

Movies:
Velvet Goldmine

Shows:
Doctor Who

Music:
David Bowie. He was my first love.
Romantic era composers (I really dig some Brahms and Chopin)
Israeli artists (Idan Raichel, Aviv Geffen, Ivri Lider, to name a few)

Food:
Hummus!!!!!!
Bananas and almond butter
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Black coffee
Books
Autumn
Periodic silence
Crunchy peanut butter
My organs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Judaidm
Quantum physics.
Anarchy.
Essentialism.

Fitting the above things together in different ways.

If my cats could speak, would they have accents?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sleeping or synagogue-ing or working
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have an irrational fear of mannequins.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're queer! and/or vegan, and/or jewish

OR if any of the following have a place in your heart:
androgyny, mad pride, hedwig and the angry inch, anti-capitalist musings, bill w, the apocalypse

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